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Old 27th Feb 2017, 06:31 PM   #21
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Re: I want your opinions!

I'm gonna be honest, I stopped to think, but I'd say no
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Old 27th Feb 2017, 10:40 PM   #22
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Re: I want your opinions!

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If you could erase homosexuality, transexuality etc would you do it?
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I don't see any good reason to worry about what people do in their private lives, really. If i had a power like that, i would erase prejudice, hatred, violence, ignorance, etc.
Chiroptera summed up what I wanted to say perfectly.
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Old 28th Feb 2017, 07:51 AM   #23
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Nah, I love being a lesbian. Can't get pregnant and don't have to deal with the toxic macho sexist crap that male culture pushes on hetero relationships. There's always a positive to everything.
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Old 1st Mar 2017, 11:02 AM   #24
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Re: I want your opinions!

No, I'm proud of who I am and I wouldn't change that even though it can be hard at times.
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Old 15th Mar 2017, 12:22 AM   #25
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Re: I want your opinions!

No. I would like to erase homophobes, but I'm sure everybody here agrees on that one.
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Old 15th Mar 2017, 03:54 AM   #26
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Nah I love who I am and besides I also love the diversity we have nowadays.
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Old 20th Mar 2017, 05:20 PM   #27
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Re: I want your opinions!

I personally see no point in removing different sexualities or identities even if I could.

However, I would certainly choose to erase homophobia, transphobia, biphobia, etc. We shouldn't change ourselves to suit the ideals of others. Other people should change their views of us, or otherwise mind their own business.

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Old 20th Mar 2017, 05:43 PM   #28
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Old 20th Mar 2017, 08:11 PM   #29
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Re: I want your opinions!

Well it depends because if I removed it I'd be removing a natural population control, but negative things such as homophobia would go away. Though I'd be getting rid of a variation that occurs naturally in humans and animals, and it'd be one that on it's own isn't inherently harmful to the individual or the species as a whole. So really I would have to look all the positives of keeping it and all the negatives of keeping, and if the negatives outweigh the positives, then I'd most likely get rid of it. Though I'd keep it if the positives outweigh the negatives, which is currently how it seems.

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Old 21st Mar 2017, 11:31 AM   #30
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No, I love being gay 😏
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Old 21st Mar 2017, 01:56 PM   #31
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Re: I want your opinions!

LGBT related bigotry, yes. No doubt. But the embodiment of who we are, hell no. I'm proud of who I am and I wouldn't change if for the world.
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Old 22nd Mar 2017, 01:09 PM   #32
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Re: I want your opinions!

Nope. It's natural and normal. But I'd erase hate and intolerance in a heartbeat.
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Old 22nd Mar 2017, 04:06 PM   #33
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Re: I want your opinions!

No. The LGBT are so much more 'awake' than your average Joe.
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Old 22nd Mar 2017, 06:19 PM   #34
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Re: I want your opinions!

I'd say no regardless, but why would removing homosexuality, transexuality etc., make the world a better place? I mean you could argue that no one would be subject to abuse because of their sexuality or gender identity, but therein does not lie the problem. Humanity easily lapses in to xenophobia, which leads to bigotry, which leads to discrimination, but by making everyone the same in any respect, nothing would challenge this tendency. Essentially nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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Old 24th Mar 2017, 03:32 AM   #35
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Re: I want your opinions!

I would erase the labels that come with sexual and gender orientation, for sure. Labels only divide us all.

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No. The LGBT are so much more 'awake' than your average Joe.
Awake and I feel so much more alive than when I was still in hiding. I wouldn't give that up for anything.

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Old 24th Mar 2017, 11:11 AM   #36
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Re: I want your opinions!

Erase it? Like get rid of homosexuals and transpeople?? Or like "magically transform the world so that homosexuals and transpeople never existed?"

My answer to both questions would be no. The first is a no-brainer, but the second requires more thought.

First, I think the world needs *more* diversity of humans and not less.

But more importantly, we all face challenges in this world. If you weren't gay or trans, you would still have major problems...it's just that your biggest problems would be different in nature. And you know what you'd be posting? You'd be posting "I want your opinion: if you could erase <whatever your biggest problem is> would you do it?" The moment we stop facing challenge is the day we start dying. So no...don't go down the path of trying to *eliminate* or erase your challenges...instead, try to go down the path of embracing your challenges! Whether that means overcoming the challenge, or leaning into experiencing it, or mitigating it, or whatever. But you'll always have challenge, or you won't be here much longer.
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Old 24th Mar 2017, 11:25 AM   #37
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Re: I want your opinions!

If I ever had that kind of power I'd just make everyone bisexual.
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Old 24th Mar 2017, 12:25 PM   #38
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No, it's part of evolution, we shouldn't be messing with it.
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Old 24th Mar 2017, 09:50 PM   #40
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Diversity is our strength!
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