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starfish · 22nd Mar 2009, 06:34 PM

So we are closing in on the end of the first quarter. I am did a quick check today and I am going good. I am about to start coming with my list of goals of the next quarter.

Here are my results

Incase anyone is curious I created the map using a program called MindJet MindManager.

22nd Mar 2009, 06:42 PM

I haven't accomplished anything. I'm pathetic.

**EM68** · 22nd Mar 2009, 06:45 PM

I came out to most of my family. I need to come out to my brother, which I plan to do next weekend. I still have a few of my friends I need to tell hopefully soon.

As far as work I am still working on building my client base.

xequar · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:07 AM

New Years resolutions made-0

Progress on New Years resolutions-just wonderful!

Kenko · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:09 AM

Not resolutions as such but goals:
-I've been doing OK as far as getting to the gym regularly, though I haven't been in the last week. I shall go today.

-My music library is a disaster. I'm part way through building it from scratch. Eg: re-ripping my CDs at a quality that's better than crap.

-I'm looking for a full time permanent job. Haven't landed that yet, though I have a couple of part time / temp offers.

-I wanted to tell my parents, but that's going to be pushed off.

VanceA · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:09 AM

I never had any this year. Last year I vowed to learn how to snap my fingers. I resolved it within the first two months.

Colly · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:22 AM

I Made a new years resolution to lose 30kg.
I'm yet to join a gym

BUT I have managed for further my career, which is a big plus.

**Lexington** · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:44 AM

I wanted to get "back on track", which I've honestly not done so well on. I've gotten the diet and exercise back on track, but I haven't done well on the cleaning. I have an excuse as to why, but I'm not sure if it's a reason.

Lex

Just Adam · 23rd Mar 2009, 08:06 AM

so far ive accepted im gay come out to one person working on treating my depression and sorting other health problems and going back to guy soon to get in shape

no sign of a job on the horizon but still looking for love till then ill jsut keep up the music

Alex19 · 23rd Mar 2009, 08:08 AM

i didnt have a new year resolution... that i remember...

**Martin** · 23rd Mar 2009, 09:09 AM

I am still swearing and biting my nails. Bugger.

Amy · 23rd Mar 2009, 09:19 AM

I'm failing for the most part.
Although I still read Newsweek every week.

aerwolfen · 23rd Mar 2009, 11:30 AM

i was dead until last week,when i made my own discovery,and came out-now i'm alive with reneweed spirit," plus it helps to have a man to play with" i can't believe i said that,i'm so embarassed, but shit who cares ,i'm FREAKING GAY !!!! sorry for being overly excited,yes back to new years plans, yes i will definetly put more thought to 2010.

littledinosaurs · 23rd Mar 2009, 02:39 PM

mine was speak my mind
and i have

Magnet · 23rd Mar 2009, 02:48 PM

I never had a New Years Resolution this year. I will be sure to make one next year.

Eccentric · 23rd Mar 2009, 07:43 PM

Lets see... I have them written somewhere... oh there they are
1. Be active in forums - doing!
2. Stop always giving in to people. Learn to say "no" - not going so well
3. Become awesome artist - I have not been drawing at all, I should work on that
4. Fold Robert Lang's "Black Forest Cuckoo Clock" - about one tenth done

Wander · 23rd Mar 2009, 08:36 PM

Unmade. I don't make resolutions, I do things as they come to me.

Nodnarb · 23rd Mar 2009, 08:42 PM

Mine was to be completely out....

And so far I've come out to one friend. Progress, I guess...

Mirko · 23rd Mar 2009, 08:54 PM

I didn't make any new year's resolutions, because I never keep 'em anyhow.

RENThead · 24th Mar 2009, 02:08 AM

i completed mine - which was to come out to mum.
its been my resolution for the last 3 years...

and my 2nd one was to travel. and i leave in 36days...
going great for the first time ever.

22nd Mar 2009, 06:34 PM	#1
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	New Years resolution status? So we are closing in on the end of the first quarter. I am did a quick check today and I am going good. I am about to start coming with my list of goals of the next quarter. Here are my results Incase anyone is curious I created the map using a program called MindJet MindManager. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

22nd Mar 2009, 06:42 PM	#2
Mysterons Guest Posts: n/a	Re: New Years resolution status? I haven't accomplished anything. I'm pathetic.

22nd Mar 2009, 06:45 PM	#3
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? I came out to most of my family. I need to come out to my brother, which I plan to do next weekend. I still have a few of my friends I need to tell hopefully soon. As far as work I am still working on building my client base. __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

23rd Mar 2009, 07:07 AM	#4
xequar Diapered and collared! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: New Years resolution status? New Years resolutions made-0 Progress on New Years resolutions-just wonderful! __________________

23rd Mar 2009, 07:09 AM	#5
Kenko EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends + parents Location: Canada Age: 26 Posts: 1,407 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: New Years resolution status? Not resolutions as such but goals: -I've been doing OK as far as getting to the gym regularly, though I haven't been in the last week. I shall go today. -My music library is a disaster. I'm part way through building it from scratch. Eg: re-ripping my CDs at a quality that's better than crap. -I'm looking for a full time permanent job. Haven't landed that yet, though I have a couple of part time / temp offers. -I wanted to tell my parents, but that's going to be pushed off.

23rd Mar 2009, 07:09 AM	#6
VanceA Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Awesomely Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Calgary, AB Age: 30 Posts: 227 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? I never had any this year. Last year I vowed to learn how to snap my fingers. I resolved it within the first two months. __________________ "Virescit vulnere virtus"

23rd Mar 2009, 07:22 AM	#7
Colly Homicidal House Plant Full Member Gender: Haha. Dangly Parts Orientation: More Dangly Parts Location: Adelaide, South Australia Age: 22 Posts: 373 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? I Made a new years resolution to lose 30kg. I'm yet to join a gym BUT I have managed for further my career, which is a big plus.

23rd Mar 2009, 07:44 AM	#8
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: New Years resolution status? I wanted to get "back on track", which I've honestly not done so well on. I've gotten the diet and exercise back on track, but I haven't done well on the cleaning. I have an excuse as to why, but I'm not sure if it's a reason. Lex

23rd Mar 2009, 08:06 AM	#9
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? so far ive accepted im gay come out to one person working on treating my depression and sorting other health problems and going back to guy soon to get in shape no sign of a job on the horizon but still looking for love till then ill jsut keep up the music __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

23rd Mar 2009, 08:08 AM	#10
Alex19 who else but me? Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: homo Out Status: I think everyone knows by now Location: New York Age: 21 Posts: 1,301 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? i didnt have a new year resolution... that i remember... __________________ "It's always darkest before dawn."

23rd Mar 2009, 09:09 AM	#11
Martin EC's Red Queen EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,046 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: New Years resolution status? I am still swearing and biting my nails. Bugger. __________________ The blue whale ejaculates up to 40 gallons during sexual intercourse, but only 10 gallons enters the female. Do you still wonder why the sea tastes salty?

23rd Mar 2009, 09:19 AM	#12
Amy DFTBA Full Member Gender: Somewhere between female and I don't know Out Status: Open, not out. Location: Northern California, United States Age: 18 Posts: 2,380 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? I'm failing for the most part. Although I still read Newsweek every week. __________________ "The opposite of love is not hate, but fear" Forrest Church

23rd Mar 2009, 11:30 AM	#13
aerwolfen Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: and a few friends Location: winnipeg manitoba Age: 49 Posts: 178 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? i was dead until last week,when i made my own discovery,and came out-now i'm alive with reneweed spirit," plus it helps to have a man to play with" i can't believe i said that,i'm so embarassed, but shit who cares ,i'm FREAKING GAY !!!! sorry for being overly excited,yes back to new years plans, yes i will definetly put more thought to 2010. __________________ if your looking for me,when times are rough,and your feeling abit odd,jump onto my rainbow,it leads to cloud nine,no worries,I'll be there with open arms and a hug for peaceful bliss.

23rd Mar 2009, 02:39 PM	#14
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? mine was speak my mind and i have __________________ Âllo Là

23rd Mar 2009, 02:48 PM	#15
Magnet EC Member Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Still trying to find it out Out Status: 0% Posts: 730 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? I never had a New Years Resolution this year. I will be sure to make one next year. __________________ MAGNET

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23rd Mar 2009, 07:43 PM	#16
Eccentric Call me Andy. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Texas Age: 18 Posts: 391 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: New Years resolution status? Lets see... I have them written somewhere... oh there they are 1. Be active in forums - doing! 2. Stop always giving in to people. Learn to say "no" - not going so well 3. Become awesome artist - I have not been drawing at all, I should work on that 4. Fold Robert Lang's "Black Forest Cuckoo Clock" - about one tenth done

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Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? Unmade. I don't make resolutions, I do things as they come to me.

23rd Mar 2009, 08:42 PM	#18
Nodnarb Notoriously Homosexual Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Ames, Iowa Age: 20 Posts: 3,875 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: New Years resolution status? Mine was to be completely out.... And so far I've come out to one friend. Progress, I guess... __________________ Better to be hated for who you are, than be loved for who you're not.

23rd Mar 2009, 08:54 PM	#19
Mirko Molitva Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about Location: British Columbia, Canada Age: 35 Posts: 10,052 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? I didn't make any new year's resolutions, because I never keep 'em anyhow. __________________ ~ Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are ~

24th Mar 2009, 02:08 AM	#20
RENThead EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay / Asexual Out Status: everyone who asks Location: Cork, Ireland Age: 22 Posts: 447 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: New Years resolution status? i completed mine - which was to come out to mum. its been my resolution for the last 3 years... and my 2nd one was to travel. and i leave in 36days... going great for the first time ever.