How does everyone else handle themselves when they experience lust and/or attraction? I experience it a lot, and I often find myself very attracted to several people at the same time. Depending on how intense my attraction is to them, I tend to feel really shy and usually blush or can't talk properly. It is rare that I ask them out, but I'd like to have the courage to do that eventually. For example, I currently have a crush on this gorgeous girl at university. We're acquaintances, but we've had many small conversations. I don't see her often, but if I do see her or sit with her in a lecture, I become so shy! I always start worrying about how I look; then I start blushing and my voice cracks a bit. I have a feeling she's straight (but then again, you can never be sure). When I approach her, she always starts fiddling constantly with her rings/bracelets - nervous habit? Maybe that's my wishful thinking. Though, sometimes I see this little sparkle in her eyes sometimes that makes me wonder. Perhaps I should add her on Facebook.