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Jack2009 · 29th Jun 2009, 04:53 PM

If you find out someones bi, how do you think of that person?

**Maddy** · 29th Jun 2009, 04:58 PM

I can tell you what I don't think. I don't think that they're confused, that they're gay but in denial, or that they're straight but want attention. If someone says that they're bi, I pretty much just think "OK, he or she is bi". That's about it, really.

Shevanel · 29th Jun 2009, 04:59 PM

I Think they are horrible liars who are just confused and gay in denial

29th Jun 2009, 05:01 PM

I think, "Oooer. Time to turn on the charm."
Also, I DON'T think that they are polyamorous. Frick. What an annoying stereotype.

Derek the Wolf · 29th Jun 2009, 05:05 PM

I'm like "hey cool, me too." And that ends that.
Sexual orientation shouldn't impact how you see someone =D

jazzrawr · 29th Jun 2009, 05:26 PM

I think "cool, we both like girls."

...and that's basically it. I think the same of them as I do everyone else.

29th Jun 2009, 05:27 PM

I say congratulations?

Cheria · 29th Jun 2009, 05:54 PM

"So... when and where?"

Halpert · 29th Jun 2009, 06:08 PM

Pretty much the same I thought of the person five seconds prior. Except now they're an eligible one night stand, cause you know, we have so many of those.

GhostDog · 29th Jun 2009, 06:33 PM

Depending on the person, it ranges from "Cool!" to "YES!" to "OH HELL YES!" to, when I am crushing on said person, "OH MY GOD OH MY GOD YES AWESOME OH MY GOD TODAY IS AMAZING!" If I have had some kool aid that day, I may also be prone to jumping through walls and going "OHHH YEEEAH!"

As you can see, I am a horrible, judgmental person. >:|

Tim · 29th Jun 2009, 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SurferDude420

I Think they are horrible liars who are just confused and gay in denial

Why did I laugh when I read that? ._. Maybe it was cause it was from Joey XD

Anyway, I really don't care, tbh. If someone is bi, they're bi. Doesn't affect me in the least bit, so why should I care? (and I dont mean that in an arrogant way XD)

gaius · 29th Jun 2009, 06:38 PM

i think sweet time to put on my pullling gear!

Kryz · 29th Jun 2009, 06:45 PM

Nothing in particular...

Except they might get a date with me? [depending on who of course]

littledinosaurs · 29th Jun 2009, 07:30 PM

I Think that's it's wicked cool.
=)
i love Bi people.
<3

Tiny Catastrophe · 29th Jun 2009, 07:55 PM

even b4 i realized i am bi i accepted them and it didnt change anything and now i jus say cool me too lol

Thisisnew · 29th Jun 2009, 08:07 PM

I think the same of them as I did before.

musican · 29th Jun 2009, 08:40 PM

I think "cool, I'm gay and they won't find that weird". *shrugs* it doesn't really change how I think about people. I was accepting of LGBT's before I accept myself, I had the mentality of "there's nothing wrong with it, but I don't want to have to deal with being different".

Black Cat · 29th Jun 2009, 09:10 PM

I certainly don't think any less of them, hell, it gives me a 50/50 chance with them. If anything I think they're awesome for it.

29th Jun 2009, 09:29 PM

i just turn and walk away. i hate all bi people. its just not natural. men should like men and women should like women. and there should be no variation.

starfish · 29th Jun 2009, 09:46 PM

29th Jun 2009, 04:53 PM	#1
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Bisexuality If you find out someones bi, how do you think of that person?

29th Jun 2009, 04:58 PM	#2
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Bisexuality I can tell you what I don't think. I don't think that they're confused, that they're gay but in denial, or that they're straight but want attention. If someone says that they're bi, I pretty much just think "OK, he or she is bi". That's about it, really. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

29th Jun 2009, 04:59 PM	#3
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Bisexuality I Think they are horrible liars who are just confused and gay in denial __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

29th Jun 2009, 05:01 PM	#4
Numfarh Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Bisexuality I think, "Oooer. Time to turn on the charm." Also, I DON'T think that they are polyamorous. Frick. What an annoying stereotype.

29th Jun 2009, 05:05 PM	#5
Derek the Wolf Furry Overlord Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Majority Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 1,325 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Bisexuality I'm like "hey cool, me too." And that ends that. Sexual orientation shouldn't impact how you see someone =D __________________

29th Jun 2009, 05:26 PM	#6
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Bisexuality I think "cool, we both like girls." ...and that's basically it. I think the same of them as I do everyone else. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

29th Jun 2009, 05:27 PM	#7
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Bisexuality I say congratulations?

29th Jun 2009, 05:54 PM	#8
Cheria にひひっ♪ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost everyone Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 636 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Bisexuality "So... when and where?" __________________

29th Jun 2009, 06:08 PM	#9
Halpert Me! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty much out and about, finally! Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 190 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Bisexuality Pretty much the same I thought of the person five seconds prior. Except now they're an eligible one night stand, cause you know, we have so many of those.

29th Jun 2009, 06:33 PM	#10
GhostDog is Spartacus. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: MAGICAL. Out Status: The hiiills are aliiive with the sound of muuusic! Location: DFW area, Texas Age: 24 Posts: 2,503 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Bisexuality Depending on the person, it ranges from "Cool!" to "YES!" to "OH HELL YES!" to, when I am crushing on said person, "OH MY GOD OH MY GOD YES AWESOME OH MY GOD TODAY IS AMAZING!" If I have had some kool aid that day, I may also be prone to jumping through walls and going "OHHH YEEEAH!" As you can see, I am a horrible, judgmental person. >:\| __________________ <3 Kirah, who may or may not be made of delicious candy (and the lesbians)

29th Jun 2009, 06:38 PM	#12
gaius EC's Geordie Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bi/gay Out Status: Out to friends, family and anyone who wants to kno Location: Lancaster University Age: 22 Posts: 397 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Bisexuality i think sweet time to put on my pullling gear! __________________ "Life happens without warning"

29th Jun 2009, 06:45 PM	#13
Kryz EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 95% gay 4% lesbian 1% polyester. Out Status: 7 friends and my mum. Location: Mexico City Age: 23 Posts: 659 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Bisexuality Nothing in particular... Except they might get a date with me? [depending on who of course] __________________ Nobody wants to be alone, everybody wants to love someone... ♪ Glitter and be gay... That's the part I play... ♫ It's SO not a choice. But if it were, I would choose to be gay.

29th Jun 2009, 07:30 PM	#14
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Bisexuality I Think that's it's wicked cool. =) i love Bi people. <3 __________________ Âllo Là

29th Jun 2009, 07:55 PM	#15
Tiny Catastrophe Love is genderless <3 Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 2 sisters, mom, friends, school Location: New Yorkish Age: 19 Posts: 863 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: Bisexuality even b4 i realized i am bi i accepted them and it didnt change anything and now i jus say cool me too lol __________________ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there. Because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt but then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong, only because its so unfamiliar. Then in that moment you realize you're happy.

29th Jun 2009, 08:07 PM	#16
Thisisnew EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: All lesbian all the time!! Out Status: I...I guess it runs in the family! =] Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,302 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Bisexuality I think the same of them as I did before. __________________ Thank god for ipods and gays!

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29th Jun 2009, 08:40 PM	#17
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Bisexuality I think "cool, I'm gay and they won't find that weird". shrugs it doesn't really change how I think about people. I was accepting of LGBT's before I accept myself, I had the mentality of "there's nothing wrong with it, but I don't want to have to deal with being different". __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

29th Jun 2009, 09:10 PM	#18
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: Bisexuality I certainly don't think any less of them, hell, it gives me a 50/50 chance with them. If anything I think they're awesome for it.

29th Jun 2009, 09:29 PM	#19
paco Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Bisexuality i just turn and walk away. i hate all bi people. its just not natural. men should like men and women should like women. and there should be no variation.

29th Jun 2009, 09:46 PM	#20
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Bisexuality cool __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson