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a secret or no?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Dazed, Mar 19, 2009.

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who knows about you on EC?

  1. No one knows

    61.1%
  2. Everyone knows

    8.9%
  3. Just friends know

    26.7%
  4. Just family knows

    3.3%
  1. Dazed

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    i was just wondering, do your friends and/or family know you are a member on EC?
     
  2. Dazed

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    my friends know. they dont understand why i bother but they just cant relate to being gay. haha
     
  3. Courtneyyy

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    I've always got facebook open on another tab in case someone comes in the room so I can quickly switch.
     
  4. kettleoffish

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    no. I always minimize Safari when someone else is looking near my laptop screen if I'm on EC. My family don't know I'm gay, so they obviously don't know, my friends don't care. I'm sure I've mentioned being a member of a gay forum but I've never specified EC.
     
  5. Myke

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    Just my friends, well some of them
     
  6. Greggers

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    People know "im on a forum" or "in a chat room" but it ends there xD
     
  7. VanceA

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    Ive told my friends that ive found an online support group of sorts... But thats about as much they know.
     
  8. silverhalo

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    Out to everyone
    Its a secret
     
  9. hiddendc4

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    i voted no one know but that only cause one of my friends who is suppotive of me saw what i was looking at on my phone and aske what ec was
     
  10. EM68

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    When I came out to my parents I told them that I joined an online support group but did not get into details.
     
  11. Derek the Wolf

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    Only a handful of friends know. I don't hide it or anything, but I don't mention it often.
     
  12. Maddy

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    My parents and my sister know.
     
  13. mattypants

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    secret right now
     
  14. AzThRg0

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    some family members know, some friends know
     
  15. Z3ni

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    YEaah thats what I do :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: i always have more than one tab incase someone pops in ^_^
     
  16. Mick

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    No one knows and I'm pretty sure it's gonna be like that for quite a while. Unless someone asks me, do you post on an LGBT forum. I will be honest and tell them yes. So far no one has asked, so uh yeah no one knows.
     
  17. I do the same thing. It's a secret for me.
     
  18. BlakeHarmony

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    I don't hide it but it is not something that just comes up in my day to day conversation, occasionally my fb staus will be something like "BlakeHarmony spends way too much time on EC, but likes it too much to stop going on all the time..." if anyone asks I'll link to the welcome page...
     
  19. jazzrawr

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    Meh, I meantion it but nobody really cares what websites I go to. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    My mom and sister know as well. My dad probably knows, he looks through the web history all the time when he's cleaning stuff up.
    So basically anyone who asks who I'm talking about when I talk about one of you guys knows.
     
  20. Mickey

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    Well,everyone knows because I say what a great site I found in EC!
    Of course,I'm older,so everyone who knows me ,knows I'm a lesbian.
    I do talk about EC from time to time. I really like this site,it's the best!