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JakeBHT · 29th May 2009, 02:40 PM

Who has lost their virgitnity and wishes they hadn't or wished they had waited or wished it had been to someone else? Just out of pure interest!

Just Adam · 29th May 2009, 02:44 PM

with a woman i lost minw when drunk was a horrid mistake and i realised that pretending to be who im not wont work

i havent lost male virginity yet

one day though

silentsound · 29th May 2009, 02:44 PM

http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/sh...200#post494200

kettleoffish · 29th May 2009, 04:30 PM

No, but I had the chance and I am very thankful I did not take it.

29th May 2009, 04:32 PM

I just wish I had done it soberly. It was really risky the way I went about it.

Zach · 29th May 2009, 04:41 PM

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

RaRa · 29th May 2009, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Zach

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

Oh that's hot.

GoBabyGoGo · 29th May 2009, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Zach

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

WOW! just like that eh? Sounds like a porn storyline

Zach · 29th May 2009, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Polyamorous

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Originally Posted by Zach

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

WOW! just like that eh? Sounds like a porn storyline

Yeah... just my luck

**Lexington** · 29th May 2009, 05:33 PM

I lost mine on the side of the highway to a hitchhiker. Which sounds a lot hotter than it was. Do I regret it? Not really. It would've been nice if either of us had know what the hell we were doing, but I don't regret it.

Lex

Dazed · 29th May 2009, 05:33 PM

i lost my straight virginity over 3 years ago....it was..a mistake. bigger mistake was me still going back knowing i wasn't into it.

i fooled around with a girl once. we didnt go that far but..idk. i dont know if i regret it or not.

Dazed · 29th May 2009, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexington

I lost mine on the side of the highway to a hitchhiker. Which sounds a lot hotter than it was. Do I regret it? Not really. It would've been nice if either of us had know what the hell we were doing, but I don't regret it.

Lex

wow.

write a book about your life so i can buy it. haha

Apocalypte · 29th May 2009, 05:44 PM

Put it this way: I got treeburn when I lost my straight virginity. Not an experience I wish to repeat

acorn7 · 29th May 2009, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Zach

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

(I'm so jealous

)

Derek the Wolf · 29th May 2009, 07:51 PM

I'm happy the way things went. Honestly it could've been a lot better the first time but I'm still with the same person, and it's only gotten better X3

30th May 2009, 03:39 AM

I would say about 3/4's of my friends are like this (usually drunken encounter and most on schoolies week). I myself still hold my v-plates on both sides of the fence.......AND i don't feel pressured to rush off and lose it

**Gerry** · 30th May 2009, 03:42 AM

I lost mine a long time ago. I no longer talk to the guy that I lost it to and I do wish it could've been with someone else. But it was fun nonetheless, from what I remember. Lol.

Just Adam · 30th May 2009, 03:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zach

I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it

We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

you said youd never tell :O

but seriouslly id wish someone would just kiss me that randomly if nothing else

joeyconnick · 31st May 2009, 01:39 AM

The first time I was with a guy was totally awesome... I wouldn't trade it for anything! I was nervous out of my mind and it was kinda awkward and I couldn't stop babbling but the moment he put his arms around me and we kissed, I said, "I always knew it would be like this."

It was actually probably the most perfect single moment of my life. That did not happen at the top of the Eiffel Tower.

Or in a secret magical place in the heart of downtown Vancouver. Basically certain parts of my life have been relatively amazing so I have trouble choosing.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 31st May 2009, 01:55 AM

I could have lost my virginity a way I would have regret. Fortunatly for me, the guy I was with realised just before that I wasn't ready and he stopped. It was not a nice moment to live (especially because of the heartbreak that followed) but I realised (years after) that he had done the right thing.
I have lost my virginity with my husband and never regret it.

29th May 2009, 02:40 PM	#1
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29th May 2009, 02:44 PM	#2
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... with a woman i lost minw when drunk was a horrid mistake and i realised that pretending to be who im not wont work i havent lost male virginity yet one day though __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

29th May 2009, 02:44 PM	#3
silentsound Flaming Thespian Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: most people Age: 18 Posts: 2,253 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/sh...200#post494200 __________________ ...and I can't wait to figure out what's *wrong* with me, so I can say 'this is the way I [used] to be'

29th May 2009, 04:30 PM	#4
kettleoffish new avatar time! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but parents.. for now. Location: Scotland Age: 18 Posts: 1,045 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... No, but I had the chance and I am very thankful I did not take it. __________________ ~~There is no way to peace; peace is the way.~~ --A. J. Muste

29th May 2009, 04:32 PM	#5
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I just wish I had done it soberly. It was really risky the way I went about it.

29th May 2009, 04:41 PM	#6
Zach Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family and friends, and a couple of people at work Location: Janesville Wisconsin Posts: 191 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I lost mine to "the boy next door" .... and I have never regretted it We were just hanging out watching tv, and then my neighbor boy leaned over and whispered into my ear "ummm...can I blow you" I was just horney enough that I told him "Help your self" ...... and he did

29th May 2009, 05:33 PM	#10
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I lost mine on the side of the highway to a hitchhiker. Which sounds a lot hotter than it was. Do I regret it? Not really. It would've been nice if either of us had know what the hell we were doing, but I don't regret it. Lex

29th May 2009, 05:33 PM	#11
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... i lost my straight virginity over 3 years ago....it was..a mistake. bigger mistake was me still going back knowing i wasn't into it. i fooled around with a girl once. we didnt go that far but..idk. i dont know if i regret it or not.

29th May 2009, 05:44 PM	#13
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... Put it this way: I got treeburn when I lost my straight virginity. Not an experience I wish to repeat __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

29th May 2009, 07:51 PM	#15
Derek the Wolf Furry Overlord Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Majority Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 1,325 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I'm happy the way things went. Honestly it could've been a lot better the first time but I'm still with the same person, and it's only gotten better X3 __________________

30th May 2009, 03:39 AM	#16
tomahto72 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I would say about 3/4's of my friends are like this (usually drunken encounter and most on schoolies week). I myself still hold my v-plates on both sides of the fence.......AND i don't feel pressured to rush off and lose it

30th May 2009, 03:42 AM	#17
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,551 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I lost mine a long time ago. I no longer talk to the guy that I lost it to and I do wish it could've been with someone else. But it was fun nonetheless, from what I remember. Lol. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

31st May 2009, 01:39 AM	#19
joeyconnick sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... The first time I was with a guy was totally awesome... I wouldn't trade it for anything! I was nervous out of my mind and it was kinda awkward and I couldn't stop babbling but the moment he put his arms around me and we kissed, I said, "I always knew it would be like this." It was actually probably the most perfect single moment of my life. That did not happen at the top of the Eiffel Tower. Or in a secret magical place in the heart of downtown Vancouver. Basically certain parts of my life have been relatively amazing so I have trouble choosing.

31st May 2009, 01:55 AM	#20
Eleanor Rigby Filip's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,400 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: has anyone lost their virgitnity and wished.... I could have lost my virginity a way I would have regret. Fortunatly for me, the guy I was with realised just before that I wasn't ready and he stopped. It was not a nice moment to live (especially because of the heartbreak that followed) but I realised (years after) that he had done the right thing. I have lost my virginity with my husband and never regret it. __________________ "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a means." Immanuel Kant