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The moment you knew you were gay.

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  1. malachite

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    So what was the exact moment you said to yourself, "oh, my God I'm gay."

    For me I went to turn on the air conditioner in my place and it suddenly dawned on me...Oh my God I'm gay. I don't know if it was the hum of the unit or what but that is when it hit me.

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    I never had a moment.

    I just began to like boys and didn't really care.
     
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    I've known for as long as I can remember, so I cannot tell really...
     
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    You guys aren't making this fun.
     
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    I'm not sure exactly when I started, uh, accepting it, if I even have. I'm still working on that one. >.<

    But I was in a drawing studio class freshman year of college, and I couldn't keep my eyes off the T.A. And I got up to ask her a question, and I remember feeling like I couldn't actually hear what I was saying 'cause my head was buzzing so loud, haha! And I sat down feeling wibbly and dizzy, and it wasn't until I walked out of class that I wondered, "What the HELL was that?! Holy crap, do I like chicks?!"

    But I'm still having a lot of those "oh my god, I'm..." moments lately. I guess I'm trying to get used to the idea, it's still a little weird. Good weird! But weird. I'll be reading something, listening to a lecture, walking, and every once in a while I'll just go "Holy crap, I'm queer." A-actually, it's been "Holy crap, I'm a lesbian" lately but I still think it is too soon for me to actually settle down on the specifics. :confused: Doesn't seem to stop me thinking it though, hehe.
     
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    I was watching a Tegan and Sara music video on my laptop paused it got up and said wow I am totally gay then went back to watching the video. They made me realize how hot girls are.
     
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    Waking up beside a good friend of mine, hungover to bits... and just thinking "Yeah, I'm really not bi."
     
  8. paco

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    6th grade. some bitchy girl kept telling everyone in school that i was gay for no real reason at all. so i kept saying to myself that it couldnt be true blah blah blah, and it was a few months after i started searching "shirtless guys" in google that i thought, "what if i AM gay???"

    the ironic part is that neither of us knew that she was right at the time.
     
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    about 3 seconds ago when i realized i was on EC i thought "holy shit i'm bi"
     
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    I ate a grape and i...

    Gayed in my pants?
     
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    The realization (that I am gay) almost boiled to the surface multiple times from the time I was 13 until I was 26 (last year); I just kept pushing it down and denied it every time. Late last year, however, after talking with a friend, it just hit me.
     
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    I knew when I watched my bros gay vid.. it was the 1st time I saw a man with man action and thought.... Oooooooooo! I like :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    prolly when i was checking out this boy in my school that i had a crush on.
     
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    it never hit me, it was more like...i look at girls, so i must be gay. *insert 4 years of denial here*
     
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    I was lying in bed thinking :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: "Hmm. I'm actually gay. I like boys. wow. I'll never not be gay. Wow. Oh my. Oh crap." Then I panicked. lol.
     
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    I was on the bus on the way to uni. I finally figured out why I was having man crushes.

    I remember the intersection it happened at.

    You get off on eating grapes?
     
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    Greg Lmao, you are awesome. Except now I have that song stuck in my head.
     
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    There kinda wasn't one. It was a fairly swift, but gradual realisation, not such a sudden thing.
     
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    I realized when I popped a woody for a guy
     
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    Never really had a dawning moment. Although after accepting it, "huh, I'm gay" would randomly pop into my head. I remember one time when I was standing in front of the mirror I pointed at myself and said "hey, you're gay!". It made me laugh at the time.