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darkestknight · 24th Aug 2009, 08:31 AM

Once, at a lecture hall, one group of rowdy and playful students, who sat behind me and my coursemate, that guy, let's call him K, just reached over me and asked: "Hey, I heard that you are gay! Isn't it? I-I-I-Isn't it??"

Before that, a few lectures ago, sometimes he sat beside me and asked, "You had a girlfriend?", or "Oh goodness, that water flask has butterfly motives there!! It's so girly!!" and others.

I guess he already knew it. But I kept quiet. He's one hell of a joker.

Next time if he started asking this, I'm so tempted to go "Hey, this guy over there is not bad, isn't it??"

Totoro · 24th Aug 2009, 10:00 PM

People like that seem to like to stir shit alot... It's great you didn't decide to feel so offended about it

You should totally do it, by the way>

shorty · 25th Aug 2009, 04:45 AM

I think i would have an uncontrollable urge to punch him in the face.

stratavos · 25th Aug 2009, 10:30 AM

I'd have an uncontrollable urge to grab his ass to make him shut up, and say "leave me alone or there's going to be more of that"

Kupo! · 1st Sep 2009, 10:58 PM

I can totally relate. Went through 4 years of HS like that. was the same 10 ppl or so saying things like "hey, why dont you ever have a girlfriend" or just general name calling and gay bashing. this was of course before i came out. but when they would ask me if i was gay or start making fun i would never deny or confirm that i was gay. but it was just kinda mean. now i thnk that if i had been a stronger person if i couldve stood up to them and put them in their place... o well cant change the past. all u can do is learn from it

RainInAfrica · 2nd Sep 2009, 02:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shorty

i Think I Would Have An Uncontrollable Urge To Punch Him In The Face.

+1

carrie90 · 2nd Sep 2009, 12:20 PM

People like taht don't deserve acknowledgement

24th Aug 2009, 08:31 AM	#1
darkestknight Ik ben vandaag zo vrolijk! Full Member Gender: Male, XY Orientation: Men, men, and more men! Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Malaysia Posts: 526 Join Date: Jan 2008	"They said that you are gay" Once, at a lecture hall, one group of rowdy and playful students, who sat behind me and my coursemate, that guy, let's call him K, just reached over me and asked: "Hey, I heard that you are gay! Isn't it? I-I-I-Isn't it??" Before that, a few lectures ago, sometimes he sat beside me and asked, "You had a girlfriend?", or "Oh goodness, that water flask has butterfly motives there!! It's so girly!!" and others. I guess he already knew it. But I kept quiet. He's one hell of a joker. Next time if he started asking this, I'm so tempted to go "Hey, this guy over there is not bad, isn't it??"

24th Aug 2009, 10:00 PM	#2
Totoro EC's Lurker Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay. Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Canada - Ontario Age: 19 Posts: 487 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: "They said that you are gay" People like that seem to like to stir shit alot... It's great you didn't decide to feel so offended about it You should totally do it, by the way>

25th Aug 2009, 04:45 AM	#3
shorty vertically challenged Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Sister and a couple of friends. Location: Land of Oz Posts: 320 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: "They said that you are gay" I think i would have an uncontrollable urge to punch him in the face.

25th Aug 2009, 10:30 AM	#4
stratavos professional lurker Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bisexual prefering males Out Status: don't ask don't tell (ask and I'll tell) Location: oakville(college) and oshawa(hometown) ont, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: "They said that you are gay" I'd have an uncontrollable urge to grab his ass to make him shut up, and say "leave me alone or there's going to be more of that" __________________ <-is a very bad influence... and definately enjoys it hail lord ilpallazzo!

1st Sep 2009, 10:58 PM	#5
Kupo! Brony Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Cloudsdale Age: 22 Posts: 682 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: "They said that you are gay" I can totally relate. Went through 4 years of HS like that. was the same 10 ppl or so saying things like "hey, why dont you ever have a girlfriend" or just general name calling and gay bashing. this was of course before i came out. but when they would ask me if i was gay or start making fun i would never deny or confirm that i was gay. but it was just kinda mean. now i thnk that if i had been a stronger person if i couldve stood up to them and put them in their place... o well cant change the past. all u can do is learn from it

2nd Sep 2009, 12:20 PM	#7
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: "They said that you are gay" People like taht don't deserve acknowledgement __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester

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