How can I hint to other lesbians that I'm also gay without directly saying it?

I had a similar question about guys. Lol. Just be yourself, talk, flirt, a light touch can work as well, to let someone know your interested in them. I met an overly Hetero guy the other day that I'm sure isn't, one of those guys that over compensates when he's talking about things, engines, 4x4n, girls, but I could almost see a little smile underneath all that, I know where he works, so I'm going to go pay him a visit one of these days and and test out my newly assembled gaydar, see if it's working.

 

You could always fulfil a few of the stereotypes or signs people look for, I hate to admit i do it because it should always be about being your true self ect. but in all honesty these are a few of the traits that hint possibly lesbian to myself (not that i'm a qualified lesbian, i'm still learning)

- If i see a girl with a masculine wristwatch and short nails (i keep my nails short despite not being in a relationship partly for this reason/(and not hygienic for my job)...which i suppose is a bit sad haha)

- this seating position on a chair: If i see a girl who opens her legs and leans forwards resting her elbows on her thighs and clasping her hands. it just screams lesbian to me, i don't know why or if it does anyone else? i'm not saying change your body language but even doing this pose for like 2 seconds would indicate it possibly to me

- eye contact, probably the biggest indication, hold your eyes with hers and let them show excitement/curiosity/knowing and let a small smile naturally happen, break away if too intense but then glance back to meet them again.


but ultimately i would just keep doing yourself , or use your official gaydar by setting your dating app (Swipe left or right) to a radius of 2km and only women haha

good luck : )

 

I do all these things religiously haha. Oh apart from the last one... I don't quite want to be online... I'm a coward.

 

My problem is figuring out who's gay and who's not, I had a crush on a girl all semester last year and it turns out she was straight

 

Well I had a crush on a girl all year but I thought she was straight, so I tried to keep it down and developed a crush on a bi girl. Turns out the first girl wasn't straight and they got together while I was over here stumbling over my gaydar. Now that sucks.

 

That does stink. I think my gaydar is broken.

 

Well at least after that blew up on me big time I no longer had the problem of trying to pretend to myself I was straight - no-one feels that depressed about their friend getting a girlfriend for no reason. I think my gaydar is okay actually, I sensed her gayness I just didn't trust my gaydar since I haven't used it enough. I'll have to see if it works better in the future.