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From a self hating bicurious to proud bisexual. Thanks EC!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by huehue, Jan 10, 2017.

  1. huehue

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    Hey guys.

    First of all,I want to say thanks to this community for being awesome.

    I used to be on here pretty much all the time a few years ago,back when I was always really worried about my sexuality, worried about not being 'normal', worried about not knowing anyone like me and being alienated for being the only one (that I knew of!)

    After joining this community ,I gained enough self confidence to come out to my best friends (albeit some time after I spammed these forums with questions about being bicurious), and nowadays I am probably one of the happiest people on earth, and I am no longer scared of thinking 'I'm bisexual'. And a special thanks to the admins.

    And for anyone who might be in the situation I was in,here is my personal tip:

    Be yourself. Your true friends will stay around and the fake ones will just disappear like snakes in grass. (Yes,one or two people who I considered good friends turned their back on me,but I am so happy they have!)

    Also, the amount of gay/bisexual jokes I can make with my friends now makes it 100% worth it. And I can now freely admit I have a crush on Josh Hutcherson.

    So,to keep it short and sweet,
    keep being awesome , Empty Closets (&&&)

    Also,if anyone has any questions,feel free to ask. I would love to help the way I was helped back in the day.
     
  2. Chiroptera

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    Hello,

    Awesome! It is great to hear that everything has improved for you. :slight_smile:

    Your message is inspiring. Thanks for sharing your happiness with us. ^_^
     
  3. Silver Sparrow

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    That's so great! I'm so glad you shared this with us.
     
  4. bimusiclover

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    This gives me hope! What a great post :slight_smile:
     
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    I hope that, in time, I can grow to be proud like you. As it is now, I am afraid to even say outloud that I am a lesbian. Thank you for sharing your story.
     
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    CONGRATS!!!! and we will always be here for you
     
  7. huehue

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    I'm sure you will and you will find the right moment!(&&&)

    Thanks for the replies !