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Videos or Pics of boys

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Worgen2, Oct 8, 2016.

  1. Worgen2

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    When you are in a committed relationship are you not suppose to have other pics of boys or videos of them? I know I see on straight cartoons like Shin Chan the wife always hurts the husband badly when she finds out he has videos of woman or so. Or if the husband looks at a woman and he gets excited and then the wife slaps him. This might just be fake since it is a cartoon but just wondering if this really happens I life. Like if I have pics or videos of boys is that bad since I' am committed with Kent? I don't really think Kent cares since he doesn't ever say anything about them but are you really not suppose to have them?



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    In my opinion...I just feel its inappropriate and disrespectful for someone whose in a committed relationship to have in their possession pictures/videos of guys. I have no problem if I am in a relationship and my partner may comment on a good looking man. However, for him to just gawk and get all excited is another thing. To conclude...its not a good thing for me and I just feel if you have these items in your possession while in a committed relationship then you need to be single or either in a relationship where this is discussed and you and your partner have an understanding in this regard.
     
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    This really depends on the (informal) agreements of the relationship. Personally, I share JonSomebody's view. That is, I would not like it if my boyfriend were to have pictures or videos of other guys (unless the videos or pictures are of (him and) his friends/family of course). I'm very sure my boyfriend wouldn't appreciate it either if I had pictures/videos of other guys.

    But there's not something as a "supposed to", it really depends on what you both agree on.
     
  4. Worgen2

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    Hmm so I guess I should delete my pics and videos. I really don't have any porn videos but have some like guys kissing or wearing latex gloves that I got from YouTube since I love guys wearing gloves or pics of boys wearing them or just normal boy pics but since I get excited about them I' am not suppose to have them right? I know my ex boyfriend Adam I was with for 8 years did love looking at porn videos when his over at my place on my computer but was that bad he did that? Was he never suppose to even watch those? But I known Kent doesn't watch those but I just have pics of boys and videos and just didn't know if it was really bad and should be deleted. Also once I had one or two doctor gay sex videos since they wear gloves but are you guys saying I should stop watching or getting these videos or pics? just wondering
     
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    I refer to my previous post:

    Communicate this through with him. If you guys are both okay with it, then I don't see any reason for you to delete the stuff you have.
     
  6. Worgen2

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    Well I told him about the videos in the past and pics and also that I even get sweaty gloves from other guys and he said he doesn't care. Same as my ex boyfriends. I know getting gloves from guys all my ex's never cared about since they aren't into gloves. But I always wondered if really it's ok or even my boyfriend doesn't care them. I won't ever have sex with other guys but I have like my friends or so wear gloves and just wear them like around the house and give them to me later and I jack off thinking how hot he was. Also Kent doesn't mind about the gloves at all ether he wears them and gives them back to me. But I have to admit that these 3 months I feel strange is that even I know I' am ok to get gloves from other boys but I feel not that excited as before I only really get excited from Kents gloves anymore kinda strange. Maybe because other guys aren't my boyfriend or someone that special? Yes I do love white boys they are top of the line but even if I get gloves from a hotter guy than Kent I' am not as excited as before. As of now though Kent is unable to wear them since were he lives at and he hasn't for a long time but once he moves out to Council Bluffs, IA he would be able to come see me at my place a lot more often and wear them and also he said if he ever works at a place that uses them he would keep them for me.
     
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    IMO if my man had pics/videos of guys he knew, it would bother me. But on the other hand if he just watches porn then it doesn't bother me.