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Jack2009 · 16th Jun 2009, 05:21 AM

Would you have a deep relationship with an ugly man or the most beautiful woman on the planet?

If you're a lesbian

Would you have a deep relationship with an ugly woman or the most handsome man on the planet?

** the most beautiful people can switch with your ideal

CrystalCat · 16th Jun 2009, 05:56 AM

Why is that people use the words "ugly" and "fat" interchangeably

16th Jun 2009, 05:58 AM

Thanks for that.
Yes. All fat people are hideous monsters that don't deserve love! All women should be thin and busty! All men should be muscular and square-jawed!

Dude. Overweight =/= Ugly.

That being said, I'm bisexual so count me out of it.

George · 16th Jun 2009, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Numfarh

Thanks for that.
Yes. All fat people are hideous monsters that don't deserve love! All women should be thin and busty! All men should be muscular and square-jawed!

Dude. Overweight =/= Ugly.

I actually both like guys who have a bit of extra weight around the middle, who are lean AND guys who are muscular. Guys can be absolutely adorable when they have a little extra squish to them.

Also if I had it my way I just wouldn't go out with either the ugly man or the woman. XD

No One · 16th Jun 2009, 07:02 AM

Well personaly i would be with the most ugly guy if i had to choose between the two because i dont feel i can be in love with a girl

SirBoobalot · 16th Jun 2009, 07:17 AM

Well, I'm bi, so I don't count for the experiment.

But seriously, I'd never fuck the first girl. Look at that glazed expression, pouting... the fact that her face would probably crack if she smiled aside. -.0

16th Jun 2009, 07:33 AM

I found it funny that the guy you picked as 'the most handsome' is absolutely unattractive to my eyes. The girl is pretty but looks as though she were made of wax.

And I hope those people never learn that you chose them to epitomize ugliness...

Just Adam · 16th Jun 2009, 07:59 AM

looks matter more to me more than gender simply as gender means nothing other what i do to show my love physically.

personality is what really matters though

Just Adam · 16th Jun 2009, 08:01 AM

also with the fat thing im fat but i still have feelings

Shevanel · 16th Jun 2009, 10:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Numfarh

Thanks for that.
Yes. All fat people are hideous monsters that don't deserve love! All women should be thin and busty! All men should be muscular and square-jawed!

Dude. Overweight =/= Ugly.

That being said, I'm bisexual so count me out of it.

This.

Greggers · 16th Jun 2009, 10:30 AM

Ill use a lady gaga quote worded to answer this question:

"Thats a ridiculous question. I would not choose either of them. I would cut my leg off."

Black Cat · 16th Jun 2009, 10:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Greggers

Ill use a lady gaga quote worded to answer this question:

"Thats a ridiculous question. I would not choose either of them. I would cut my leg off."

I couldn't agree more Greggers. I actually think neither one matters, I fall for the person's inner ideals and mindset.

George · 16th Jun 2009, 07:23 PM

Actually.. I have a different answer.

Even if he's ugly, as long as he has a moderately nice ass and good penis I won't care about the rest.

D_Alejandro · 16th Jun 2009, 08:24 PM

Looks matter to some people. It's all about the personality though! Looks should be an asset.

After all, nobody wants to be shallow, now do they?

RCooper · 16th Jun 2009, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by LollipopLuxury

After all, nobody wants to be shallow, now do they?

Speak for yourself!
Haha. I'm kidding. I shouldn't be talking, as I am on the heavier side of not fat. My BMI is 1 below overweight. But anyways. I don't think that I would choose either. Ugliest man in the world would probably have some sort of deformity that would make sex impossible. Like this. I feel sorry for that man, and would have no problem being his friend, but I couldn't have a sexual relation ship with him. I mean, I am pretty capable at helping myself. I can uh, eat my own banana, if you get my drift.

Tim · 16th Jun 2009, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Just Adam

also with the fat thing im fat but i still have feelings

My thoughts exactly.

Due this my supposed "Ugliness", I won't even bother responding to the original topic creator.

**Maddy** · 16th Jun 2009, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Myzou

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just Adam

also with the fat thing im fat but i still have feelings

My thoughts exactly.

Due this my supposed "Ugliness", I won't even bother responding to the original topic creator.

Me three, and I concur.

Aero · 16th Jun 2009, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RCooper

I don't think that I would choose either. Ugliest man in the world would probably have some sort of deformity that would make sex impossible. Like this. I feel sorry for that man, and would have no problem being his friend, but I couldn't have a sexual relation ship with him. I mean, I am pretty capable at helping myself. I can uh, eat my own banana, if you get my drift.

Holy f*ck... that pic is intense.
Is that for real??

Wait a minute.. look at his shirt ... this is totally a Gap ad...
I like the new direction. Well played, Gap... well played.

lolz · 16th Jun 2009, 10:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aero

Quote:

Originally Posted by RCooper

I don't think that I would choose either. Ugliest man in the world would probably have some sort of deformity that would make sex impossible. Like this. I feel sorry for that man, and would have no problem being his friend, but I couldn't have a sexual relation ship with him. I mean, I am pretty capable at helping myself. I can uh, eat my own banana, if you get my drift.

Holy f*ck... that pic is intense.
Is that for real??

Wait a minute.. look at his shirt ... this is totally a Gap ad...
I like the new direction. Well played, Gap... well played.

LOL at Gap Ad..

Yea thats real.. A whole show on it called tree man or something..

And to me personality seems to trump all.. I currently can only truly see myself happy with a guy, but if they have the perfect personality you never know..

someguy82 · 17th Jun 2009, 01:42 AM

The guy you picked as "handsome" isn't even remotely attractive to me.

Also, personality matters far more than looks anyway.

16th Jun 2009, 05:21 AM	#1
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Looks more important than Gender? Would you have a deep relationship with an ugly man or the most beautiful woman on the planet? If you're a lesbian Would you have a deep relationship with an ugly woman or the most handsome man on the planet? ** the most beautiful people can switch with your ideal

16th Jun 2009, 05:56 AM	#2
CrystalCat Colour Scientist Regular Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Queer Out Status: Most people and anyone who asks Location: New York Age: 19 Posts: 258 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Why is that people use the words "ugly" and "fat" interchangeably

16th Jun 2009, 05:58 AM	#3
Numfarh Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Thanks for that. Yes. All fat people are hideous monsters that don't deserve love! All women should be thin and busty! All men should be muscular and square-jawed! Dude. Overweight =/= Ugly. That being said, I'm bisexual so count me out of it.

16th Jun 2009, 07:02 AM	#5
No One Eternally Male Crazed! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Unofficially out to everyone but my family. Age: 18 Posts: 1,021 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Well personaly i would be with the most ugly guy if i had to choose between the two because i dont feel i can be in love with a girl __________________

16th Jun 2009, 07:17 AM	#6
SirBoobalot "Might as well be a lessie, eh Ems" Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: SE England Age: 20 Posts: 102 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Well, I'm bi, so I don't count for the experiment. But seriously, I'd never fuck the first girl. Look at that glazed expression, pouting... the fact that her face would probably crack if she smiled aside. -.0

16th Jun 2009, 07:33 AM	#7
Mysterons Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Looks more important than Gender? I found it funny that the guy you picked as 'the most handsome' is absolutely unattractive to my eyes. The girl is pretty but looks as though she were made of wax. And I hope those people never learn that you chose them to epitomize ugliness...

16th Jun 2009, 07:59 AM	#8
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Looks more important than Gender? looks matter more to me more than gender simply as gender means nothing other what i do to show my love physically. personality is what really matters though __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

16th Jun 2009, 08:01 AM	#9
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Looks more important than Gender? also with the fat thing im fat but i still have feelings __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

16th Jun 2009, 10:30 AM	#11
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Ill use a lady gaga quote worded to answer this question: "Thats a ridiculous question. I would not choose either of them. I would cut my leg off." __________________ "It's a male duck."

16th Jun 2009, 07:23 PM	#13
George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Looks more important than Gender? Actually.. I have a different answer. Even if he's ugly, as long as he has a moderately nice ass and good penis I won't care about the rest.

16th Jun 2009, 08:24 PM	#14
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17th Jun 2009, 01:42 AM	#20
someguy82 ... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 29 Posts: 313 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Looks more important than Gender? The guy you picked as "handsome" isn't even remotely attractive to me. Also, personality matters far more than looks anyway.

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