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crushes that look like youself??

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ameryllis, Jan 6, 2017.

  1. Ameryllis

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    Some of my friends + my parents think I look like my crush.

    Is this a normal phenomonon??

    Has anyone else experienced this??
     
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    The crushes I have looknothing like myself or my family members. Perhaps I'm weird though :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    No I've never looked like any of my crushes, but I do know this woman that married this woman that looked EXACTLY like her, she was also into my sister...who looked EXACTLY like her.
     
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    I dunno. My boyfriend looks nothing like me, and most of the guys I've had crushes on don't really resemble me either, other than those who also have beards and body hair. None of them look like either of my parents. None of the girls I've crushed on look like any of my relatives either.
     
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    While I've never crushed on anyone who had similar facial features as me, exactly. However, I find myself more attracted to dark haired girls with pale-ish skin, large brown eyes, about 5'7", with a very emo style or overall impression. Their is usually something Italian looking about them as well. Guess what I look like? ;]

    The only exception is my current crush. In no way resembles me.
     
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    Nahhh not really, I find myself attracted to all different kinds of girls, especially ones who look nothing like me
     
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    Well, the traits I find attractive are traits I have myself, so... (ex: short, blond hair, green eyes, longish hair etc.) I absolutely wouldn't mind dating someone who looked exactly like me.

    As for the looking like a parent stuff, I kind of experience this too. I looked at my parents' marriage photos, and I'd like to meet someone who looked just like my young dad (maybe just shorter, though. My dad is freaking tall). The wavy red hair, mustache and glasses do it for me. I have been attracted to people who looked the deal, but it never developped into a full-blown crush. Though, I'd like the similarities with my dad to end at physical appearance. He's not exactly trustworthy...
     
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    None of my crushes looked like me. I used to work with someone who apparently looked a lot like me, but I didn't see it, and he also happened to be gay. His boyfriend said I looked like him, too. I was not attracted to him at all.
     
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    None of mine looked like me either, but I've never met anyone who looks like me anyway :L I do tend to favour girls with short hair though, but lately I've fallen for one with longer hair.