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feeling lonely

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by R M, Dec 17, 2016.

  1. R M

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    hey guys. first of all i wanna say how great this site is and how loving everyone here is. I used to visit this e multible times a day because i felt pretty lonely and wanted to make new friends online for some distraction. things got worse and i started feeling more depressed than ever and hit my lowest point ever.pretty much anything happened that you could imagine someone being depressed. I had 1 or 2 people still talking to me and it really helped. it got a bit better for me and i got a bit more happy. that didnt last long tho and i went downhill again. another thing was that the people i was talking to stopped replying. i check evrry day in hope of someone sending a text back but it never happends. i starting to think theres no reason to come back here anymore. back where i started and pretty much realized theres nothing for me here to keep me living a happy life. sorry i must sound stupid and my english isbt the best as well. so does anyone want to talk a bit?

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    I'm up for talking. Kind of bored myself.
     
  3. R M

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    thanks :slight_smile:
     
  4. Enjel

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    :wave: Hi, R M, it's nice to meet you! I'm Enjel!

    I could only imagine how you feel in your status, R M. I've been dealing with the same issue as well. It gets rough at times, but I know that the despair and loneliness is only temporary. I find myself indecisive every now and then with close to no one to really reach out to. Not even my own mother on a regular basis. It's really nice to know that I'm not alone at this. I take my loneliness as an obstacle to build myself into a better person.

    You might like this video I dug up for you ...

    Why We're Fated to Be Lonely - The School of Life

    I hope that helps out a bit :grin:

    If you ever need someone to chat with, feel free to contact me!

    Be well!

    (*hug*)
     
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    I'm gradually accepting solitude until finding my true love.
     
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    I know how you feel R M,, I can be a bit of a loner at times and I don't have ANYBODY to talk to about my sexuality, no one knows and that's probably how it's gonna stay for me...my family and friends are all do-good Christians who would just condemn my "sinful" lifestyle" as they would say...as they do say about lgbt people, for people who are all about love and acceptance they sure don't seem to be very loving and accepting of lgbt people, so if you ever wanna talk, i'd be more than happy to
     
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    I will get back to you soon. Just some small technical issues but I will reply.
     
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    Hi fam
    I can talk anytime you want
     
  9. R M

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    thank you all for all your kind messages. i appreciate ever sigle one of them.
     
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    So, anything in particular you wanna chat about? I'm open to talk about whatever.
     
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    Whaddup! I love to make friends with anyone and everyone, all the time, every day. I'm up for talking. Opinions on garlic bread?
     
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    Well shit, I like garlic knots better
     
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    Hey, I remember you...

    Any plans for this xmas?
     
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    Hi. I like talking to people :>
     
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  16. R M

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    thanks everyone for offering im very happy to see this at such a dim time like now. if anyone wants a chat, feel free to pist on my wall
     
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    Hope you're doing okay ^^