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hoping · 18th Aug 2009, 07:00 AM

So today mum and her bf went away for 3 days and well he bought her a diamond ring and took it with them, so by the end of the week they will probably be ''engaged'', What a great idea, my mum engagned to be married to an ultra right wing cpnservative, racist, homophobic, hate pretty much every people in the world and every liberal thinking person. oh and on top of that hes a gun lover, a former cop and police special forces cop so he loves the guns. So i really wont be going to the wedding with him and his socilate elitest family

Steve · 18th Aug 2009, 07:26 AM

you shoudnt go to the wedding for him , but , rather for your mom.
even if your mom is trying to change her, she stills loves you , and i think you still love her
so do it for her

hoping · 18th Aug 2009, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Steve

you shoudnt go to the wedding for him , but , rather for your mom.
even if your mom is trying to change her, she stills loves you , and i think you still love her
so do it for her

Hey ill go if your there to make out with, thats the only want i could get through it, well that or with 1 million cc of valium

Steve · 18th Aug 2009, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by hoping

Hey ill go if your there to make out with

lol you mean like kiss and astuff? ? hehe

no i think its the right thing to do.. you would want your mom to be at your wedding so you sgould go to hers

Swamp56 · 18th Aug 2009, 09:49 AM

Go for your mother, and ignore him ^____^ .

Just Adam · 18th Aug 2009, 09:50 AM

nothing wrong with guns just some of teh idiots who are allowed to touch them >.>

i say you tell your mum how he makes you feel...if your out lol ...

i say if she does decide to marry him make her knwo how he makes you feel but let her know you will be there for her.

**EM68** · 18th Aug 2009, 09:52 AM

As much as you disapprove of what your mom is doing and you can not stand her bf, I would still go to be there for your mom. She is your only mom. Say that, I would start looking at ways to move out. From what you have said in the past he is a complete jerk and is ignorant. I would try to get out of there.

Steve · 18th Aug 2009, 10:13 AM

not going to her wedding will only worsen your relationship with her

carrie90 · 18th Aug 2009, 02:19 PM

Maybe if you tell your mom how this guy makes you feel she will understand you not wanting to attend the wedding but if it was me i would just grin and bare it for the sake of my mom

littledinosaurs · 18th Aug 2009, 02:28 PM

Does your mom know you're gay?

hoping · 18th Aug 2009, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by littledinosaurs

Does your mom know you're gay?

yep. she knows

ANightDude · 18th Aug 2009, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by hoping

Quote:

Originally Posted by littledinosaurs

Does your mom know you're gay?

yep. she knows

Maybe you should tell her how you feel about this new guy. You'd be suprised how far that can go.

18th Aug 2009, 07:00 AM	#1
hoping EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: australia Age: 23 Posts: 527 Join Date: May 2007	well isnt this going to be an interesting week So today mum and her bf went away for 3 days and well he bought her a diamond ring and took it with them, so by the end of the week they will probably be ''engaged'', What a great idea, my mum engagned to be married to an ultra right wing cpnservative, racist, homophobic, hate pretty much every people in the world and every liberal thinking person. oh and on top of that hes a gun lover, a former cop and police special forces cop so he loves the guns. So i really wont be going to the wedding with him and his socilate elitest family __________________ On to canada in 2012

18th Aug 2009, 07:26 AM	#2
Steve EC's Soldier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week you shoudnt go to the wedding for him , but , rather for your mom. even if your mom is trying to change her, she stills loves you , and i think you still love her so do it for her __________________ Soldier " there is no room for that in my pocklet" commander " if there is room in your heart then there in your pocket" Soldier " i cant fit my gf in there" -r " have you tried ? until you try you dont know"

18th Aug 2009, 09:49 AM	#5
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week Go for your mother, and ignore him ^____^ . __________________

18th Aug 2009, 09:50 AM	#6
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week nothing wrong with guns just some of teh idiots who are allowed to touch them >.> i say you tell your mum how he makes you feel...if your out lol ... i say if she does decide to marry him make her knwo how he makes you feel but let her know you will be there for her. __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

18th Aug 2009, 09:52 AM	#7
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week As much as you disapprove of what your mom is doing and you can not stand her bf, I would still go to be there for your mom. She is your only mom. Say that, I would start looking at ways to move out. From what you have said in the past he is a complete jerk and is ignorant. I would try to get out of there. __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

18th Aug 2009, 10:13 AM	#8
Steve EC's Soldier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week not going to her wedding will only worsen your relationship with her __________________ Soldier " there is no room for that in my pocklet" commander " if there is room in your heart then there in your pocket" Soldier " i cant fit my gf in there" -r " have you tried ? until you try you dont know"

18th Aug 2009, 02:19 PM	#9
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week Maybe if you tell your mom how this guy makes you feel she will understand you not wanting to attend the wedding but if it was me i would just grin and bare it for the sake of my mom __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

18th Aug 2009, 02:28 PM	#10
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: well isnt this going to be an interesting week Does your mom know you're gay? __________________ Âllo Là

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