so the other day I was in the mall because my phone broke (more) so I was going to get it fixed. Anyway while I was walking around trying to find the verizon store I saw these two girl walking hand in hand and being so obviously together and in love. I felt like kind of an idiot caz I was staring and they saw me staring and gave me nasty looks caz they proly thought I was some homophobic straight bitch thinking about how disgusting they were While I was actually thinking that emily (my girlfriend) would love it here It was a little funny to me actually Proly not to them AnywY yeah Lezzies in the mall
That's happened to me so many times. I stare because I think it's cute even though I'm pretty sure they think I'm a creep :lol:
Aww, that sounds llike lovely. I don't know if I've ever seen a couple walking around. Apart from a couple of old women bickering in a supermarket who looked kind of suspish. :/
I saw a gay couple on the train a week or two ago. They were obviously in love (and both pretty hot), so I couldn't help staring either. Not directly, but by using the window reflection. I'm pretty sure they noticed, though. One of them gave me glares... I felt sort of embarrassed that I was staring, but what else could I do? Surely not walk up to them and say "I'm gay too and I'm so happy for you!" (though perhaps I could have winked or so...)
Haha I find it so funny that when people are staring at a gay couple, the gay couple automatically assumes "Homophobe". So whenever I stare and they give me a dirty look I make an ass of myself by giving them two thumbs up and then yelling (or signing, if it's too far to yell) "ME TOO!". They usually end up more embarassed than I do.
my general area is very working class and homophobic, so i've never seen anything like that. i don't think u'd be beaten up or anything, but it's just not done!
i always see gay guys walking around the mall and i stare cuz its cute. but i never get drity looks. they normaly just smile.
too bad we couldn't have a secret hand signal to give letting anyone around know "hey i'm gay nice to see you " and no-one straight would know, or is there a sign? i'm new !! please tell mee!!!!
It's ok, one time a (straight) friend of mine and I were just holding hands, just b/c, it's part of what we do and we past this girl who stared at us and just kind of gave us this smile- and as ridiculous as it sounds, I knew we made her day and I was really glad to do it. It was unintentional but all the same we gave her hope and it felt really good.
most couples usuall just smile that i see but this issue does make me think not so quick to just on the OMG THERE HATING ON US looks