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malachite · 27th May 2009, 06:45 AM

So, I just want everyone’s thoughts. We’ve all been there: someone walks into the room. Your heart starts pounding, you feel a shiver, your face gets hot, your mouth goes dry, and you stammer like a babbling idiot. Their face looks like it was carved from angle parts. Why do these people have this effect on us? Do they even know about it?

xequar · 27th May 2009, 07:07 AM

In many cases, yes, they do know about it, and they can use it quite effectively. The trick is finding a personality and some brains to match that beautiful body.

I actually dated one of those people you describe. He was a beautiful beautiful boi, as in could have been a model. But, he wasn't exactly the sharpest knife in the drawer. And yeah, he definitely knew the effect he had when he walked into a room.

**Lexington** · 27th May 2009, 07:14 AM

And sometimes, beautiful people hate us mortals. Funny how that works.

Lex

Just Adam · 27th May 2009, 07:15 AM

some beautiful people hate the attention they get as it becomes all they are nobody sees the person, i dont see the beauty really anymore otherwise i just feel envy withen so i admire the person.

RaRa · 27th May 2009, 07:39 AM

Beautiful people don't really have that affect on me. Only after I get to know them. But by that time it's more because of their personality then their looks, because that's just the icing on top of the cake if you ask me.

Dazed · 27th May 2009, 07:45 AM

inner beauty makes me react like that. i dont find empty pretty shells worth my time.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 27th May 2009, 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gin Uh Fur

inner beauty makes me react like that. i dont find empty pretty shells worth my time.

I love empty pretty shells, I collected some during my holidays todecorate a table mat

Ok, that was dumb.
I just don't seem to have the same taste as everyone else when it comes to beauty. My best friend is one of the most beautiful person I know, she looks like a Botticelli's painting. Apparently, the only thing other people have to say about it is that she needs to lose some weight. How dumb is that ? And why not asking to Mona-Lisa to become blond as they are ?

malachite · 27th May 2009, 08:07 AM

I guess sometimes beautiful people are like conch shells. Nice to look at, but if you press your head to their head…you can hear the ocean.

Just Adam · 27th May 2009, 08:08 AM

id love anyone who would have me haha

heatqueen · 27th May 2009, 08:10 AM

I tend to be more a judge of character than good looks. There are people I've met who are really pretty/hot/gorgeous whatever, but I wouldn't date them because of their personality. For example, at new year's eve I met this seriously hot girl but the next day I thought about it and was like, 'I wouldn't actually date her because it seems that she might be a bit of a player'. (and she's straight lol)

I'm definitely not attracted to people with the peroxide-blonde-hair-and-lots-of-make-up look, but that said I also think they're stereotyped. My dorm mate's blonde with lots of make-up but she's actually a really nice person, not a stereotypical popular-girl slash slut.

I don't mind if a person isn't pretty but I would prefer them to at least make an effort with their looks. E.g. I don't care if they're fat but if they buy really dowdy clothes and look like a frump because they can't be bothered when they *could* make themselves more attractive, it turns me off a tiny bit. (BTW there is a difference between what I just said, and dressing to your own taste/style so girls who dress masculine, don't berate me, because you don't fall into that category!)

partietraumatic · 27th May 2009, 11:35 AM

ive always thought it would be fun to be one of those people just for like one day. Just to see what its like being that beautiful

Shevanel · 27th May 2009, 11:38 AM

Who judges who's beautiful or not though, maybe they feel the same way about others that other people may not think are beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Just like that Twilight Zone Episode. *music plays*

carrie90 · 27th May 2009, 12:09 PM

beauty isnt everything eventually it fades and all thats left is a shell. In my experiance most beautiful ppl dont realise that they are beautiful they hav lots of insecuritys. Personality is worth so much more than looks

Jack2009 · 27th May 2009, 12:38 PM

I don't have a clue about 'beautiful people', but I think I have that same effect on people. Or something weird is happening to me, but now I have girls coming around me who I never spoke to, and one woman called me a stud, and she's laughing and smiling every time I see her (and she's a teacher). And then another woman was saying I am handsome and all when I was a store, and saying I have great hair. It's weird because this all happen within the past couple days.

I think I just need to lose some weight before I be in that group of people, but otherwise I am in that group. It's like having that potential but not doing it, but I am planning on doing it...

zzzzzz13 · 27th May 2009, 12:39 PM

i always think if someones hot they will grab your attention and then you have to get to know them .... personality wins hands down!

One big turn off for me is if someone who is hot but also knows their hot ... if you know what i mean??

Greggers · 27th May 2009, 12:52 PM

When i see a gu carved from angel parts my feet lift one inch off the floor and its like everyone else in the room vanishes. I love a hot boy more than most things in this world. Its like fine art to me really haha. I tend to "people watch" and by that i mean "hot male people watch" with some of my fag hags. We go downtown or something and just spend the entire time looking at all the hot boys and then saying all the things we would do to them. Ironicly, we do this in front of her boyfriend most of the time...

Seeing as i have a body that is *just* bellow the line of "average" it does sometimes send me into a self-loathing spiral because im not that hot and i probably could never land someone that hot, but i can normally get out of that easy.

When it comes down to it though, i have TWO different feelings for guys. I label one as "Lust" and one as "Attraction". The difference being Lust is something along the lines of "Wow that guy is so damn hot i just want to jump his bones and lick him up" and Attraction is "Wow that guy is so amazing i want to marry him, make man babies, and also jump his bones and lick him up". See? Big difference

But yea, if im *really* attracted to guy its because of the inside mainly. For example, im super attracted to creative and/or artsy types. Anyone who does Art, Writing, Music, Acting, and even come Politics always gets my attraction juices flowing.

The moral of the post is Greggers wants to have lots of sex with the hot men

Sha.

Jack2009 · 27th May 2009, 01:03 PM

^^ You're not below 'average', since if I look at your face there's nothing ugly about it. I say 7/10 honestly. You have the potential to be that hot.

malachite · 27th May 2009, 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by zzzzzz13

i always think if someones hot they will grab your attention and then you have to get to know them .... personality wins hands down!

One big turn off for me is if someone who is hot but also knows their hot ... if you know what i mean??

Oh yeah we've all met that person.

kil kill kill

malachite · 27th May 2009, 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jack2009

I don't have a clue about 'beautiful people', but I think I have that same effect on people. Or something weird is happening to me, but now I have girls coming around me who I never spoke to, and one woman called me a stud, and she's laughing and smiling every time I see her (and she's a teacher). And then another woman was saying I am handsome and all when I was a store, and saying I have great hair. It's weird because this all happen within the past couple days.

I think I just need to lose some weight before I be in that group of people, but otherwise I am in that group. It's like having that potential but not doing it, but I am planning on doing it...

Have you been more confident lately? Honestly, I think confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Jack2009 · 27th May 2009, 01:12 PM

^^ Nope. More or less the same.

I lost about five pounds though, and we just came back from a long weekend.

27th May 2009, 06:45 AM	#1
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Sometimes I hate beautiful people. So, I just want everyone’s thoughts. We’ve all been there: someone walks into the room. Your heart starts pounding, you feel a shiver, your face gets hot, your mouth goes dry, and you stammer like a babbling idiot. Their face looks like it was carved from angle parts. Why do these people have this effect on us? Do they even know about it?

27th May 2009, 07:07 AM	#2
xequar Diapered and collared! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. In many cases, yes, they do know about it, and they can use it quite effectively. The trick is finding a personality and some brains to match that beautiful body. I actually dated one of those people you describe. He was a beautiful beautiful boi, as in could have been a model. But, he wasn't exactly the sharpest knife in the drawer. And yeah, he definitely knew the effect he had when he walked into a room. __________________

27th May 2009, 07:14 AM	#3
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. And sometimes, beautiful people hate us mortals. Funny how that works. Lex

27th May 2009, 07:15 AM	#4
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. some beautiful people hate the attention they get as it becomes all they are nobody sees the person, i dont see the beauty really anymore otherwise i just feel envy withen so i admire the person. __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

27th May 2009, 07:39 AM	#5
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. Beautiful people don't really have that affect on me. Only after I get to know them. But by that time it's more because of their personality then their looks, because that's just the icing on top of the cake if you ask me.

27th May 2009, 07:45 AM	#6
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. inner beauty makes me react like that. i dont find empty pretty shells worth my time.

27th May 2009, 08:07 AM	#8
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. I guess sometimes beautiful people are like conch shells. Nice to look at, but if you press your head to their head…you can hear the ocean.

27th May 2009, 08:08 AM	#9
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. id love anyone who would have me haha __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

27th May 2009, 08:10 AM	#10
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,706 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. I tend to be more a judge of character than good looks. There are people I've met who are really pretty/hot/gorgeous whatever, but I wouldn't date them because of their personality. For example, at new year's eve I met this seriously hot girl but the next day I thought about it and was like, 'I wouldn't actually date her because it seems that she might be a bit of a player'. (and she's straight lol) I'm definitely not attracted to people with the peroxide-blonde-hair-and-lots-of-make-up look, but that said I also think they're stereotyped. My dorm mate's blonde with lots of make-up but she's actually a really nice person, not a stereotypical popular-girl slash slut. I don't mind if a person isn't pretty but I would prefer them to at least make an effort with their looks. E.g. I don't care if they're fat but if they buy really dowdy clothes and look like a frump because they can't be bothered when they could make themselves more attractive, it turns me off a tiny bit. (BTW there is a difference between what I just said, and dressing to your own taste/style so girls who dress masculine, don't berate me, because you don't fall into that category!) __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

27th May 2009, 11:35 AM	#11
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. ive always thought it would be fun to be one of those people just for like one day. Just to see what its like being that beautiful __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

27th May 2009, 11:38 AM	#12
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. Who judges who's beautiful or not though, maybe they feel the same way about others that other people may not think are beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Just like that Twilight Zone Episode. music plays __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

27th May 2009, 12:09 PM	#13
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. beauty isnt everything eventually it fades and all thats left is a shell. In my experiance most beautiful ppl dont realise that they are beautiful they hav lots of insecuritys. Personality is worth so much more than looks __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

27th May 2009, 12:38 PM	#14
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. I don't have a clue about 'beautiful people', but I think I have that same effect on people. Or something weird is happening to me, but now I have girls coming around me who I never spoke to, and one woman called me a stud, and she's laughing and smiling every time I see her (and she's a teacher). And then another woman was saying I am handsome and all when I was a store, and saying I have great hair. It's weird because this all happen within the past couple days. I think I just need to lose some weight before I be in that group of people, but otherwise I am in that group. It's like having that potential but not doing it, but I am planning on doing it... Last edited by Jack2009; 27th May 2009 at 12:41 PM..

27th May 2009, 12:39 PM	#15
zzzzzz13 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 313 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. i always think if someones hot they will grab your attention and then you have to get to know them .... personality wins hands down! One big turn off for me is if someone who is hot but also knows their hot ... if you know what i mean??

27th May 2009, 12:52 PM	#16
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. When i see a gu carved from angel parts my feet lift one inch off the floor and its like everyone else in the room vanishes. I love a hot boy more than most things in this world. Its like fine art to me really haha. I tend to "people watch" and by that i mean "hot male people watch" with some of my fag hags. We go downtown or something and just spend the entire time looking at all the hot boys and then saying all the things we would do to them. Ironicly, we do this in front of her boyfriend most of the time... Seeing as i have a body that is just bellow the line of "average" it does sometimes send me into a self-loathing spiral because im not that hot and i probably could never land someone that hot, but i can normally get out of that easy. When it comes down to it though, i have TWO different feelings for guys. I label one as "Lust" and one as "Attraction". The difference being Lust is something along the lines of "Wow that guy is so damn hot i just want to jump his bones and lick him up" and Attraction is "Wow that guy is so amazing i want to marry him, make man babies, and also jump his bones and lick him up". See? Big difference But yea, if im really attracted to guy its because of the inside mainly. For example, im super attracted to creative and/or artsy types. Anyone who does Art, Writing, Music, Acting, and even come Politics always gets my attraction juices flowing. The moral of the post is Greggers wants to have lots of sex with the hot men Sha. __________________ "It's a male duck."

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27th May 2009, 01:03 PM	#17
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. ^^ You're not below 'average', since if I look at your face there's nothing ugly about it. I say 7/10 honestly. You have the potential to be that hot.

27th May 2009, 01:12 PM	#20
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Sometimes I hate beautiful people. ^^ Nope. More or less the same. I lost about five pounds though, and we just came back from a long weekend.