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Someone on Facebook came out!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kenko, Jun 19, 2009.

  1. Kenko

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    It's a guy that I went to junior and senior high with. I was in a number of classes with him, but haven't talked to him that much since graduating.

    Anyways, I get a little note in my facebook feed that he changed his screen name, and "Interested in".

    His name is now a woman's name! He came out as trans! I never saw that coming.

    Anyways I sent her a supportive PM and suggested we should meet up. Then I can share my secret!

    She's very brave to be able to do that. I'm still too scared to put anything down for "Interested in"!
     
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    I'd be totally with you on this, but I've had people do something similar twice as a drunken prank... so I tend to hang fire for a while.
     
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    This made me laugh. D:

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    Yeah, i'd wait to see if it's legit.

    Ask around and see what people think.
    It could be a prank.
     
  4. Kenko

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    It's been a couple days since the name / status change, and the MSN display name changed too. She's mid 20's.

    She added Several LGBT facebook groups in the interim.

    There's a couple of openly gay guys who commented on her wall, and were given positive responses.

    It's also why I didn't come out in my Private message. :wink:
     
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    What a nice thing for you to do Kenko! I hope she meets you. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes!! It's great that you sent her a message. :slight_smile:
     
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    That's really thoughtful of you :slight_smile:

    Yay for coming out!
     
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    That's really sweet of you to reach out to her like that. :slight_smile:

    I don't think I'm doing anything like that yet, because I still have the conservative bible thumpers of my extended family on my friends list...>_<

    I hate it when people do "come out", though. Half the time, I don't know if these boys are joking or not, cause like 2 people that I know who did that recently are football jocks...so idk if it's a prank or not, haha.
     
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    yay! Good for her! I've stared at the "Intereseted In" info on facebook for a long time, but I couldn't bring myself to change it. I just decided to leave the entire section out of my profile. And I still want to actually come out to some people face to face before doing it online.
    :grin:
     
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    Ooh, in that case I reckon she's on the level. =] Good for her, and I hope you two bond over this a little, maybe. =D
     
  11. dude99

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    well dont be like me as I used to know a guy at work and went away for holidays and came back as a woman as she had sexual resignment surgery. I worked with her a few years but I never came out to her. We could have been better friends if I came out to her but she has left work and dont know where she is now.