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Jose Carioca · 15th Jun 2009, 11:49 AM

Do you love it or hate it when strait people flirt with you?

Lucy · 15th Jun 2009, 11:56 AM

It usually drives me batsh*t insane.

Jose Carioca · 15th Jun 2009, 12:00 PM

I personally love it, but if you don't tell yourself "He IS strait." it can be such a mind-f*ck.

partietraumatic · 15th Jun 2009, 12:02 PM

its never happened but i would imagine it would annoy me

redsapphire · 15th Jun 2009, 12:03 PM

I wouldn't mind it, if it ever happened.

15th Jun 2009, 12:04 PM

I've had it happen. Once, Brad a friend of mine, put his arm around me and got way too close for comfort. He even rested his head on my shoulder as we were watching Youtube. Fuckin total mind fuck. I hate that shit because I have the biggest crush. He doesn't know I'm gay. XD He's one of those straight guys who're so sure of their masculinity, that anything considered "gay" doesn't even phase him. GRR!!!

Then at the bus station, I had some random guy wink at me and I blew'em a kiss in retort and he suddenly freaked out and started calling me fag.

Fuckin weirdos.

Shevanel · 15th Jun 2009, 12:05 PM

I don't mind it

I like when Straight*

people are comfortable with their sexuality.

littledinosaurs · 15th Jun 2009, 12:05 PM

I don't mind it at all.
also i'd prefer straight girls to flirt with me.

15th Jun 2009, 12:11 PM

Well I enjoy when straight girls flirt with me.

carrie90 · 15th Jun 2009, 12:12 PM

I like when striaght people have a good sense of humour and feel comfortable flirting with someone gay/bisexual and im a bit of a flirt myself in an innocent way its all fun

RaRa · 15th Jun 2009, 12:13 PM

Hate it and love it at the same time. xD

Shevanel · 15th Jun 2009, 12:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by littledinosaurs

I don't mind it at all.
also i'd prefer straight girls to flirt with me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Midnight Angel

Well I enjoy when straight girls flirt with me.

Exactly. Straight girls flirting is commonplace and totally encouraged, Straight boys flirting is just funny. "straight" boys flirting happens a bit too much too XD But It's all good

Flirting is awesome.

Hoppip · 15th Jun 2009, 12:18 PM

I can't say it's never happened, because I have to admit there's something about me that just reeks "Hermes of the awkward girls who don't wear deodorant." (Hahah no pun intended).

I guess I don't mind too much? To me it's a case-by-case issue. The flirting isn't so much the problem as the one doing it. As shallow as that is, it's the truth.

Lucy · 15th Jun 2009, 12:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Enigma

Then at the bus station, I had some random guy wink at me and I blew'em a kiss in retort and he suddenly freaked out and started calling me fag.

Fuckin weirdos.

that's hillarious XD

well...I just don't like flirting period. Unless it's with a reeeally cute girl, or a reeeally special person

palmsprings760 · 15th Jun 2009, 12:30 PM

Omg I Love It

kramer362 · 15th Jun 2009, 01:00 PM

It's flattering but makes me uncomfortable cause I'm not ready to be completely out of the closet yet, so I feel like I look a dick and just blow them off, lol.

malachite · 15th Jun 2009, 01:01 PM

it doesn't really bother me.
Ofcourse I'm so dense I probably wouldn't notice.

zzzzzz13 · 15th Jun 2009, 01:05 PM

Ahh flirting is soo fun .... but i do come from a very flirty group of friends, so im prob too used to it now

Just Adam · 15th Jun 2009, 01:06 PM

i dont get flirted at so meh

but if it did it would make me feel like a joke :S

Thisisnew · 15th Jun 2009, 01:08 PM

I love it

flirting is fun.

15th Jun 2009, 11:49 AM	#1
Jose Carioca 1/3 of the Three Caballeros Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: M/M Out Status: A few people Location: San Diego Age: 20 Posts: 287 Join Date: Apr 2009	Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? Do you love it or hate it when strait people flirt with you? Last edited by Jose Carioca; 15th Jun 2009 at 11:51 AM.. Reason: I forgot to add a poll option.

15th Jun 2009, 11:56 AM	#2
Lucy EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Generally enjoys ladies. Out Status: those who ask. Location: Milwaukee Age: 17 Posts: 272 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? It usually drives me batsh*t insane.

15th Jun 2009, 12:00 PM	#3
Jose Carioca 1/3 of the Three Caballeros Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: M/M Out Status: A few people Location: San Diego Age: 20 Posts: 287 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I personally love it, but if you don't tell yourself "He IS strait." it can be such a mind-f*ck.

15th Jun 2009, 12:02 PM	#4
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? its never happened but i would imagine it would annoy me __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

15th Jun 2009, 12:03 PM	#5
redsapphire EC's resident witch Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Wow Mama Out Status: most except family Location: Bonny Lingland Age: 20 Posts: 877 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I wouldn't mind it, if it ever happened. __________________ *Don't Bend, Don't Break, Baby Don't Back Down...*

15th Jun 2009, 12:04 PM	#6
The Enigma Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I've had it happen. Once, Brad a friend of mine, put his arm around me and got way too close for comfort. He even rested his head on my shoulder as we were watching Youtube. Fuckin total mind fuck. I hate that shit because I have the biggest crush. He doesn't know I'm gay. XD He's one of those straight guys who're so sure of their masculinity, that anything considered "gay" doesn't even phase him. GRR!!! Then at the bus station, I had some random guy wink at me and I blew'em a kiss in retort and he suddenly freaked out and started calling me fag. Fuckin weirdos.

15th Jun 2009, 12:05 PM	#7
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I don't mind it I like when Straight* people are comfortable with their sexuality. __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

15th Jun 2009, 12:05 PM	#8
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I don't mind it at all. also i'd prefer straight girls to flirt with me. __________________ Âllo Là

15th Jun 2009, 12:11 PM	#9
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? Well I enjoy when straight girls flirt with me.

15th Jun 2009, 12:12 PM	#10
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I like when striaght people have a good sense of humour and feel comfortable flirting with someone gay/bisexual and im a bit of a flirt myself in an innocent way its all fun __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

15th Jun 2009, 12:13 PM	#11
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? Hate it and love it at the same time. xD

15th Jun 2009, 12:18 PM	#13
Hoppip look at the good i do Full Member Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? I can't say it's never happened, because I have to admit there's something about me that just reeks "Hermes of the awkward girls who don't wear deodorant." (Hahah no pun intended). I guess I don't mind too much? To me it's a case-by-case issue. The flirting isn't so much the problem as the one doing it. As shallow as that is, it's the truth. __________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant.

15th Jun 2009, 12:30 PM	#15
palmsprings760 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 3 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? Omg I Love It

15th Jun 2009, 01:00 PM	#16
kramer362 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: western new york Age: 26 Posts: 400 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? It's flattering but makes me uncomfortable cause I'm not ready to be completely out of the closet yet, so I feel like I look a dick and just blow them off, lol.

15th Jun 2009, 01:01 PM	#17
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? it doesn't really bother me. Ofcourse I'm so dense I probably wouldn't notice.

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15th Jun 2009, 01:05 PM	#18
zzzzzz13 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 313 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Do You Love it or Hate it when Strait people Flirt? Ahh flirting is soo fun .... but i do come from a very flirty group of friends, so im prob too used to it now

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