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Jack2009 · 16th May 2009, 06:48 PM

I am curious what do guys look for in a guy in general.

What makes them have that 'special something'.

gaius · 16th May 2009, 06:50 PM

it's all in the smile! i'm a sucker for a nice cheeky smile

RaRa · 16th May 2009, 07:44 PM

I like eyes. And arms. Guys arms are so hot.

acorn7 · 16th May 2009, 08:03 PM

Eyes, hair and mouth. Some mouths and lips are just incredibly cute and inviting

Eccentric · 16th May 2009, 08:14 PM

Be clean.
Don't be a jerk.

Dazed · 16th May 2009, 08:34 PM

eyes smile and they HAVE to make me laugh.

being smart wouldnt hurt either.

Courtneyyy · 16th May 2009, 09:45 PM

I like awkward skinny white guys.

16th May 2009, 09:49 PM

For me dark hair dark skin is just irresistable and he DEFINATELY has to be confident in himself and if he is not confident in himself he better complement me well!

16th May 2009, 09:56 PM

abs are soo hot--paired with nice pecs and im a done
and im such a sucker for blue eyes
and a light tan is nice
and its so great when they're only half aware of how hot they are.

Pepsi · 17th May 2009, 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Courtneyyy

I like awkward skinny white guys.

OMG I hear you on that one

and I like when they have black hair. but honestly that's really not as important to me as their personalities. I mean they can be whatever so long as they aren't ass hats

Just Adam · 17th May 2009, 07:05 AM

special someone has to love me for me and be accepting

i dont want shalow guys in my life.

17th May 2009, 08:36 AM

I think the majority. of sex appeal is based on confidence. I like it when guys are muscular, but not too muscular, otherwise it's just gross. Blond hair is always a bonus, and beautiful eyes are soooo attractive.

maz10 · 17th May 2009, 08:38 AM

What do I look for? Not 100% sure on that one, probably be the eyes.

diegon3 · 17th May 2009, 08:45 AM

huh i'd say light colored hair with a really nice hair style and beautiful eyes taller than me healthy and fit plus a nice jaw for some reason i'm a sucker for a nice jaw/face structure
but most importantly is that whenever he would see me that a big smile would appear in his face that would melt both his and my troubles away

xxxxx · 17th May 2009, 09:22 AM

1) Nice eyes (blue) or a (Dark color like brown) that dark color look's like the lad has a dirty secret to tell me. lol
2) Nice face structure
3) Nice peck's
4) Nice sized package
5) Nice bum
6) muscular leg's
7) I like tattoo's on a lad but only just before the package.
8) Great personality funny, witty, Intelligent, caring, up for anything has a lot of confidence but not too much because I don't like people with big Heads.

Am I asking too much.? lol

zzzzzz13 · 17th May 2009, 10:42 AM

I like really tall guys, with shaven heads lol ... very thuggish

rainemc · 17th May 2009, 12:34 PM

Nice full lips and a good personality. I am a fan of blond hair as well.

RaRa · 17th May 2009, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by zzzzzz13

I like really tall guys, with shaven heads lol ... very thuggish

Oh god don't get me started. xD I love the gangster type and druggies. O_O

*runs away*

tashyyy · 17th May 2009, 12:44 PM

natural can never go wrong
i do like dark hair
and im a sucker for big eyes

Hoppip · 17th May 2009, 06:17 PM

Intelligence, intelligence, intelligence---some nerdiness sprinkled in. Charisma helps.

Anyone qui peut parler français and wouldn't mind en parler avec moi from temps en temps. That would definitely be vraiment génial, but only s'ils étaient nice about correcting moi.

16th May 2009, 06:48 PM	#1
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Sex Appeal? I am curious what do guys look for in a guy in general. What makes them have that 'special something'.

16th May 2009, 06:50 PM	#2
gaius EC's Geordie Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bi/gay Out Status: Out to friends, family and anyone who wants to kno Location: Lancaster University Age: 22 Posts: 397 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Sex Appeal? it's all in the smile! i'm a sucker for a nice cheeky smile __________________ "Life happens without warning"

16th May 2009, 07:44 PM	#3
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Sex Appeal? I like eyes. And arms. Guys arms are so hot.

16th May 2009, 08:03 PM	#4
acorn7 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Montreal Age: 21 Posts: 636 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Sex Appeal? Eyes, hair and mouth. Some mouths and lips are just incredibly cute and inviting

16th May 2009, 08:14 PM	#5
Eccentric Call me Andy. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Texas Age: 18 Posts: 391 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? Be clean. Don't be a jerk. __________________ "Se brosser les dents, est au haut d'une échelle au bas de laquelle il y a: perdre son âme." - Les Misérables

16th May 2009, 08:34 PM	#6
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Sex Appeal? eyes smile and they HAVE to make me laugh. being smart wouldnt hurt either.

16th May 2009, 09:45 PM	#7
Courtneyyy ColbieMarie Full Member Gender: GIRL Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Mom, brother and close friends Location: Flagstaff, AZ Age: 23 Posts: 975 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? I like awkward skinny white guys. __________________

16th May 2009, 09:49 PM	#8
JayC Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex Appeal? For me dark hair dark skin is just irresistable and he DEFINATELY has to be confident in himself and if he is not confident in himself he better complement me well!

16th May 2009, 09:56 PM	#9
paco Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex Appeal? abs are soo hot--paired with nice pecs and im a done and im such a sucker for blue eyes and a light tan is nice and its so great when they're only half aware of how hot they are.

17th May 2009, 07:05 AM	#11
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? special someone has to love me for me and be accepting i dont want shalow guys in my life. __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

17th May 2009, 08:36 AM	#12
stymied Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sex Appeal? I think the majority. of sex appeal is based on confidence. I like it when guys are muscular, but not too muscular, otherwise it's just gross. Blond hair is always a bonus, and beautiful eyes are soooo attractive.

17th May 2009, 08:38 AM	#13
maz10 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: It's all about the guys Out Status: Most people Location: Huddersfield, UK Age: 22 Posts: 38 Join Date: May 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? What do I look for? Not 100% sure on that one, probably be the eyes.

17th May 2009, 08:45 AM	#14
diegon3 just another human or am I? O_o Full Member Gender: thinks (ok so if it's..) yeah i'm a guy Orientation: thinks hummm definatly gay Out Status: imidiate family, and a few others Location: SEATTLE, WA Posts: 171 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? huh i'd say light colored hair with a really nice hair style and beautiful eyes taller than me healthy and fit plus a nice jaw for some reason i'm a sucker for a nice jaw/face structure but most importantly is that whenever he would see me that a big smile would appear in his face that would melt both his and my troubles away

17th May 2009, 09:22 AM	#15
xxxxx Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 5 friend's upto now and counting! Location: UK Age: 24 Posts: 131 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? 1) Nice eyes (blue) or a (Dark color like brown) that dark color look's like the lad has a dirty secret to tell me. lol 2) Nice face structure 3) Nice peck's 4) Nice sized package 5) Nice bum 6) muscular leg's 7) I like tattoo's on a lad but only just before the package. 8) Great personality funny, witty, Intelligent, caring, up for anything has a lot of confidence but not too much because I don't like people with big Heads. Am I asking too much.? lol

17th May 2009, 10:42 AM	#16
zzzzzz13 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 313 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Sex Appeal? I like really tall guys, with shaven heads lol ... very thuggish

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