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nametakenagain · 6th May 2009, 01:13 AM

Who loves to just flirt with guys?

Especially when I'm drinking, I <3 flirting, even if I don't like the guy. I just LOVE doing it.

Sometimes, in a club or whatever, they get the idea that I actually like them, and expect some action. D:

So yeah, I find that flirting is a fun way to pass the time.

KittyBoy · 6th May 2009, 01:37 AM

I do too! Everytime at the beach, when I go shopping, having dinner at restaurants, going to the movies, though I never get any response from them. However, unlike my friends, I do my flirting rather subtly, lol.

6th May 2009, 03:09 AM

I'm planning (yep planning) to flirt with the UQ (uni) print services guy, he is quite hot. My way in me, getting a QUT (competing uni) assignment printed with them :P

then i always flirt with other guys very very fun. Frustratingly girls mistake my niceness towards them as flirting (boobies=yucky)

Just Adam · 6th May 2009, 03:44 AM

ill flirt if im in the mood its never returned ( dam shallow people ) but its nice to do especially drinking

Kenko · 6th May 2009, 06:49 AM

Um... after accidentally flirting with a straight guy (who I knew was straight ahead of time) while drunk, I try to minimize all my flirting. Which I don't know if that's a good thing or not.

Just Adam · 6th May 2009, 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenko

Um... after accidentally flirting with a straight guy (who I knew was straight ahead of time) while drunk, I try to minimize all my flirting. Which I don't know if that's a good thing or not.

hmmm dont worry kenko you can flirt with me anytime

lol

dam im at it again lol

Kenko · 6th May 2009, 07:02 AM

:P

Just Adam · 6th May 2009, 07:06 AM

haha naughty

xequar · 6th May 2009, 07:31 AM

Heh, flirting can be a lot of fun! I find I don't do it as much now that I have a boyfriend, though...

6th May 2009, 08:37 AM

UI only flirt with people I'm not attracted to. Way too scared of rejection!

6th May 2009, 08:47 AM

I don't even know how you do that haha. I've given and received looks, if that counts.

qisforquinton · 6th May 2009, 08:50 AM

I love flirting, I flirt with everyone.

J Schuelke · 6th May 2009, 09:54 AM

I was never really good at the whole flirting thing, it never really comes natural to me. But that's what I think. Some of my friends accuse me of flirting all the time, so I don't know what to think anymore, lol

Dazed · 6th May 2009, 10:00 AM

i love to flirt with gay guys. i dont flirt with girls much. well not in person i flirt with ec girls haha ^_^

zzzzzz13 · 6th May 2009, 10:28 AM

ummmm, i would say i flirt quite a bit ... but it is fun lol

**Filip** · 6th May 2009, 10:37 AM

I sometimes try, but I never get a reaction with guys. Perhaps I'm just horrible at it, or way too subtle.

When I even as much as give a hint of flirting with some girls, we end up full-blown flirting. Which is fun, though definitely not the flirting I'm looking for...

6th May 2009, 10:56 AM

ah i saw this thread and knew i'd like it

i love flirting, always have

its the best. i'll flirt with anyone, girls (yeah i know i'm a tease

), i flirt with some guys too, its funny cause they flirt back but i dont think they know it--not that i'd do anything--its just fun since i dont know any gay guys.

Thisisnew · 6th May 2009, 10:58 AM

I flirt too much it's fun.

joeyconnick · 6th May 2009, 11:58 AM

I never flirt with someone unless I mean it or both of us know for sure that it's not serious because I hate hate hate it when people lead me on.

6th May 2009, 12:22 PM

I agree with joey. Getting lead on is just horrible

But I like flirting. ( Im such a hypocrite <3 )

6th May 2009, 01:13 AM	#1
nametakenagain That's what she said! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 61 Join Date: Dec 2008	Flirting... Who loves to just flirt with guys? Especially when I'm drinking, I <3 flirting, even if I don't like the guy. I just LOVE doing it. Sometimes, in a club or whatever, they get the idea that I actually like them, and expect some action. D: So yeah, I find that flirting is a fun way to pass the time.

6th May 2009, 01:37 AM	#2
KittyBoy Kitty! (=｀ω´=) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: Sydney, New South Wales, Australia Age: 20 Posts: 3,479 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Flirting... I do too! Everytime at the beach, when I go shopping, having dinner at restaurants, going to the movies, though I never get any response from them. However, unlike my friends, I do my flirting rather subtly, lol. __________________ Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. ~Judy Garland

6th May 2009, 03:09 AM	#3
tomahto72 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Flirting... I'm planning (yep planning) to flirt with the UQ (uni) print services guy, he is quite hot. My way in me, getting a QUT (competing uni) assignment printed with them :P then i always flirt with other guys very very fun. Frustratingly girls mistake my niceness towards them as flirting (boobies=yucky)

6th May 2009, 03:44 AM	#4
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Flirting... ill flirt if im in the mood its never returned ( dam shallow people ) but its nice to do especially drinking __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

6th May 2009, 06:49 AM	#5
Kenko EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends + parents Location: Canada Age: 26 Posts: 1,407 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: Flirting... Um... after accidentally flirting with a straight guy (who I knew was straight ahead of time) while drunk, I try to minimize all my flirting. Which I don't know if that's a good thing or not.

6th May 2009, 07:02 AM	#7
Kenko EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends + parents Location: Canada Age: 26 Posts: 1,407 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: Flirting... :P

6th May 2009, 07:06 AM	#8
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Flirting... haha naughty __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

6th May 2009, 07:31 AM	#9
xequar Diapered and collared! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Flirting... Heh, flirting can be a lot of fun! I find I don't do it as much now that I have a boyfriend, though... __________________

6th May 2009, 08:37 AM	#10
Johnny123 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Flirting... UI only flirt with people I'm not attracted to. Way too scared of rejection!

6th May 2009, 08:47 AM	#11
Mysterons Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Flirting... I don't even know how you do that haha. I've given and received looks, if that counts.

6th May 2009, 08:50 AM	#12
qisforquinton Master Thespian Full Member Gender: Maleee Orientation: I like guys Out Status: some friends Location: Lameville, NY Age: 19 Posts: 434 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Flirting... I love flirting, I flirt with everyone. __________________ Sugar, we're goin' down swingin'

6th May 2009, 09:54 AM	#13
J Schuelke Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: My Mom, and most friends Location: wisconsin Age: 23 Posts: 190 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Flirting... I was never really good at the whole flirting thing, it never really comes natural to me. But that's what I think. Some of my friends accuse me of flirting all the time, so I don't know what to think anymore, lol __________________ Every day should be gay pride day.

6th May 2009, 10:00 AM	#14
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Flirting... i love to flirt with gay guys. i dont flirt with girls much. well not in person i flirt with ec girls haha ^_^

6th May 2009, 10:28 AM	#15
zzzzzz13 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 313 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Flirting... ummmm, i would say i flirt quite a bit ... but it is fun lol

6th May 2009, 10:37 AM	#16
Filip Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Flirting... I sometimes try, but I never get a reaction with guys. Perhaps I'm just horrible at it, or way too subtle. When I even as much as give a hint of flirting with some girls, we end up full-blown flirting. Which is fun, though definitely not the flirting I'm looking for... __________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...

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6th May 2009, 10:56 AM	#17
paco Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Flirting... ah i saw this thread and knew i'd like it i love flirting, always have its the best. i'll flirt with anyone, girls (yeah i know i'm a tease ), i flirt with some guys too, its funny cause they flirt back but i dont think they know it--not that i'd do anything--its just fun since i dont know any gay guys.

6th May 2009, 10:58 AM	#18
Thisisnew EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: All lesbian all the time!! Out Status: I...I guess it runs in the family! =] Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,302 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Flirting... I flirt too much it's fun. __________________ Thank god for ipods and gays!

6th May 2009, 11:58 AM	#19
joeyconnick sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005	Re: Flirting... I never flirt with someone unless I mean it or both of us know for sure that it's not serious because I hate hate hate it when people lead me on.

6th May 2009, 12:22 PM	#20
Curiosity Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Flirting... I agree with joey. Getting lead on is just horrible But I like flirting. ( Im such a hypocrite <3 )