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I'm a lesbian and I think I'm in love with a gay man.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sapphiregirl, Oct 4, 2016.

  1. sapphiregirl

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    I need some help.

    I think I'm in love with a man who happens to be gay and I need to move on from it. This crept up on me slowly over time and has confused me LOADS. I've never had such strong feelings for a guy before.

    He is beautiful, graceful, crazy, kind, caring, down to earth and determined. He's quite feminine and of course I'm very drawn to his femininity. I feel emotionally attracted to him, and also sexually. He's one of the very few guys I've felt sexually attracted to.

    I know I am a lesbian, as I'm primarily sexually attracted to girls, but I do believe sexuality can be fluid and that things can hit you when you least expect it.

    How do you get over it? What can I do to let go? I just cried for about 15 minutes realising he'll never love me one bit. I'd do anything for him. :tears: