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jeffxrawrr · 15th Jun 2009, 12:34 PM

gay guys find women unattractive when lesbians find guys unattractive.

just how we think alike, kinda, but not completely.

just thinking because i was on that " why are you gay " thread.

Shevanel · 15th Jun 2009, 12:42 PM

I don't think thats entirely true at all. and I'm not even saying it from a Bisexual perspective.

Eccentric · 15th Jun 2009, 01:45 PM

Well straight guys find women attractive when straight women find guys attractive
...
...I don't get what you're saying

carrie90 · 15th Jun 2009, 01:45 PM

i agree with joey i think all humans are attracted to both sexes at some point I know lots of gay men that still find some women attractive but that just my opinion

MusicIsLife · 15th Jun 2009, 01:49 PM

I dont think thats entirely true.

I think some men are good looking. I just wouldnt want to be with them because of what's below the waist.

RaRa · 15th Jun 2009, 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MusicIsLife

I dont think thats entirely true.

I think some men are good looking. I just wouldnt want to be with them because of what's below the waist.

This. Just substitute men with women.

Just Adam · 15th Jun 2009, 03:16 PM

all just human to me if your nice to me i am to you

**Lexington** · 15th Jun 2009, 03:18 PM

I go see burlesque shows quite often. Which is almost exclusively women taking their clothes off. I don't find them unattractive at all - in fact, I find them gorgeous at times. The same way I find a painting or a sunset gorgeous. I don't try to get those into bed, either.

Lex

Greggers · 15th Jun 2009, 03:34 PM

I turn to Kevin from the office for my answer:

"A painting, can be beautiful, but I don’t want to bang a painting."

There is a difference from finding something attractive and finding something beautiful. I find the male body attractive and it gets me excited. I find the fully clothed female body beautiful, mainly cause i love womens fashion, but yea i can still appreciate the beauty.

**Maddy** · 15th Jun 2009, 03:48 PM

I don't find guys unattractive (although I do make the occasional "guys are icky" joke to counteract the "ew vagina get it away from me it's hideous" you see way too often), I'm just not attracted to them. I'm not sure how to explain the difference, but it's definitely there.

diegon3 · 15th Jun 2009, 05:02 PM

I would say that i can see what makes a woman attractive to a man and vise verse (of coarse) as well as how they are beautiful, but that doesn't mean that i am (in my perspective) am attracted to that woman. i have to be entirely attracted both mind and body when i feel my heart start pounding extremely loud and when time would seem in existant

George · 15th Jun 2009, 07:33 PM

I find girls hot and stuff but it doesn't mean I want to get into their pants. >_>

Mickey · 15th Jun 2009, 08:11 PM

If a guy is nice looking,I say so.Doesn't make me any less lesbian!

Wander · 15th Jun 2009, 10:11 PM

Uh...no? I thought that was the most basic concept of sexual attraction. Different people find other different people attractive, what's not to get?

RaeofLite · 15th Jun 2009, 10:35 PM

Originally Posted by MusicIsLife
I dont think thats entirely true.

I think some men are good looking. I just wouldnt want to be with them because of what's below the waist.
-----------

Couldn't have said it better myself. I can appreciate that a guy is cute or has sex appeal, but I would never want to "get with him" because it's the touch and intimacy of a woman that turns my crank.

Thisisnew · 15th Jun 2009, 10:44 PM

I find guys attractive but it's not the same way I find a girl attractive.

Jose Carioca · 15th Jun 2009, 10:47 PM

No, it's not funny at all.

Black Cat · 16th Jun 2009, 10:43 AM

I don't so much find it funny, but rather interesting. I find some women attractive, but not sexually. I just think that to a degree we are all a tiny bit bisexual, even if we prefer one specific gender to the other.

15th Jun 2009, 12:34 PM	#1
jeffxrawrr gosh, that was stupid. Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: I find girls cute, but not kissable. Out Status: zero. but im sure people already know. Location: eastcoast.america Age: 16 Posts: 15 Join Date: Jun 2009	isn't it funny how.. gay guys find women unattractive when lesbians find guys unattractive. just how we think alike, kinda, but not completely. just thinking because i was on that " why are you gay " thread.

15th Jun 2009, 12:42 PM	#2
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: isn't it funny how.. I don't think thats entirely true at all. and I'm not even saying it from a Bisexual perspective. __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

15th Jun 2009, 01:45 PM	#3
Eccentric Call me Andy. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Texas Age: 18 Posts: 391 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. Well straight guys find women attractive when straight women find guys attractive ... ...I don't get what you're saying __________________ "Se brosser les dents, est au haut d'une échelle au bas de laquelle il y a: perdre son âme." - Les Misérables

15th Jun 2009, 01:45 PM	#4
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. i agree with joey i think all humans are attracted to both sexes at some point I know lots of gay men that still find some women attractive but that just my opinion __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

15th Jun 2009, 01:49 PM	#5
MusicIsLife EC Addict Full Member Gender: Not even sure anymore. Something in between. Orientation: I like girls :) Out Status: Everyone on orientation 7 people on trans issue. Location: Montréal, QC Age: 23 Posts: 1,595 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: isn't it funny how.. I dont think thats entirely true. I think some men are good looking. I just wouldnt want to be with them because of what's below the waist.

15th Jun 2009, 03:16 PM	#7
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. all just human to me if your nice to me i am to you __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

15th Jun 2009, 03:18 PM	#8
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: isn't it funny how.. I go see burlesque shows quite often. Which is almost exclusively women taking their clothes off. I don't find them unattractive at all - in fact, I find them gorgeous at times. The same way I find a painting or a sunset gorgeous. I don't try to get those into bed, either. Lex

15th Jun 2009, 03:34 PM	#9
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: isn't it funny how.. I turn to Kevin from the office for my answer: "A painting, can be beautiful, but I don’t want to bang a painting." There is a difference from finding something attractive and finding something beautiful. I find the male body attractive and it gets me excited. I find the fully clothed female body beautiful, mainly cause i love womens fashion, but yea i can still appreciate the beauty. __________________ "It's a male duck."

15th Jun 2009, 03:48 PM	#10
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: isn't it funny how.. I don't find guys unattractive (although I do make the occasional "guys are icky" joke to counteract the "ew vagina get it away from me it's hideous" you see way too often), I'm just not attracted to them. I'm not sure how to explain the difference, but it's definitely there. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

15th Jun 2009, 05:02 PM	#11
diegon3 just another human or am I? O_o Full Member Gender: thinks (ok so if it's..) yeah i'm a guy Orientation: thinks hummm definatly gay Out Status: imidiate family, and a few others Location: SEATTLE, WA Posts: 171 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. I would say that i can see what makes a woman attractive to a man and vise verse (of coarse) as well as how they are beautiful, but that doesn't mean that i am (in my perspective) am attracted to that woman. i have to be entirely attracted both mind and body when i feel my heart start pounding extremely loud and when time would seem in existant

15th Jun 2009, 07:33 PM	#12
George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: isn't it funny how.. I find girls hot and stuff but it doesn't mean I want to get into their pants. >_>

15th Jun 2009, 08:11 PM	#13
Mickey Older and bolder! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Massachusetts Age: 50 Posts: 1,775 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: isn't it funny how.. If a guy is nice looking,I say so.Doesn't make me any less lesbian! __________________ We don't choose to be gay...we're CHOSEN!

15th Jun 2009, 10:11 PM	#14
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: isn't it funny how.. Uh...no? I thought that was the most basic concept of sexual attraction. Different people find other different people attractive, what's not to get?

15th Jun 2009, 10:35 PM	#15
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. Originally Posted by MusicIsLife I dont think thats entirely true. I think some men are good looking. I just wouldnt want to be with them because of what's below the waist. ----------- Couldn't have said it better myself. I can appreciate that a guy is cute or has sex appeal, but I would never want to "get with him" because it's the touch and intimacy of a woman that turns my crank. __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

15th Jun 2009, 10:44 PM	#16
Thisisnew EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: All lesbian all the time!! Out Status: I...I guess it runs in the family! =] Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,302 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: isn't it funny how.. I find guys attractive but it's not the same way I find a girl attractive. __________________ Thank god for ipods and gays!

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15th Jun 2009, 10:47 PM	#17
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