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Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 12:16 PM

So i met this boyish girl at a party recently. She was SOOOO alluring.... It was amazing, i was transfixed.... Unfortunately i tried to pick her up and she's gay. But it got me to thinking about what i like.

i'm often REALLY attracted to kindof boyish-looking girls... not butch, but boyish. And that the men i like are almost always very pretty and high cheek boned and girlish looking.

Are there many others out there so attracted by androgyny???

SilhouetteDream · 30th Sep 2009, 12:22 PM

Hehe yeshhh!
My ex was sorta. They're just so cute :3
Especially the ones that are like skater type, if you know what I mean?
But that doesn't mean I'm limited to just that...I like a lot of different types of girls :]

Miles D · 30th Sep 2009, 12:27 PM

Hellz to-the yes.
I love boyish girls and girlish boys and everyone in between.
I guess I really know how fluid gender is, and I think people that aren't afraid to express that openly

Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by SilhouetteDream

But that doesn't mean I'm limited to just that...I like a lot of different types of girls :]

Oh me too... i like all kinds of girls.

But i generally only like the really pretty men...

would you call jake gyllenhaal kinda androgynous? or orlando bloom? johnny depp? I want ALLLL of them.

GhostDog · 30th Sep 2009, 12:36 PM

Oh god yes. I love androgyny. I have lots of "types" when it comes to girls, but the guys I'm attracted to are usually on the feminine side. Long hair, pretty eyes, slightly built, etc. Being a transvestite sure doesn't hurt, either. =P

Don't even get me started on boyish girls, though. Especially if they're wearing suits. Ohhh man. *melts*

Basically, yes. Androgyny makes me weak at the knees. <3

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Originally Posted by Pseudojim

would you call jake gyllenhaal kinda androgynous? or orlando bloom? johnny depp? I want ALLLL of them.

After Ellen would call them that, I think. =D

Miles D · 30th Sep 2009, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pseudojim

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Originally Posted by SilhouetteDream

But that doesn't mean I'm limited to just that...I like a lot of different types of girls :]

Oh me too... i like all kinds of girls.

But i generally only like the really pretty men...

would you call jake gyllenhaal kinda androgynous? or orlando bloom? johnny depp? I want ALLLL of them.

definitely Johnny Depp. I think he has very feminine mannerisms (especially in a lot of movies he's done recently, like Pirates, Willy Wonka, Sweeney Todd and now Alice in Wonderland.)

Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by GhostDog

After Ellen would call them that, I think. =D

oh bah, ellen pisses me off.... but FUCK has she got good taste in men!

that pic of jake at the bottom is ohhhhh so delicious...

GhostDog · 30th Sep 2009, 12:47 PM

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After Ellen would call them that, I think. =D

oh bah, ellen pisses me off.... but FUCK has she got good taste in men!

that pic of jake at the bottom is ohhhhh so delicious...

Haha, Ellen doesn't run it, it's just called "After Ellen". (I think it's looking at lesbians/bisexual women in the media since Ellen came out, thus the name, I think? It's just named for her though). A lady called Sarah Warn actually created it.

I definitely rather liked that picture of Jake Gyllenhaal though. =D

Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 12:54 PM

oh ok hehe

yeah he's a total doll, i want him bad....

i still need to see brokeback mountain all the way through actually.

Greggers · 30th Sep 2009, 01:19 PM

Ellen pisses someone off? O_O

Ive never actually heard someone express a negitive emotion for her. She is just so...likeable.

Oops, back to topic...

I swoon every time i see a guy who is fem or is "pretty" (like the AfterEllen list, swoon!). I like my men soft and with plenty of gayface

Its just my preference, and thankfully there are alot of men like that out there. I also like the classic butch man who is built nicely and has abs of steel, but unless they are a super softie inside i just could never see myself being with one.

I also have crushes on alot of women who look boyish, but still maintain that soft quality. Like Rachel Maddow and her OMFGseckiness.

Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 01:22 PM

she is SO ANNOYING

and stupid

and that fucking dance she makes everyone do, my god

i can't watch her show without getting pissed off!

GhostDog · 30th Sep 2009, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Greggers

I also have crushes on alot of women who look boyish, but still maintain that soft quality. Like Rachel Maddow and her OMFGseckiness.

I think that Rachel Maddow has amazing powers that transcend sexual orientation. I've read so many straight women saying they'd switch teams for Rachel. XD

RACHEL MADDOW IS AMAAAAZING.

Pseudojim · 30th Sep 2009, 01:27 PM

just googled her. Yeah, she's pretty damn hot.

Apocalypte · 30th Sep 2009, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by GhostDog

I think that Rachel Maddow has amazing powers that transcend sexual orientation. I've read so many straight women saying they'd switch teams for Rachel. XD

RACHEL MADDOW IS AMAAAAZING.

Quoted for ubertruth. <3 Rachel Maddow.

30th Sep 2009, 01:57 PM

I'm staying away from the Ellen argument. Except to say that Ellen is amazing.

That picture of Keanu Reeves is amazing. Don't really care for John Cusack. At all.

30th Sep 2009, 04:58 PM

I love adrogyny. Makes me go all weak at the knees and drool-crazy. It's probably why I have such a huge thing for Asian males...the ones that have that delicate...soft...look mmm. And I love me some boyish girls. Katherine Moennig...purrrrr.

Tim · 30th Sep 2009, 05:01 PM

I find myself attracted to androgynous girls at times XD Not sure why though o-o

jazzrawr · 30th Sep 2009, 05:10 PM

Ooooooh, androgyny yes please <3

Androgynous girls can make my knees give out unexpectedly.

Astaroth · 30th Sep 2009, 05:58 PM

Yep, I find androgynous people of both sexes beautiful. I saw a picture the other day of a person that I literally couldn't tell the sex of and I was so intrigued by it. Closely related is my fondness for the 'emo' look (although not necessarily the emotions that go behind it). I guess I just find that when the gender line gets blurred I can't help myself.

xballetxbeautyx · 30th Sep 2009, 08:11 PM

one word: YES.

I love andro-looking girls, mmm! I actually really would love to get my hair cut shorter and try the look, but I don't think it would work for me. So I'll just have to find myself a nice boyish girl

30th Sep 2009, 12:16 PM	#1
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Androgyny So i met this boyish girl at a party recently. She was SOOOO alluring.... It was amazing, i was transfixed.... Unfortunately i tried to pick her up and she's gay. But it got me to thinking about what i like. i'm often REALLY attracted to kindof boyish-looking girls... not butch, but boyish. And that the men i like are almost always very pretty and high cheek boned and girlish looking. Are there many others out there so attracted by androgyny???

30th Sep 2009, 12:22 PM	#2
SilhouetteDream OHAI! :D Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Happy homo :D Out Status: Family only Location: Long Island, NY Age: 19 Posts: 630 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: Androgyny Hehe yeshhh! My ex was sorta. They're just so cute :3 Especially the ones that are like skater type, if you know what I mean? But that doesn't mean I'm limited to just that...I like a lot of different types of girls :] __________________ I can sit here waiting for hours on your arrival I could sit here for days waiting for you to come out and play Because I live to breathe the sky that hangs high above you. Last edited by SilhouetteDream; 30th Sep 2009 at 12:29 PM..

30th Sep 2009, 12:27 PM	#3
Miles D Rude... and not ginger. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: everyone Location: San Diego, CA ⇒ Great Barrington, MA Age: 20 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Androgyny Hellz to-the yes. I love boyish girls and girlish boys and everyone in between. I guess I really know how fluid gender is, and I think people that aren't afraid to express that openly __________________ Bowties are cool. Fezzes are cool.

30th Sep 2009, 12:54 PM	#9
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: Androgyny oh ok hehe yeah he's a total doll, i want him bad.... i still need to see brokeback mountain all the way through actually.

30th Sep 2009, 01:19 PM	#10
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Androgyny Ellen pisses someone off? O_O Ive never actually heard someone express a negitive emotion for her. She is just so...likeable. Oops, back to topic... I swoon every time i see a guy who is fem or is "pretty" (like the AfterEllen list, swoon!). I like my men soft and with plenty of gayface Its just my preference, and thankfully there are alot of men like that out there. I also like the classic butch man who is built nicely and has abs of steel, but unless they are a super softie inside i just could never see myself being with one. I also have crushes on alot of women who look boyish, but still maintain that soft quality. Like Rachel Maddow and her OMFGseckiness. __________________ "It's a male duck." Last edited by Greggers; 30th Sep 2009 at 01:23 PM..

30th Sep 2009, 01:22 PM	#11
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: Androgyny she is SO ANNOYING and stupid and that fucking dance she makes everyone do, my god i can't watch her show without getting pissed off!

30th Sep 2009, 01:27 PM	#13
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: Androgyny just googled her. Yeah, she's pretty damn hot.

30th Sep 2009, 01:57 PM	#15
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Androgyny I'm staying away from the Ellen argument. Except to say that Ellen is amazing. That picture of Keanu Reeves is amazing. Don't really care for John Cusack. At all.

30th Sep 2009, 04:58 PM	#16
Haiiro Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Androgyny I love adrogyny. Makes me go all weak at the knees and drool-crazy. It's probably why I have such a huge thing for Asian males...the ones that have that delicate...soft...look mmm. And I love me some boyish girls. Katherine Moennig...purrrrr.

30th Sep 2009, 05:01 PM	#17
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Androgyny I find myself attracted to androgynous girls at times XD Not sure why though o-o __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

30th Sep 2009, 05:10 PM	#18
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Androgyny Ooooooh, androgyny yes please <3 Androgynous girls can make my knees give out unexpectedly. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

30th Sep 2009, 05:58 PM	#19
Astaroth ❀ Byakuren Hijiri ❀ Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Federal Way, WA Age: 30 Posts: 1,299 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Androgyny Yep, I find androgynous people of both sexes beautiful. I saw a picture the other day of a person that I literally couldn't tell the sex of and I was so intrigued by it. Closely related is my fondness for the 'emo' look (although not necessarily the emotions that go behind it). I guess I just find that when the gender line gets blurred I can't help myself. __________________ ~~~~~~~~~~*~~~~~~~~~~

30th Sep 2009, 08:11 PM	#20
xballetxbeautyx Heterodox Homosexual Full Member Gender: (.)(.) Orientation: Kinsey 5? Ish? Out Status: If you don't know, where have you been all my life Location: Midwest USA Age: 17 Posts: 1,719 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Androgyny one word: YES. I love andro-looking girls, mmm! I actually really would love to get my hair cut shorter and try the look, but I don't think it would work for me. So I'll just have to find myself a nice boyish girl __________________ I can't go to Pigfarts! IT'S ON MARS. You need a rocketship! Do you have a rocketship, Potter? Look at this - it's Rocketship Potter! Starkid Potter! Moonshoes Potter! Traversing the galaxy for intergalactic travels to Pigfarts!

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