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View Poll Results: How many pretty lesbians do you know?
None 4 15.38%
One or two maybe 6 23.08%
More than 3 for sure 16 61.54%
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Old 19th May 2017, 07:16 PM   #1
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Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

Yeah, okay

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

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No, seriously

Why?
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Old 19th May 2017, 08:02 PM   #2
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

I mean, I know of some, but I don't exactly know them. You probably know more than you think but they're closeted!!
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

They're literally running away from you in droves.
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Old 19th May 2017, 08:40 PM   #4
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Hahaha no way! The pretty ones luckily come to me by themselves. But I wanna know more so I can choose!
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

There were two people I knew when I was younger that I suspected of being lesbians. I don't know if this was true or not, but the brother of one of the ladies did seem to think this as well. Anyway, one of the ladies was very pretty. I actually used to have a crush on her. I think that's it. I knew other women who were lesbians, some were lipstick, but I wouldn't call any of them 'pretty'. Perhaps, you can ask the ones you meet where they like to hang out? They might know of places where there tends to be a lot of other women like themselves. Perhaps, they're clubs/bars that cater to them predominantly?
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Old 20th May 2017, 07:43 AM   #6
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See PlantSoul! You get me!
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*flips hair* BISH IM PRETTY
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Old 20th May 2017, 08:33 AM   #8
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Well hmu in a couple years then!
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maybe because you say shit like this
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

I had a lesbian couple come in yesterday and they were both really pretty. Also there's tons of pretty lesbians on this site.
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Old 21st May 2017, 08:47 AM   #11
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

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I had a lesbian couple come in yesterday and they were both really pretty. Also there's tons of pretty lesbians on this site.
There are very pretty lesbians, it's not like there aren't. But they are hard to find cause they're not as out. And the ones that are super out... let's leave it there
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I had a lesbian couple come in yesterday and they were both really pretty. Also there's tons of pretty lesbians on this site.
There are very pretty lesbians, it's not like there aren't. But they are hard to find cause they're not as out. And the ones that are super out... let's leave it there
They're could be pretty lesbians that are super out but just don't match the "stereotype"
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

Pretty is overrated. I'm more interested in meeting a woman that is beautiful on the inside.
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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

Maybe you just don't know that they're lesbians. Most women are just assumed to be straight. Even the most out people arent recognizable unless they wear a sign on their forehead.

I by no means consider myself "pretty" but I am just feminine enough that even at gay events I have been confused as an ally lol.

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Re: Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

Homosexuality accounts for 1.5% of the population, and within that includes both lesbian and gay. I have no idea for the individual percentages. That means that there's not many lesbians, and therefore less of them that you'll find pretty. But each one will be pretty to someone.
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