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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by charlie12, Jul 2, 2007.

  1. charlie12

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    Do you think it's easier for a gay guy to find a boyfriend and for a lesbian woman to find a girlfriend of the same sex or do you think it's easier for a straight person to find a boyfriend/girlfriend of the opposite sex?
     
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    Dude i think it's harder for gay people coz they have to make sure the person they like is gay/bi before being their gf/bf
     
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    I didn't even think of that. You are so right, Blue0090.
     
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    oh actually it's just the same coz straight people have to make sure the person they like is straight.. hehe

    and i just realized my username sounds like a robot's name

    *in a robotic accent/voice*

    Hi. I. AM. Blue. Zero. Zero. Nine. Zero.
     
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    Yeah, we have a smaller selection, so it makes it harder... especially in High School :cry:
     
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    Well, I think theoretically it is harder for gay people. However, I think the best gf/bf (straight or gay) come from areas of our life where we are comfortable. So, if we are willing to be ourselves an dbe comfortable, then we should be able to find a gf/bf with no difference of gay or straight. But, don't listen to me - here I sit, single.........and looking.
     
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    Its so hard for me to say. I never really had any luck getting a GF, But I've dated 2 gay guys, one of whom REALLY wants a relationship. He's not getting it though.
     
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    Don't feel bad, because I am single to. I've only been out in the gay community a few times. I need to go out in the gay community and meet some people around or close to my age. I like guys between 18-28.
     
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    I've never really had any luck getting a girlfriend either. I only had one girlfriend, but it only lasted a month. A few gay guys have flirted with me before and a gay guy around my age danced with me before which was hot! :icon_bigg
     
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    WAYY harder for gay people, lol.
    i think out of my WHOLE TOWN i am the only gay (boy) still in school. OR at least the only one trying to come out.

    Cause i know that there are no gay guys at my school (the high school)
    And there prolly isn't any at the elementary school...and if there is..i'm not mesing wit em
    And the other school is a CATHOLIC school, so even if someone there is gay, they prolly wont come out.
    And same with the French CATHOLIC school.

    And thats about all the schools there is:frowning2:
     
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    Im not sure it's easy both ways, In my case people approach me so Im not sure.
     
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    I think its easier for straight people because for gay people it's sometimes really hard to know if someone is gay or not, at least with straight people its easier to go up to someone because they probably don't go up to a lot of people only to find out they are gay unlike gay people who might go up to someone only to find out that the person is straight.
     
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    Straight people definitely outnumber gay/bi people
     
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    I agree with everything everybody said because str8 people can find opposite sex easily becasue there are so many str8 people out there, and remember that bisexual poeple can date opposite sex as well.

    There are more hot lines for str8 than gay, more clubs for str8 than for gay, and there are places that ban gay people

    But in my school finding a gf for me is hard even tho there are more girls in my classrooms than guys.
     
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    In this case, straight people would have a much easier time finding a lover, because heterosexuality accounts for approximately 95%, more or less, of the human population. :wink:
     
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    It definetly isn't easy for gay people, seeing as how heterosexuality is dominant over the world......
     
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    My point exactly. :wink:
     
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    For a gay man who's completely out and in a fairly gay environment, it's not all that much more difficult for him to find a boyfriend than a straight guy finding a girl friend.

    It's really just the guys in the closet, who don't know many gay people who have the hardest time of all :wink:
     
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    true, true...
     
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    I guess I forgot to add: ..."unless you're in the gay community or a gay-friendly one." :wink: