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Came out to another person this past weekend

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ruby Dragon, Aug 29, 2016.

  1. Ruby Dragon

    Ruby Dragon Well-Known Member

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    I am so happy, I am so comfortable with my sexuality now, that I can come out to people without batting an eye. It's so liberating! However, the person I came out to (A new friend), was really curious about it. He asked me how it works. I went out for a drink with him and my bestie, and I saw a really cute girl, and told him that I have an eye for a beautiful woman, and that's basically how I came out to him. He asked me lots of questions, and apologized for being so ignorant about it, but following an "interrogation" (tongue-in-cheek) a while ago from another friend, I kept my cool and patiently listened to his questions and answered them as best I could.

    He couldn't understand quite how it works, but I was happy to inform him. Super thrilled! I'm not sure he really understands it yet, but if future questions should arise, I will gladly answer them. I'm just so happy that I have finally reached a point in my life where I can talk openly about my sexuality, as if I'm talking about the weather or something, lol. (!)
     
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  3. Ruby Dragon

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    I just came out to a work colleague a few minutes ago. He was sort of shocked but didn't react badly, which is wonderful! So yeah, I'm making progress :grin:
     
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    Well done, again:slight_smile:
     
  5. Ruby Dragon

    Ruby Dragon Well-Known Member

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    Thank you x2 (*hug*)