When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

pianolover95 · 12th Apr 2009, 01:00 PM

Just wondering

RaRa · 12th Apr 2009, 01:09 PM

Never. :/

Phantasma · 12th Apr 2009, 01:12 PM

February 2nd 2008 - February 1st 2009

**Gerry** · 12th Apr 2009, 01:13 PM

8th grade.

Apocalypte · 12th Apr 2009, 01:13 PM

I had my first - only - same-sex relationship from October 2006 to February 2007. I was 22.

Mr Bojangles · 12th Apr 2009, 01:24 PM

When I was 12. It lasted for quite a while actually. But he got bored and found a girl he liked more >_>

**Filip** · 12th Apr 2009, 01:29 PM

Never... I'm just here to drive the average age up

Kenko · 12th Apr 2009, 01:40 PM

I kind of had a summer fling thing when I was 22.

VanceA · 12th Apr 2009, 01:49 PM

Still working on it at age 27.

kevinx519 · 12th Apr 2009, 01:54 PM

16. may 5, 2008- current.

Greggers · 12th Apr 2009, 01:56 PM

I dont know why im posting this cause its pointless...

Never, but hopefully that will change in the future? haha...

Zach · 12th Apr 2009, 02:07 PM

I was 18 when the "boy next door" had a little too much wine, and things just took their natural course after that

nametakenagain · 12th Apr 2009, 02:13 PM

18. I only came out to myself 2 months before I turned 18 though, so I don't think that I took too long. ^.^

**Martin** · 12th Apr 2009, 02:15 PM

I was 16. He was a bint.

KeithJ108 · 12th Apr 2009, 02:17 PM

i'm not sure he counts as a boyfriend...yet...but if he does, 21, if not then i plan to work on it when i see him again

...maybe 23....

mrzach · 12th Apr 2009, 02:19 PM

well - 1st december 2008-5th december 2008 , yeah it didnt last long! :S but it was my first and only relationship...

BeautifulStranger · 12th Apr 2009, 02:50 PM

Letsee
I've had fun with guys before I met Mike, but I would call Mike my first relationship.

We met January 24th 2008, and dated until February 18th 2009.
I was 16/17.

Derek the Wolf · 12th Apr 2009, 03:05 PM

Erm... nowish. Depends what qualifies as a boyfriend. It's up in the air at the moment.

tm74 · 12th Apr 2009, 03:11 PM

Never - and if Filip thinks he's pushing the average age up, I'm pushing it up further!

jazzrawr · 12th Apr 2009, 03:17 PM

Still haven't. Hopefully soon, though. I'm just waiting for someone to come along.

12th Apr 2009, 01:00 PM	#1
pianolover95 Well Known Full Member Gender: Guy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Couple friends Location: USA Age: 17 Posts: 106 Join Date: Apr 2009	When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Just wondering

12th Apr 2009, 01:09 PM	#2
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Never. :/

12th Apr 2009, 01:12 PM	#3
Phantasma EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: two people! Location: Winnipeg Age: 19 Posts: 983 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? February 2nd 2008 - February 1st 2009 __________________

12th Apr 2009, 01:13 PM	#4
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? 8th grade. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

12th Apr 2009, 01:13 PM	#5
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? I had my first - only - same-sex relationship from October 2006 to February 2007. I was 22. __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

12th Apr 2009, 01:24 PM	#6
Mr Bojangles EC's resident Pikey :3 Full Member Gender: Hombre Orientation: Men = WIN. Out Status: Out, I guess. Location: Dubai Posts: 279 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? When I was 12. It lasted for quite a while actually. But he got bored and found a girl he liked more >_> __________________ ATTACK OF THE GIANT 60ft LESBIAN OCTOPUS. <3 ignoranceisstrengthwarispeacefreedomisslavery

12th Apr 2009, 01:29 PM	#7
Filip Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Never... I'm just here to drive the average age up __________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...

12th Apr 2009, 01:40 PM	#8
Kenko EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends + parents Location: Canada Age: 26 Posts: 1,407 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? I kind of had a summer fling thing when I was 22.

12th Apr 2009, 01:49 PM	#9
VanceA Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Awesomely Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Calgary, AB Age: 30 Posts: 227 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Still working on it at age 27. __________________ "Virescit vulnere virtus"

12th Apr 2009, 01:54 PM	#10
kevinx519 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: plenty Location: Cali Age: 21 Posts: 430 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? 16. may 5, 2008- current.

12th Apr 2009, 01:56 PM	#11
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? I dont know why im posting this cause its pointless... Never, but hopefully that will change in the future? haha... __________________ "It's a male duck."

12th Apr 2009, 02:07 PM	#12
Zach Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family and friends, and a couple of people at work Location: Janesville Wisconsin Posts: 191 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? I was 18 when the "boy next door" had a little too much wine, and things just took their natural course after that

12th Apr 2009, 02:13 PM	#13
nametakenagain That's what she said! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 61 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? 18. I only came out to myself 2 months before I turned 18 though, so I don't think that I took too long. ^.^

12th Apr 2009, 02:15 PM	#14
Martin EC's Red Queen EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,047 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? I was 16. He was a bint.

12th Apr 2009, 02:17 PM	#15
KeithJ108 Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Northern Ireland Age: 25 Posts: 101 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? i'm not sure he counts as a boyfriend...yet...but if he does, 21, if not then i plan to work on it when i see him again ...maybe 23....

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12th Apr 2009, 02:19 PM	#16
mrzach Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Manchester, UK Age: 21 Posts: 65 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? well - 1st december 2008-5th december 2008 , yeah it didnt last long! :S but it was my first and only relationship... __________________ I am Zach's Complete Lack of Surprise

12th Apr 2009, 02:50 PM	#17
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Letsee I've had fun with guys before I met Mike, but I would call Mike my first relationship. We met January 24th 2008, and dated until February 18th 2009. I was 16/17. __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

12th Apr 2009, 03:05 PM	#18
Derek the Wolf Furry Overlord Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Majority Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 1,325 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Erm... nowish. Depends what qualifies as a boyfriend. It's up in the air at the moment. __________________

12th Apr 2009, 03:11 PM	#19
tm74 Hug Whore Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: no immediate family - pretty much everyone else Location: Wales, UK Age: 38 Posts: 415 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Never - and if Filip thinks he's pushing the average age up, I'm pushing it up further! __________________ "Free your secrets to free yourself"

12th Apr 2009, 03:17 PM	#20
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend of the same gender? Still haven't. Hopefully soon, though. I'm just waiting for someone to come along. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)