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what makes u attracted to...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alex19, Apr 16, 2009.

  1. Alex19

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    ...the same sex? or if your bi/pan, both? what i mean is, what qualities do u like?

    let me give u an example: the things i like about men and what i like in men, is what makes a man a man. i love the masculinity, the broad shoulders, big/strong hands, muscles, deep voice, etc... and it goes beyond the physical. i love the assertiveness and (usually in most but not all cases) the outgoing-ness that men have. hard to describe, but w/e.

    and lets keep this clean, ok? lol

    p.s.- i know my description doesnt fit all men, but hey, i like what i like!
     
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    i like ladies softer side. the almost motherly nature of females. haha.
     
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    Hard to define... And it depends very much of the guy in question.

    Physically, I really like arms. There is just something about male arms, wrists and hands that I really find attractive.

    Mentally I like how men usually don't pay a lot of attention to practical details and are more "that's cool! Let's do it!". So I guess that counts as outgoing.

    Strange thing is that I don't really have masculine wrists or hands, and that I'm not all that outgoing. But opposites attract, I guess...
     
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    I just feel a I can from far stronger emotional attachment to females.
    In a friendly way, I can form relationships with males, but it's only with females I get the romantic connection.

    On a more physical side, I LOVE female waists.. I have a huge thing about waists, as well as hands, arms and lack of facial hair.
     
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    hmm

    physically: i like fairly slim deep eyes no much faicial hair, toned physique but body isnt totally bothersome cos with mine i cant be to picky thats far to hypocritical

    mental: sooooooo more important i like not to flamboyant but extremely careing someone who will love me for me as i am. i need someone outgoing funny assertive but not overpowering i like an equal

    i want the kind of guy ill never find lol
     
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    Hard one to define......

    Physically I might get drawn to a person, but personality sends me away.. so personality is the key... Strong minded, caring, stable, controlled, outgoing, funny and serious, respectful, deep - can challenge my thoughts, be strong enough for 2 - but also needs support himself, emotional at times.

    A Rock with a Soft Centre - think that would sum Him Up!!
     
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    for me its defs 'pretty boys'. I like pretty rather than handsome,softer features rather than hard features. Im also a sucker for a nice pair of eyes :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I dont like guys too hairy or muscly-muscle definition is good,but not overtly muscly. Hehe im faar too fussy for my own good :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It's hard to say... I'm attracted to all types really, there's no specific thing which I could name. The only type of body/appearance I don't like is hyper masculine men. With men, I like their shoulders, and with women I like their necks and legs, I suppose.
     
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    i like.. the hair. i find ginger is a favourite. and gingers who don't let other people get them down for it. yay gingers. and the way girls express there feelings, typical guys just don't do that.
    but seriously, i don't know. i like what i like and i fall in love with the squirrels
     
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    physically:slim, taller than me (which'll be hard :confused:)
    mentally:smart, funny, and more outgoing than me :3
     
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    I like a guy with sharp features: cheek bones, pecks. Blue eyes I've always had a thing for blue eyes.

    :thumbsup:
     
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    I like the emotional side of girls. What I like physically nice eyes I love hands lol.
     
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    I love beautiful eyes. I believe they really are the window to your soul.
    I also like full lips,kinda pouty. I love to kiss,so the woman must be able to really kiss!
    I am not attracted to butch women. I love the femmes!
    A sense of humor is a must.
    I don't care for high maintenance.It drives me crazy!
     
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    I think it also varies from person to person. I everyone likes a looker. But I'm crushing hard on a guy right now. He's kinda skinny, but he has the most awsome smile. Honestly it can make your heart explode.

    :love:
     
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    Honestly guys are just really cute there body and eyes,Hair ect there is so much to name and also i does depend from person to person but that was my general answer :slight_smile:
     
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    someone who makes me laugh, and everything about the female body.
     
  17. Blonde boys skinny or hunky. :]]
    O & Muscles are hawt. :]]]
    And a man with big strong hands makes me weak in the knees. :]]]]]]]]
    Hehe. :grin:


    But above all... braces are my biggest turn on :]
    they're so cute! ^o^
     
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    For me any attraction I have to a girl is on a phycological level.

    For guys I like people who are positive, optimistic, deep, and romantic. Physically, I like muscular guys, but not huge bulging muscles, and little hair. But overall physical attraction isn't as important an phycological.
     
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    PHYSICALLY:

    I guess I go for the "handsome" type-> well defined jaw line, nice pecs, pretty eyes (green/grey/blue preferably but brown eyes can be sexy too).

    I also have this thing for blonde guys, don't ask me to explain.

    That being said, hunky guys aren't really attractive to me. I prefer
    skinny guys but that have a little muscle (a little!).

    PERSONALITY WISE:

    I will fall VERY HARD for the "Mr.Nice Guy" type.
    Jackasses just aren't really my thing.
     
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    It's the full package. (And no, not THAT package - get your mind out of the gutter! You're messing up the gutter!) I find that I'm attracted first to personalities - good sense of humor, intelligence, good conversationalist. If I mesh with them that way, I start liking the way they look, too. It almost never goes the other way. I can't recall the last time I thought a guy was hot, and then tried to find out if they were an interesting person to me. :slight_smile:

    Lex