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My girlfriend thinks I'm flirting with any girl I associate with!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Attractalott, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. Attractalott

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    Am I the only one that deals with this type of thing. I tell her all the time, I'm a female , I'm going to hang with another females just like she will. Instead when I'm talking with other females she off rip think we want each other or I'm flirting. I need help, with this issue because it's jeopardizing my relationship. :dry:
     
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    Tell her that you are going to have friends. If she can't handle it, dump her. It's so toxic when someone's boyfriend or girlfriend can't accept that they will be friends with other males or females. I would never put up with this. I have two best friends, one is a girl and one is a boy. It's purely platonic for both of them. And I would never, ever, let a partner get in the way of my friendships with them. If someone can't handle that, they are just too jealous.
     
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    Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. She's way past normal jealousy. She sounds controlling and possessive, neither of which is healthy in a relationship. I say get the hell out while you still have friends. :slight_smile:
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Dump her.
     
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    I wouldn't date someone who accuses me of infidelity when I'm actually innocent, but that's just my 2 cents.
     
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    She doesn't seem like a good partner, cher. I would say leave her.
     
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    Dump her if communication doesn't work. It would be very unhealthy for you to have no female friends; female companionship is so important on a platonic level. A SO is important, but I wouldn't be able to survive without my friends.
     
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    If I was in your position I'd tell her that I have friends and that I can't only hang out with her. If that doesn't work, I'd dump her as she seems to not trust you very well and is very jealous and possessive over you.