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diegon3 · 19th Mar 2009, 11:16 AM

after seeing the thread with the tattoos i thought that scars are usually seen a lot like tattoos if they are too big or too many they are repulsive if they are the right size and in the right place they can be very attractive
at least that's what i say

any thoughts?

Greggers · 19th Mar 2009, 11:20 AM

Huge turn on. And i voted huge turn off on tattoos haha.

Scars to me are like beauty marks

Its a natural thing on a guy and it almost adds to the sexy factor when the guy is "in the buff". I love natural looking scars atleast, not like horrible face altering ones haha. A little one on the guys back on chest or face though? Mmm sexy.

19th Mar 2009, 11:31 AM

>_> How is it natural if it's a scar? But I don't mind them. I don't tend to care. Unless its on the nether regions. I like my men all intact. I don't mind if they have some combat experience but they need to come home in one piece. You should totally make this a poll!

Greggers · 19th Mar 2009, 11:36 AM

well, natural isnt exactly the right word, but i guess "not fake" or something? Its sexy to me if its not huge and not in the *cough* area haha.

I dont like the tattoos so much because its ink and i LOVE skin...like pure, normal, endless flowing skin. Its so soft, and beautiful...and yea i just love the naked body haha.

Just Adam · 19th Mar 2009, 11:52 AM

i got some scars dam cats so ill go with turn on or im screwed lol

xequar · 19th Mar 2009, 12:45 PM

I hope people find them attractive, since my left leg is covered with them... At least my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind, though

Fiorino · 19th Mar 2009, 01:10 PM

SCARS ARE SEXXXY!!

unless in the aforementioned nether regions...

Tattoos on the other hand are a bit trashy in my opinon no offense,
I can understand if they mean something special but I guess it's just
not my thing...

**Lexington** · 19th Mar 2009, 01:29 PM

Neither. They're a natural thing, so they don't affect me either way. I guess if I saw a ton of self-inflicted scars, then that'd be a turn-off...

Lex

19th Mar 2009, 01:34 PM

scarification can be a turn on for me! it is a form of art....and i have seen it done in the nether regions (not attractive there)

Natural scars are fascinating. its like a persons life story.....in very very broken body language i guess lol

but i find them oddly attractive if they are not really disfiguring.

musicgirl112233 · 19th Mar 2009, 02:06 PM

Neither.
I have a scar on my leg ...I'm going to get some scar remover stuff for it though.

Jack2009 · 19th Mar 2009, 02:30 PM

Depends, like a little one on the eyebrow is cool

But I have to get mine remove

diegon3 · 19th Mar 2009, 02:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Enigma

>_> How is it natural if it's a scar? But I don't mind them. I don't tend to care. Unless its on the nether regions. I like my men all intact. I don't mind if they have some combat experience but they need to come home in one piece. You should totally make this a poll!

how do you make it into a poll?

Brandford · 19th Mar 2009, 02:34 PM

Slight Turn off, they can creep me out at times but most of the time I don't care

carrie90 · 19th Mar 2009, 03:01 PM

deffo turn off

partietraumatic · 19th Mar 2009, 03:11 PM

not really for me,since i like my boys pretty, not like bad boys lol

Janvier · 19th Mar 2009, 03:12 PM

I like natural scars and scarifications

**EM68** · 19th Mar 2009, 03:39 PM

I don't mind them either way. I have a big scare on my rib cage from open heart surgery when I was 10.

Miles D · 19th Mar 2009, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EM68

I don't mind them either way. I have a big scare on my rib cage from open heart surgery when I was 10.

wow..

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I'm going to have huge scars on my chest after I have surgery... so I'm glad to hear it's not a turn off!
example: (from a guy named Eli's blog... not me

)

**EM68** · 19th Mar 2009, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mediumdietcoke

Quote:

Originally Posted by EM68

I don't mind them either way. I have a big scare on my rib cage from open heart surgery when I was 10.

wow..

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I'm going to have huge scars on my chest after I have surgery... so I'm glad to hear it's not a turn off!
example: (from a guy named Eli's blog... not me

)

Thanks. It does not bother me. The summer after I had the surgery I was at the beach and a kid probably 6 or 7 asked me why did I have a scar. I told him a shark bit me. he ran out of the water scared as hell.

Miles D · 19th Mar 2009, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EM68

Quote:

Originally Posted by mediumdietcoke

Quote:

Originally Posted by EM68

I don't mind them either way. I have a big scare on my rib cage from open heart surgery when I was 10.

wow..

---

I'm going to have huge scars on my chest after I have surgery... so I'm glad to hear it's not a turn off!
example: (from a guy named Eli's blog... not me

)

Thanks. It does not bother me. The summer after I had the surgery I was at the beach and a kid probably 6 or 7 asked me why did I have a scar. I told him a shark bit me. he ran out of the water scared as hell.

ahaha that's amazing

19th Mar 2009, 11:16 AM	#1
diegon3 just another human or am I? O_o Full Member Gender: thinks (ok so if it's..) yeah i'm a guy Orientation: thinks hummm definatly gay Out Status: imidiate family, and a few others Location: SEATTLE, WA Posts: 171 Join Date: Feb 2009	scars turn on or turn off after seeing the thread with the tattoos i thought that scars are usually seen a lot like tattoos if they are too big or too many they are repulsive if they are the right size and in the right place they can be very attractive at least that's what i say any thoughts?

19th Mar 2009, 11:20 AM	#2
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off Huge turn on. And i voted huge turn off on tattoos haha. Scars to me are like beauty marks Its a natural thing on a guy and it almost adds to the sexy factor when the guy is "in the buff". I love natural looking scars atleast, not like horrible face altering ones haha. A little one on the guys back on chest or face though? Mmm sexy. __________________ "It's a male duck."

19th Mar 2009, 11:31 AM	#3
The Enigma Guest Posts: n/a	Re: scars turn on or turn off >_> How is it natural if it's a scar? But I don't mind them. I don't tend to care. Unless its on the nether regions. I like my men all intact. I don't mind if they have some combat experience but they need to come home in one piece. You should totally make this a poll!

19th Mar 2009, 11:36 AM	#4
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off well, natural isnt exactly the right word, but i guess "not fake" or something? Its sexy to me if its not huge and not in the cough area haha. I dont like the tattoos so much because its ink and i LOVE skin...like pure, normal, endless flowing skin. Its so soft, and beautiful...and yea i just love the naked body haha. __________________ "It's a male duck."

19th Mar 2009, 11:52 AM	#5
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: scars turn on or turn off i got some scars dam cats so ill go with turn on or im screwed lol __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

19th Mar 2009, 12:45 PM	#6
xequar Diapered and collared! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: scars turn on or turn off I hope people find them attractive, since my left leg is covered with them... At least my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind, though __________________

19th Mar 2009, 01:10 PM	#7
Fiorino Fio Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina Posts: 1,005 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off SCARS ARE SEXXXY!! unless in the aforementioned nether regions... Tattoos on the other hand are a bit trashy in my opinon no offense, I can understand if they mean something special but I guess it's just not my thing... __________________ Why is it that as a culture, we're more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?

19th Mar 2009, 01:29 PM	#8
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: scars turn on or turn off Neither. They're a natural thing, so they don't affect me either way. I guess if I saw a ton of self-inflicted scars, then that'd be a turn-off... Lex

19th Mar 2009, 01:34 PM	#9
greyundrstndng Guest Posts: n/a	Re: scars turn on or turn off scarification can be a turn on for me! it is a form of art....and i have seen it done in the nether regions (not attractive there) Natural scars are fascinating. its like a persons life story.....in very very broken body language i guess lol but i find them oddly attractive if they are not really disfiguring.

19th Mar 2009, 02:06 PM	#10
musicgirl112233 Soy Un Perdedor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off Neither. I have a scar on my leg ...I'm going to get some scar remover stuff for it though. __________________ " Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -A Midsummer Night's Dream Our differences provide opportunties for greater understanding.

19th Mar 2009, 02:30 PM	#11
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: scars turn on or turn off Depends, like a little one on the eyebrow is cool But I have to get mine remove

19th Mar 2009, 02:34 PM	#13
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off Slight Turn off, they can creep me out at times but most of the time I don't care __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

19th Mar 2009, 03:01 PM	#14
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: scars turn on or turn off deffo turn off __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

19th Mar 2009, 03:11 PM	#15
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off not really for me,since i like my boys pretty, not like bad boys lol __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

19th Mar 2009, 03:12 PM	#16
Janvier يَناير Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: France Age: 22 Posts: 849 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off I like natural scars and scarifications __________________ Uncertainty excites me.

19th Mar 2009, 03:39 PM	#17
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: scars turn on or turn off I don't mind them either way. I have a big scare on my rib cage from open heart surgery when I was 10. __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

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