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Idk what to do!!!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Burnout420, Nov 3, 2016.

  1. Burnout420

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    I wouldn't say I'm gay because I just like to look at nude men I can't bring myself to touch a man well I anonymously messaged a straight man and he claims he'd never say a word I kinda know him and I don't think I can beleive him and the other guys seems like a real nice guy and wouldn't say a word but I dont know if I should take the chance and have my secret blown right up not that there's anything wrong I'm seriously like wtf to do please help!!!!!!
     
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    Your post seems a little unclear. what did you message this straight man about? Sex? Your sexuality? The wording you used makes things difficult to understand the situation.
     
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    Okay so you admire a good male physique - who doesn't? Are you aroused by that? nothing wrong if you are. Do you just want to touch and not have sex?
     
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    I just wanted to swap pics I made a fake face book and now idk what to do yes it turns me on seeing them naked but I can't bring myself to touch a man and now I feel I might get outed and Ik it seems dumb but idk what to do
     
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    I wouldn't worry about anything bad happening. I mean if a straight guy agreed to swap pics with you that would give him some unnecessary attention if he would tell anyone.
     
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    He never said he would he's like who is this I'm not gonna say anything but idk if I should admit to it because I'm sure he'd blab his. Mouth as soon as I said he's like Idc I just wanna know who I'm talking to but idk if it's a trick
     
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    So does he know who you are? I mean I know you mentioned that you know him but you did say you made a fake facebook. As long as your face isn't in any of the pics I don't see any reason to fret over the situation.
     
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    No but he keeps hounding for a pic which leads me to beleive I'd be putted so quick but the second guy I mentioned is asking the same I almost feel as if I can but I just feel I can't take the chance cuz he swears he's not out to ruin anyone and he just needs to know who he's talking to is all but idk if it's a cover or what and I appreciate your advice
     
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    If they don't know your real identity and you're having second thoughts I'd say just block them. You won't be getting pics from them.... but that's what Google Images is for.
     
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    So you want pictures of this guy but nothing else?
     
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    Yes pretty much I just wanna compare my size to his and just see what his body looks like but at the same time I just don't want to have it blow up in my face I never do this kinda thing so now I'm in a bind
     
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    Just break contact and don't go in any deeper than you already have. It's clear you have some regret over the situation, don't do anything that might make you regret it even more.
     
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    I thank everyone I haven't revealed myself like I wanna just try oral with. A guy but I'm scared I guess he says he just wants to know because I seem cool and he wanna be friends but he's engaged and I mean I'm not really doing anything bad I do t consider it catfishing since its my body I'm sending I'm just being quiet about my identity but I just wanted to see it so bad but idk
     
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    dude - relax. breathe

    easy does it.


    this is a little intense


    its ok if your questioning, if you wanna experiment, or if your gay. Its OK - its natural, it normal - its OK

    just relax and don't blow up your mind OK man?

    easy does it :slight_smile: