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Old 2nd Sep 2009, 11:48 PM   #1
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Normally i don't create threads and i just post here and there but this kind stuck me and i just had to ask what others think so I was bored and looking around youtube and i came upon an episode of Tyra.She talking about people being gay for pay, and idk why but this really bothered me, im not exactly sure why, other than my own personal theories but i just can't believe they are 100% straight, yet hey claim to be, what do you think?

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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 12:23 AM   #2
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I can't say whether these guys are secretly gay or whatever. But I can say this. they are whores.

It is shameful that some people would lump these people into the same category as people who truly feel both a physical and an emotional connection to someone of the same sex
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 12:47 AM   #3
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yeah, they triped me a bit too... but whatever the case, whores they are indeed.

towards the end i was like.. OMG, dean! hahaha, i recognize him xD
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 02:04 AM   #4
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seen this before...still dont care about them if they want to sleep with men and get paid for it...well woopy for them >.>

they are man whores but thats their doing so if they dont like beeing called it...meh to them :/
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 02:08 AM   #5
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I don't see why not.

Try putting it into to perspective!

Straight/Bi men often have sex with women they are not attracted to solely for the physical satisfaction, and even at times with other guys. Just as gay guys sometimes sleep with women.

If someone would have sex with a person they're not attracted to in the first place, then I'm 100% sure they would do it again for money.
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 06:57 AM   #6
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Money makes people do all kinds of things...
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 07:03 AM   #7
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No offense to any right-wing Americans here, but if you had a proper Welfare State this wouldn't be such a problem.
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 08:42 AM   #8
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Honestly, I couldn't care less if they were straight. They're actors, in a sense...

On a side note, I love Tyra.
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 09:11 AM   #9
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This thread has been done almost EXACTLY the same way already. Not even like 3 or 4 months ago too, maybe less.
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 11:17 AM   #10
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I remember seeing this on TV a while ago..

It's porn... nothing else...

If I remember the show correctly, a few do it because they like the money.

No matter their reasons, it's porn.. not "real"
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 11:57 AM   #11
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Don't care but Tyra is amazing!
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 12:25 PM   #12
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>>>No offense to any right-wing Americans here, but if you had a proper Welfare State this wouldn't be such a problem.

It's not a socioeconomic problem. At least, not one that involves welfare. These aren't guys living on the streets, willing to head behind the dumpster with a guy in exchange for some money for crack. They're actors who know they can get paid a lot more to perform homosexual acts than heterosexual ones. These guys (either because they're actually bisexual, or because they're just good actors) can do it, and choose to do it for the bigger paycheck. And I don't have any problem at all with that.

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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 02:02 PM   #13
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LOL I remember when I posted this same thread with the same videos, like joey said, about 3 or 4 months ago...

It ended up getting locked and i think someone got banned O_O
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So what? They are living their life.

I don't care what their sexuality is but whatever.
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yeah, they triped me a bit too... but whatever the case, whores they are indeed.

towards the end i was like.. OMG, dean! hahaha, i recognize him xD
I noticed him as well, LOOOL.
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Old 3rd Sep 2009, 07:59 PM   #16
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I can't stand Tyra. She's the poorman's Oprah... or she at least wishes she could be so lucky to even be that!
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I can't stand Tyra. She's the poorman's Oprah... or she at least wishes she could be so lucky to even be that!
well everyone knows i dont like her...then again all these shows piss me off... you get an lgbt person on and it has to be a stereotype... >.> but im ok ...*breath* *breath*
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Old 4th Sep 2009, 01:36 AM   #18
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LOL I remember when I posted this same thread with the same videos, like joey said, about 3 or 4 months ago...

It ended up getting locked and i think someone got banned O_O
:O i thought it was your post greggers.... i didnt say though as if im wrong i dont want to look an idiot
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>>>No offense to any right-wing Americans here, but if you had a proper Welfare State this wouldn't be such a problem.

It's not a socioeconomic problem. At least, not one that involves welfare. These aren't guys living on the streets, willing to head behind the dumpster with a guy in exchange for some money for crack. They're actors who know they can get paid a lot more to perform homosexual acts than heterosexual ones. These guys (either because they're actually bisexual, or because they're just good actors) can do it, and choose to do it for the bigger paycheck. And I don't have any problem at all with that.

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Old 4th Sep 2009, 10:01 AM   #20
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LOL I remember when I posted this same thread with the same videos, like joey said, about 3 or 4 months ago...

It ended up getting locked and i think someone got banned O_O
I thought this thread felt familiar. (I would also like LOL with Greg on this)



Also to say what i said last time: Why does it matter if they are straight, gay or bi? questioning someone else's sexuality is wrong and i'm sure that most of us have been tormented when people started to question our sexualities when we were closeted and unsure of ourselves.
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