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How sexual are your attractions to people?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tre, Feb 14, 2017.

  1. Tre

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    It's generally not sexual for me. I just feel "connected to their soul" or whatever you want to call it. I still experience sexual attraction sometimes and I wouldn't be against having sex with the people I'm attracted to. It's just not the main thing on my mind.
     
  2. BadassFrost

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    Don't know how to describe it, not sure if any other people have it as well, but I can somehow control my sexual attraction to others. For example: if I'm in a changing room, and I see some hot dude, even naked, and if I don't want to, I may stare at him and I wouldn't feel any attraction, anything. But if I want to, then I can feel it a lot. Like I can order my mind when I can and when I cannot feel the sexual attraction. It feels strange, not sure how to describe it better. But sometimes it's useful.
    However, it doesn't work with everyone. I noticed that the stronger I have the emotional attraction to a person, the less I can control my sexual attraction to him (it's harder for me to turn it 'off')
    And I cannot control emotional attraction, or at least I think.
    So basically my attraction depends more on the emotional part, but the sexual one is important for me as well.

    Anyway I think it may be even more complicated than it looks like.. sometimes I'm confused in it as well
     
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    I tend to have very little sexual interest (almost never appears at all) until I get an emotional attraction to someone.
    It does become rather strong at that point, though.