I need some help. I think I'm in love with a man who happens to be gay and I need to move on from it. This crept up on me slowly over time and has confused me LOADS. I've never had such strong feelings for a guy before. He is beautiful, graceful, crazy, kind, caring, down to earth and determined. He's quite feminine and of course I'm very drawn to his femininity. I feel emotionally attracted to him, and also sexually. He's one of the very few guys I've felt sexually attracted to. I know I am a lesbian, as I'm primarily sexually attracted to girls, but I do believe sexuality can be fluid and that things can hit you when you least expect it. How do you get over it? What can I do to let go? I just cried for about 15 minutes realising he'll never love me one bit. I'd do anything for him. :tears: