what makes u attracted to...

[Alex19]

...the same sex? or if your bi/pan, both? what i mean is, what qualities do u like?

let me give u an example: the things i like about men and what i like in men, is what makes a man a man. i love the masculinity, the broad shoulders, big/strong hands, muscles, deep voice, etc... and it goes beyond the physical. i love the assertiveness and (usually in most but not all cases) the outgoing-ness that men have. hard to describe, but w/e.

and lets keep this clean, ok? lol

p.s.- i know my description doesnt fit all men, but hey, i like what i like!

[Dazed]

i like ladies softer side. the almost motherly nature of females. haha.

[Filip]

Hard to define... And it depends very much of the guy in question.

Physically, I really like arms. There is just something about male arms, wrists and hands that I really find attractive.

Mentally I like how men usually don't pay a lot of attention to practical details and are more "that's cool! Let's do it!". So I guess that counts as outgoing.

Strange thing is that I don't really have masculine wrists or hands, and that I'm not all that outgoing. But opposites attract, I guess...

[Jennn]

I just feel a I can from far stronger emotional attachment to females.
In a friendly way, I can form relationships with males, but it's only with females I get the romantic connection.

On a more physical side, I LOVE female waists.. I have a huge thing about waists, as well as hands, arms and lack of facial hair.

[Just Adam]

hmm

physically: i like fairly slim deep eyes no much faicial hair, toned physique but body isnt totally bothersome cos with mine i cant be to picky thats far to hypocritical

mental: sooooooo more important i like not to flamboyant but extremely careing someone who will love me for me as i am. i need someone outgoing funny assertive but not overpowering i like an equal

i want the kind of guy ill never find lol

[SailingKoala]

Hard one to define......

Physically I might get drawn to a person, but personality sends me away.. so personality is the key... Strong minded, caring, stable, controlled, outgoing, funny and serious, respectful, deep - can challenge my thoughts, be strong enough for 2 - but also needs support himself, emotional at times.

A Rock with a Soft Centre - think that would sum Him Up!!

[partietraumatic]

for me its defs 'pretty boys'. I like pretty rather than handsome,softer features rather than hard features. Im also a sucker for a nice pair of eyes I dont like guys too hairy or muscly-muscle definition is good,but not overtly muscly. Hehe im faar too fussy for my own good

[Psychedelic Bookmarks]

It's hard to say... I'm attracted to all types really, there's no specific thing which I could name. The only type of body/appearance I don't like is hyper masculine men. With men, I like their shoulders, and with women I like their necks and legs, I suppose.

[jotheoneandonly]

i like.. the hair. i find ginger is a favourite. and gingers who don't let other people get them down for it. yay gingers. and the way girls express there feelings, typical guys just don't do that.
but seriously, i don't know. i like what i like and i fall in love with the squirrels

[seanr]

physically:slim, taller than me (which'll be hard O.o)
mentally:smart, funny, and more outgoing than me :3

[malachite]

I like a guy with sharp features: cheek bones, pecks. Blue eyes I've always had a thing for blue eyes.

[Thisisnew]

I like the emotional side of girls. What I like physically nice eyes I love hands lol.

[Mickey]

I love beautiful eyes. I believe they really are the window to your soul.
I also like full lips,kinda pouty. I love to kiss,so the woman must be able to really kiss!
I am not attracted to butch women. I love the femmes!
A sense of humor is a must.
I don't care for high maintenance.It drives me crazy!

[malachite]

I think it also varies from person to person. I everyone likes a looker. But I'm crushing hard on a guy right now. He's kinda skinny, but he has the most awsome smile. Honestly it can make your heart explode.

Honestly guys are just really cute there body and eyes,Hair ect there is so much to name and also i does depend from person to person but that was my general answer

[moonlight]

someone who makes me laugh, and everything about the female body.

Blonde boys skinny or hunky. :]]
O & Muscles are hawt. :]]]
And a man with big strong hands makes me weak in the knees. :]]]]]]]]
Hehe.


But above all... braces are my biggest turn on :]
they're so cute! ^o^

[IamAninja]

For me any attraction I have to a girl is on a phycological level.

For guys I like people who are positive, optimistic, deep, and romantic. Physically, I like muscular guys, but not huge bulging muscles, and little hair. But overall physical attraction isn't as important an phycological.

[Fiorino]

PHYSICALLY:

I guess I go for the "handsome" type-> well defined jaw line, nice pecs, pretty eyes (green/grey/blue preferably but brown eyes can be sexy too).

I also have this thing for blonde guys, don't ask me to explain.

That being said, hunky guys aren't really attractive to me. I prefer
skinny guys but that have a little muscle (a little!).

PERSONALITY WISE:

I will fall VERY HARD for the "Mr.Nice Guy" type.
Jackasses just aren't really my thing.

[Lexington]

It's the full package. (And no, not THAT package - get your mind out of the gutter! You're messing up the gutter!) I find that I'm attracted first to personalities - good sense of humor, intelligence, good conversationalist. If I mesh with them that way, I start liking the way they look, too. It almost never goes the other way. I can't recall the last time I thought a guy was hot, and then tried to find out if they were an interesting person to me.

Lex