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Alice Insanity · 1st Apr 2009, 06:53 PM

so the other day I was in the mall because my phone broke (more) so I was going to get it fixed. Anyway while I was walking around trying to find the verizon store I saw these two girl walking hand in hand and being so obviously together and in love.
I felt like kind of an idiot caz I was staring and they saw me staring and gave me nasty looks caz they proly thought I was some homophobic straight bitch thinking about how disgusting they were
While I was actually thinking that emily (my girlfriend) would love it here

It was a little funny to me actually
Proly not to them
AnywY yeah
Lezzies in the mall

Thisisnew · 1st Apr 2009, 07:55 PM

Cool

pokeypanda · 1st Apr 2009, 09:24 PM

That's happened to me so many times.
I stare because I think it's cute even though I'm pretty sure they think I'm a creep

Psychedelic Bookmarks · 1st Apr 2009, 11:35 PM

Aww, that sounds llike lovely. I don't know if I've ever seen a couple walking around. Apart from a couple of old women bickering in a supermarket who looked kind of suspish. :/

Bunny · 1st Apr 2009, 11:42 PM

Aww, that's so cool. I've never seen anything like that around here. u-u

**Filip** · 2nd Apr 2009, 02:12 AM

I saw a gay couple on the train a week or two ago. They were obviously in love (and both pretty hot), so I couldn't help staring either. Not directly, but by using the window reflection. I'm pretty sure they noticed, though. One of them gave me glares...

I felt sort of embarrassed that I was staring, but what else could I do? Surely not walk up to them and say "I'm gay too and I'm so happy for you!" (though perhaps I could have winked or so...)

BeautifulStranger · 2nd Apr 2009, 02:15 AM

Haha
I find it so funny that when people are staring at a gay couple, the gay couple automatically assumes "Homophobe".
So whenever I stare and they give me a dirty look I make an ass of myself by giving them two thumbs up and then yelling (or signing, if it's too far to yell) "ME TOO!".

They usually end up more embarassed than I do.

jazzyspazzy · 2nd Apr 2009, 02:28 AM

my general area is very working class and homophobic, so i've never seen anything like that. i don't think u'd be beaten up or anything, but it's just not done!

heatqueen · 2nd Apr 2009, 06:53 AM

If that happened in Dubai...

Well let's just say pigs can fly if it did.

Dazed · 2nd Apr 2009, 09:50 AM

i always see gay guys walking around the mall and i stare cuz its cute. but i never get drity looks. they normaly just smile.

aerwolfen · 2nd Apr 2009, 10:55 AM

too bad we couldn't have a secret hand signal to give letting anyone around know "hey i'm gay nice to see you " and no-one straight would know, or is there a sign? i'm new !! please tell mee!!!!

Tiffany · 2nd Apr 2009, 11:19 AM

It's ok, one time a (straight) friend of mine and I were just holding hands, just b/c, it's part of what we do and we past this girl who stared at us and just kind of gave us this smile- and as ridiculous as it sounds, I knew we made her day and I was really glad to do it. It was unintentional but all the same we gave her hope and it felt really good.

Alice Insanity · 2nd Apr 2009, 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aerwolfen

too bad we couldn't have a secret hand signal to give letting anyone around know "hey i'm gay nice to see you " and no-one straight would know, or is there a sign? i'm new !! please tell mee!!!!

Shit man
There should be a sign
We should make a sign

heatqueen · 2nd Apr 2009, 12:15 PM

^Yes!!! Let's make a sign!! And spread the word so that all gay people in the world can use it!!

Grof142007 · 2nd Apr 2009, 12:20 PM

most couples usuall just smile that i see but this issue does make me think not so quick to just on the OMG THERE HATING ON US looks

1st Apr 2009, 06:53 PM	#1
Alice Insanity Love of her life/Death of her world Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico Age: 17 Posts: 23 Join Date: Mar 2009	Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! so the other day I was in the mall because my phone broke (more) so I was going to get it fixed. Anyway while I was walking around trying to find the verizon store I saw these two girl walking hand in hand and being so obviously together and in love. I felt like kind of an idiot caz I was staring and they saw me staring and gave me nasty looks caz they proly thought I was some homophobic straight bitch thinking about how disgusting they were While I was actually thinking that emily (my girlfriend) would love it here It was a little funny to me actually Proly not to them AnywY yeah Lezzies in the mall Last edited by Alice Insanity; 1st Apr 2009 at 06:56 PM..

1st Apr 2009, 07:55 PM	#2
Thisisnew EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: All lesbian all the time!! Out Status: I...I guess it runs in the family! =] Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,302 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! Cool __________________ Thank god for ipods and gays!

1st Apr 2009, 09:24 PM	#3
pokeypanda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Northern Ohio Posts: 273 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! That's happened to me so many times. I stare because I think it's cute even though I'm pretty sure they think I'm a creep __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail! Ralph W. Emerson

1st Apr 2009, 11:35 PM	#4
Psychedelic Bookmarks Helena Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Close family and quite a few friends Location: UK Age: 18 Posts: 2,195 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! Aww, that sounds llike lovely. I don't know if I've ever seen a couple walking around. Apart from a couple of old women bickering in a supermarket who looked kind of suspish. :/ __________________ "I refuse to recognize the terms hetero-, bi-, and homo-sexual. Everybody has exactly the same sexual needs. People are just sexual, the prefix is immaterial." (Morissey)

1st Apr 2009, 11:42 PM	#5
Bunny EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boys <3 Out Status: if they would only ask Location: Canada~ Age: 18 Posts: 430 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! Aww, that's so cool. I've never seen anything like that around here. u-u

2nd Apr 2009, 02:12 AM	#6
Filip Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! I saw a gay couple on the train a week or two ago. They were obviously in love (and both pretty hot), so I couldn't help staring either. Not directly, but by using the window reflection. I'm pretty sure they noticed, though. One of them gave me glares... I felt sort of embarrassed that I was staring, but what else could I do? Surely not walk up to them and say "I'm gay too and I'm so happy for you!" (though perhaps I could have winked or so...) __________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...

2nd Apr 2009, 02:15 AM	#7
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2nd Apr 2009, 02:28 AM	#8
jazzyspazzy Esto quad es - be yourself!!! Full Member Gender: Tomboy Orientation: Guys, girls who look like guys, genderqueer people Out Status: Anyone who looks at my facebook profile Location: Somerset Age: 17 Posts: 295 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! my general area is very working class and homophobic, so i've never seen anything like that. i don't think u'd be beaten up or anything, but it's just not done! __________________ Be the change you wish to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi

2nd Apr 2009, 06:53 AM	#9
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,706 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! If that happened in Dubai... Well let's just say pigs can fly if it did. __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

2nd Apr 2009, 09:50 AM	#10
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! i always see gay guys walking around the mall and i stare cuz its cute. but i never get drity looks. they normaly just smile.

2nd Apr 2009, 10:55 AM	#11
aerwolfen Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: and a few friends Location: winnipeg manitoba Age: 49 Posts: 178 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! too bad we couldn't have a secret hand signal to give letting anyone around know "hey i'm gay nice to see you " and no-one straight would know, or is there a sign? i'm new !! please tell mee!!!! __________________ if your looking for me,when times are rough,and your feeling abit odd,jump onto my rainbow,it leads to cloud nine,no worries,I'll be there with open arms and a hug for peaceful bliss.

2nd Apr 2009, 11:19 AM	#12
Tiffany Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: friends and family Age: 23 Posts: 48 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! It's ok, one time a (straight) friend of mine and I were just holding hands, just b/c, it's part of what we do and we past this girl who stared at us and just kind of gave us this smile- and as ridiculous as it sounds, I knew we made her day and I was really glad to do it. It was unintentional but all the same we gave her hope and it felt really good. __________________ The greatest in life is to love and be loved... if only it were that simple.

2nd Apr 2009, 12:15 PM	#14
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,706 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Lezzie couple in the mall!!! Yay! ^Yes!!! Let's make a sign!! And spread the word so that all gay people in the world can use it!! __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

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