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Getting into the scene

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Dave, Mar 8, 2009.

  1. Dave

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    In the four or so months it has been since I have come out I have had some major changes in my life. I have moved into a home on my own for the first time in my life, and I have become honest and open with the majority of my friends.

    However I have been wanting to start dating and I have absolutely no clue about how to start. I have heard about gay nights being held at the clubs in Bendigo, however when I try to find out more I cannot find specifics. I truly have no real clue about how to start, however my friends around here are helping, but our efforts seem to be for nil. The only gay guy I actually have met, was through EC, and even then, we only met in passing.

    What should I do? Also Bendigo EC Members (all 2 of you :slight_smile: ) have you heard about any nights in the clubs around here?
     
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    45 seconds on Google got me this.

    Bendigo Gay Society. A social and support group for gay men and women. Weekly drop-in nights, monthly functions. For further info write to PO Box 1123 Bendigo 3352; Tel: (03) 5443 8355, (03) 5443 8187 (AH).

    It's a start. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    :grin: Thanks Lex I'll look into that, I think my search terms are a little too broad or narrow to bring up a decent result, but I'll still keep looking
     
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    Just ring that number, there's always a phone number somewhere full of people who know the answer =]
     
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  6. I was told that The Icon has a gay night on the last Friday of every month, whether that's still the case or not I don't know.
    I haven't gone out clubbing yet, waiting on my friends to turn 18. -_-

    I don't know many other gay people myself, but I've managed to find a few. :wink:
    They're out there, and I'ma start looking for them soon myself.
     
  7. Dave

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    A couple of my friends have decided that they're going to take me to the Icon event this month, so I'll see how that goes
     
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    Good luck! (*hug*) I hope it goes well for you