As my name says...late bloomer

Dude, how old are ya? Late bloomer becoming a man, or late bloomer figuring out you were gay?

 

It might be time to cut your losses to be honest. After 6 months if he isn't interested in dating, he probably will never be.

You don't have to answer, but who do you feel is more onto who? Is he more into you, or you into him? Because unless the answer is both about the same, that could be a major problem.

 

Sometimes it's better to let go of these things. You don't seem happy, and - I don't mean this in an unkind way - he doesn't sound like he's worth the emotional pain.

I chased somebody who wasn't worth it once. Not so long ago I was in the same position that you are in now. It hurt at first, actually it hurt for a while, but you know what? I'd be hurting a lot more if I hadn't let go, and she means nothing to me now - not romantically, at least, I still care for her as a friend. But the point was, I felt the same as you, and in retrospect letting go was the only thing I could have done if I wanted to get over it.

It may hurt now, but things will change, your feelings will change, and you have to do what's right for you. You can only be truly happy if you remember to take care of yourself.

 

Sometime letting go is both the best and hardest thing you will ever have to toward someone you love.

I'm not going to tell you it's easy, or that the pain goes away fast, that would be a lie. I will tell you that now and then, it's the best, the right thing to do.

Moving on won't be easy but, years down the road, you will thank yourself for doing it when you find the one that will commit, that you want to commit to.

 

I tend to agree with everyone else responses on the forum in regards to letting go and cutting your losses. Sometimes...things happen in a way that is unexpectedly in order to alert you that you are really wasting your time before things get too out of hand. Always feel that when one door closes...another one opens and what's behind that door will be far better than you could ever imagine. I know more than likely...you probably can't comprehend to what I am saying right now...but at the end of the day...you will see and understand it all once you make up your mind to let go and move on.