This week during school, we had testing or w/e, but I was sitting across from this guy who kept rubbing my leg, and then fourth hour he sat next to me, and put his arm on my shoulder, I don't know if he was flirting or what, but how am I supposed to find out if his is flirting or just being mean?
The only problem with that is, he has a girlfriend. But guys with girlfriends don't usually touch another guys leg and then smile.
He could be bi, he could be gay and she's a cover up (i know from personal experience ), or he could just have been mucking around. Like i said, ask him.
I don't know how. If I ask him, "Hey are you Bi? Gay?" He will most likely be offended and never talk to me. And if I do ask him, he will most likely go around the school telling people I'm gay. I just don't know what to do, I guess I should just wait to see if he does anything monday...
Just be smart about how you ask then. Something like 'what was with you touching my leg the other day, you seemed to be enjoying it....'
Maybe if he does it again, be like "um, do you like me or something?" (one eyebrow raised and smiling).
Gosh what a difficult situation! Is there a chance that people might suspect you of being gay? Your profile says you're not out at all; perhaps this guy has been put up to it by his friends to see if you're gay or not? As the others have said the best way would be just to ask. But pending on how ready you are to be out, I would be careful of what you say. Keep it as casual and joking as possible, without making him feel uncomfortable incase he is gay/bi. Good luck ^^
sounds pretty weird to me... I'd just casually ask him what was up with him touching your leg, it's natural to be confused with someone doing that and it won't really attract suspicion.
I'd not bring it up unless it becomes a regular thing. He's got a girlfriend, so even if he was secretly bi, it wouldn't be a good idea to be interested in him. In which case, there's no real need to know.
i say you should ask him something along the lines of "what the hell are you doing?" the next time he does something like that
I wish a guy at school would rub my leg! But like everyone says, just ask him. What's the worst that could happen? I mean, he can't really say you're gay, because he started touching you in the first place, whether he was joking or not.
He is either: Gay Friendly, but not gay or Strait and trying to mess with you Be especially cautious of the last one.
