Empty Closets Coming Out Resources and a Safe Place to Chat
Welcome Forum Chat Room Resources News Members

Go Back   Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out > General Chat > Chit Chat

Chit Chat General discussion of topics of interest to LGBT people of all ages.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 8th Jun 2009, 08:43 PM   #1
I've got the moves like Jagger
Full Member
 
RaeofLite's Avatar
 

Gender:
Orientation: Sapphicly inclined
Out Status: My closet is for clothes!
Location: BC, Canada
Age: 23
Posts: 3,111
Join Date: Apr 2009


Default Going Clubbing

Who loves going to the clubs?

I do on occasion as long as I'm with some good friends or my lady.

But, there's no gay bars in the area, so there are only the occasional LGBT dances held by some organizations an hour or so away from where I live. Therefore we have to go to the regular clubs/bars.

Has anyone been hassled by someone of the opposite for dancing with another person of the same sex/your gf/bf etc and what do you do about it?

Or do you just boogie on down like no one's watching?
__________________
People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund
(and the lesbians)
RaeofLite is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 8th Jun 2009, 09:52 PM   #2
Well Known
Full Member
 
theworld's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Out to everyone
Location: Oregon
Age: 21
Posts: 209
Join Date: Jan 2009


Default Re: Going Clubbing

I've gone once and loved it. I didn't dance with anyone in particular but it was a gay club so there certainly were gay couples dancing and they of course didn't get any crap for it in there.
theworld is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 8th Jun 2009, 11:36 PM   #3
EC's Biggest Creep
Full Member
 
gutsrie's Avatar
 

Gender: Guy
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Ask and I'll tell
Location: California
Age: 26
Posts: 246
Join Date: Jul 2008


Default Re: Going Clubbing

i go only for the sake of dancing. otherwise, it's pretty pointless for me because it's usually too loud to have any decent conversations without yelling.
gutsrie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 8th Jun 2009, 11:54 PM   #4
Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels.
Full Member
 
Greggers's Avatar
 

Gender: Theatre Queen
Orientation: Disco Sticks
Out Status: Everyone and a few more
Location: BC, Canada
Age: 21
Posts: 3,528
Join Date: Dec 2008


Default Re: Going Clubbing

Quote:
Originally Posted by RaeofLite View Post
Who loves going to the clubs?

I do on occasion as long as I'm with some good friends or my lady.

But, there's no gay bars in the area, so there are only the occasional LGBT dances held by some organizations an hour or so away from where I live. Therefore we have to go to the regular clubs/bars.

Has anyone been hassled by someone of the opposite for dancing with another person of the same sex/your gf/bf etc and what do you do about it?

Or do you just boogie on down like no one's watching?
Hmm, you live in BC, so if your are at all close to Vancouver i know they have some VERY spiffy gay bars and clubs I am very excited to turn 19 in a few weeks and go clubbing with some fag hags! Also i know Victoria must have a few and im sure places up north like Kamloops (sp? sigh) have one or two?

...that aside, i am going to be a hard core clubber im sure. I just love dance and techno music and once i start i just cant stop! I also love a good, and fruity, drunk im not going to lie So it will be my second home im sure.
__________________

"It's a male duck."
Greggers is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 9th Jun 2009, 01:02 AM   #5
Bulletproof
Full Member
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: FaceBook, MySpace, I don't care who knows OUT
Location: Saskatchewan, Canada
Age: 24
Posts: 313
Join Date: Dec 2005


Default Re: Going Clubbing

All I ever go to is "straight" clubs. I don't go out to hook up or find me a boyfriend anyway so it doesn't bother me. I go to party! And dance (sometimes)! I haven't danced with a guy at a club (yet). Usually when I dance it's just with my people

I haven't been to a gay bar yet because I don't live near one. I have been to the cities that have gay bars, but we usually end up somewhere else. Nothing personal, just the way it is.
Chaos is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 9th Jun 2009, 04:32 PM   #6
Well Known
Full Member
 
J Schuelke's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: My Mom, and most friends
Location: wisconsin
Age: 23
Posts: 190
Join Date: Apr 2008


Default Re: Going Clubbing

I've never really been to one, but I've always kind of wanted to. See I am a bit shy so I don't know if I would be able to actually go out there and hit it. Some of my str8 friends wanted to take me once, but we never got around to it to which I was both relieved and dissappointed at the same time.

Does anyone else feel the same way?
__________________
Every day should be gay pride day.
J Schuelke is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 9th Jun 2009, 05:39 PM   #7
The square root of 4 is rainbows
Full Member
 
carrie90's Avatar
 

Gender: Female
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: everybody really
Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco
Age: 21
Posts: 1,327
Join Date: Feb 2009


Default Re: Going Clubbing

I dont mind clubs but it doesnt really do much for me i will go but i wont be sad if we do something else
__________________
I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror
-Sue Sylvester
carrie90 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 9th Jun 2009, 06:46 PM   #8
I've got the moves like Jagger
Full Member
 
RaeofLite's Avatar
 

Gender:
Orientation: Sapphicly inclined
Out Status: My closet is for clothes!
Location: BC, Canada
Age: 23
Posts: 3,111
Join Date: Apr 2009


Default Re: Going Clubbing

Quote:
Quote: Some of my str8 friends wanted to take me once, but we never got around to it to which I was both relieved and dissappointed at the same time.

Does anyone else feel the same way?
Yep. I'm hoping to hit one or two on Vancouver's pride week sometime this summer.
__________________
People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund
(and the lesbians)
RaeofLite is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Clubbing! belovedwarrior Chit Chat 6 2nd Mar 2008 09:52 AM
My coming-out story Paul_UK Coming Out Stories 13 20th Sep 2005 09:58 AM


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:29 AM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0
Copyright ©2004 - 2012, Empty Closets. The Empty Closets name and logo are registered trademarks.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11