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Holy Hell.... I'm so Bitter! D:

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Brett, Jul 15, 2009.

  1. Brett

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    Sweet Jesus! I was just reading someone's profile, and I realized that I was cynically criticising everything that he wrote about love in my head. I'm pretty sure this is a problem here! What shall Brett do?!? D:
     
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    Find someone to love.

    Quit hatin' on romantics! LOL
     
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    hahaha, i love when people talk about themselves with their names :grin: it's cute and funnnnnnnnnnnny
     
  4. Chip

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    I've mentioned this great book a couple times. It's called "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" and one of the core themes in the book is that any time we have something that upsets us very strongly, it is pretty much guaranteed to be something we are afraid of in ourselves.

    So in this case... you find yourself criticizing love, or at least someone's views on it... so perhaps in some way you don't feel worthy of love, or somehow you're fearful of it, or trying to say to yourself that you don't need it when you do?

    Do any of those resonate for you?
     
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    jsut dont worry they got their views you got yours its all cool
     
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    Don't worry, as long as the hate doesn't spew out your mouth you'll be fine. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Im sure there are many people who hate on us lovers we can be very annoying :grin:
     
  8. Brett

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    Haha
    You guys are pretty annoying, Carrie! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Calchip has a point though. I am pretty insecure about my love life. I don't even like anyone, and I haven't for about a year.....that concerns me.