Three-way - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

14th Mar 2009, 04:31 PM

Have you ever been in a threesome relation(not in sexual way)?

Miles D · 14th Mar 2009, 08:45 PM

not in a sexual way? you mean like a close group of three friends?
yes...
is that the question?

Gumtree · 14th Mar 2009, 10:31 PM

In a relationship sense, nah never.

But I have always been curious!

It would be a pretty great thing if you could get it to work.

A 3way relationship would be really hard to maintain, preventing favorites and trying to keep everything balances and equal between 3 people would be really hard.

I mean just think about sleeping!

You can only really cuddle one person at a time, only one person can sleep in the middle, beds aren't really that big etc.

DexterMorgan · 14th Mar 2009, 10:39 PM

Like...

A love triangle?

davo-man · 14th Mar 2009, 10:48 PM

Hmm, not I don't think I have ever entertained that thought. I don't think I would ever be interested in being involved in one, however if it works for you, all the more power to you.

I would prefer to have just one person who I can spend all my time with and be the one with, if you know what I mean? I think it would be impossible to keep no favourites, but good luck to you

starfish · 14th Mar 2009, 11:00 PM

No I have not. However I have always wanted to be in a love trapezoid.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 15th Mar 2009, 12:51 AM

I never have been in a threesome sexual relationship, but I have lived a kind of threesome relationship when I was around 20.
At that time two of my closest friends were starting dating (they have bee together for 6 years). I was more or less living with them (even if I had my own tiny flat). We were really really close, doing absolutly everything together, includind taking baths and sleeping in the same room (sometimes in the same bed). Thinking of it now, it was kind of strange. It only lasted few months, after I met my boyfriend and things slowly came back to the normal.

Courtneyyy · 15th Mar 2009, 03:29 AM

I never have, but I know the couple that would have the (sexual) threesome with me. A couple years ago the guy had a crush on me and kinda asked me out (it was a weird situation) and last month the girl (drunkenly) told a mutual friend of ours that she has a *lesbian crush* on me, even tho she's straight. I'm sure if I called them right now they'd be up for a threesome.

**Maddy** · 15th Mar 2009, 03:31 AM

Somewhat, but it wasn't really a mutual three-way relationship, it's just that she had both me and another girl caught in her web, and we knew about each other.

Fiorino · 15th Mar 2009, 04:35 AM

I have thought about it, but I concluded that one of the people
will end up feeling left out and it will ruin the system.
A "Love-trapezoid" sounds more appealing to me (4 people).

Bryan · 15th Mar 2009, 04:39 AM

Like a Love Triangle...
-or-
Like Polygamy?

Well... either way, I haven't been involved in either.

15th Mar 2009, 10:40 AM

Like; A and B person loves C person. C person loves both of them. So, C person goes out with both of them at the same time. A and B are okay with it.

Brandford · 15th Mar 2009, 10:50 AM

No and I would never allow myself to be in one, I'm Clingy and over protective, it just wouldnt work

Dazed · 15th Mar 2009, 10:54 AM

i think i could do it.
but then again i support open relationships.

14th Mar 2009, 04:31 PM	#1
MOS KONIG Guest Posts: n/a	Three-way Have you ever been in a threesome relation(not in sexual way)?

14th Mar 2009, 08:45 PM	#2
Miles D Rude... and not ginger. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: everyone Location: San Diego, CA ⇒ Great Barrington, MA Age: 20 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Three-way not in a sexual way? you mean like a close group of three friends? yes... is that the question? __________________ Bowties are cool. Fezzes are cool.

14th Mar 2009, 10:31 PM	#3
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Three-way In a relationship sense, nah never. But I have always been curious! It would be a pretty great thing if you could get it to work. A 3way relationship would be really hard to maintain, preventing favorites and trying to keep everything balances and equal between 3 people would be really hard. I mean just think about sleeping! You can only really cuddle one person at a time, only one person can sleep in the middle, beds aren't really that big etc. __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.

14th Mar 2009, 10:39 PM	#4
DexterMorgan The Lonely Stoner Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Santa Monica, CA, USA Age: 18 Posts: 657 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Three-way Like... A love triangle? __________________ Closets are for clothes; not me.

14th Mar 2009, 10:48 PM	#5
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: Three-way Hmm, not I don't think I have ever entertained that thought. I don't think I would ever be interested in being involved in one, however if it works for you, all the more power to you. I would prefer to have just one person who I can spend all my time with and be the one with, if you know what I mean? I think it would be impossible to keep no favourites, but good luck to you __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

14th Mar 2009, 11:00 PM	#6
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Three-way No I have not. However I have always wanted to be in a love trapezoid. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

15th Mar 2009, 12:51 AM	#7
Eleanor Rigby Filip's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,400 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Three-way I never have been in a threesome sexual relationship, but I have lived a kind of threesome relationship when I was around 20. At that time two of my closest friends were starting dating (they have bee together for 6 years). I was more or less living with them (even if I had my own tiny flat). We were really really close, doing absolutly everything together, includind taking baths and sleeping in the same room (sometimes in the same bed). Thinking of it now, it was kind of strange. It only lasted few months, after I met my boyfriend and things slowly came back to the normal.

15th Mar 2009, 03:29 AM	#8
Courtneyyy ColbieMarie Full Member Gender: GIRL Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Mom, brother and close friends Location: Flagstaff, AZ Age: 23 Posts: 975 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Three-way I never have, but I know the couple that would have the (sexual) threesome with me. A couple years ago the guy had a crush on me and kinda asked me out (it was a weird situation) and last month the girl (drunkenly) told a mutual friend of ours that she has a lesbian crush on me, even tho she's straight. I'm sure if I called them right now they'd be up for a threesome.

15th Mar 2009, 03:31 AM	#9
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Three-way Somewhat, but it wasn't really a mutual three-way relationship, it's just that she had both me and another girl caught in her web, and we knew about each other. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt. Last edited by Maddy; 15th Mar 2009 at 03:43 AM..

15th Mar 2009, 04:35 AM	#10
Fiorino Fio Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina Posts: 1,005 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Three-way I have thought about it, but I concluded that one of the people will end up feeling left out and it will ruin the system. A "Love-trapezoid" sounds more appealing to me (4 people). __________________ Why is it that as a culture, we're more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?

15th Mar 2009, 04:39 AM	#11
Bryan EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: bestfriend & parents Location: South Florida Age: 21 Posts: 530 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Three-way Like a Love Triangle... -or- Like Polygamy? Well... either way, I haven't been involved in either.

15th Mar 2009, 10:40 AM	#12
MOS KONIG Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Three-way Like; A and B person loves C person. C person loves both of them. So, C person goes out with both of them at the same time. A and B are okay with it.

15th Mar 2009, 10:50 AM	#13
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Three-way No and I would never allow myself to be in one, I'm Clingy and over protective, it just wouldnt work __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

15th Mar 2009, 10:54 AM	#14
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Three-way i think i could do it. but then again i support open relationships.