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PDAs: How Do You Feel About Them?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Revan, Oct 22, 2009.

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With PDAs, how much is too much for you? (Select what is enough for you)

  1. Holding Hands

    2 vote(s)
    2.1%
  2. Hug

    2 vote(s)
    2.1%
  3. Peck/Kiss on Cheek

    6 vote(s)
    6.3%
  4. Peck/Kiss on Lips

    37 vote(s)
    38.9%
  5. Making Out

    31 vote(s)
    32.6%
  6. Hand-to-Genital Contact

    13 vote(s)
    13.7%
  7. Oral-Genital Contact

    3 vote(s)
    3.2%
  8. Penile-Anal Contact

    1 vote(s)
    1.1%
  9. Genital-Genital Contact

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  10. Oral-Anal Contact

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  1. Revan

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    So I've been curious how people feel about PDAs and how much is too much. So I decided to make this poll to see what you think. Leave comments too if you'd like :slight_smile: And I am including three options about sex, yes sex, because hopefully I see a tabulation of 0 in those areas, but some people do have interesting views :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Also, I hope no one will be offended by the last three options. I used "scientific" terms instead of the full on name lol or slang for the types of sexual act. Enjoy! lol...

    If you're wondering how to choose, choose the option that is as far as you would be okay seeing. Ie. I chose Peck/Kiss on Cheek because I don't need to see a couple full on making out, but seeing a quick peck on the cheek is cute. So if you actually think one of the sexual acts in public is fine with you, well choose it, your name won't be involved as I've made the poll anonymous. :slight_smile:
     
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  2. Kid Quasar

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    My PDA checks email, so overall it's an awesome device!...

    Oh wait, that kind of PDA? Hmmm.... I'd be fine with seeing up to a peck on the lips, but that's just me, no idea how far other people are willing to go with their handheld devices <_< >_>
     
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    Kissing on the lips is as far as I think public displays of affection should be allowed. Any further than that you have to pay to see, so why give it away in public when you could get money from the people standing around you? I don't mind when people display feelings of affection publicly, there is just a line of discretion that people need to be wary of.
     
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    This ^_^
     
  5. Pseudojim

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    what is a PDA?

    [edit] i don't understand the question at all
     
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    I'm ok seeing up until making out. After that I don't wanna see. :slight_smile:
     
  7. Pseudojim

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    oohhhh public displays of affection.... i get it now.
     
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    Were the three people serious when they voted Hand-to-Genital Contact ??

    I checked peck on the cheek. For some couples I'm ok with seeing a peck on the lips. I have this one couple that I'm sorta friends with, and geeze. Even when they just kiss it's gross.
     
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    hugging is as much as someoen will get form me in public and that is rare.
     
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    Making out is where it crosses the line for me, although there are some couples who don't even go that far and still drive me insane.
     
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    I don't mind seeing people kiss on the lips in public. Once you get to the hand-to-genital contact (WTF? xD), I get a bit bothered by seeing it. As for what I would do... I'm really stand-offish about PDAs most of the time, so anyone I date would be lucky to get hand-holding from me.
     
  12. Revan

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    That was my question too.....I don't think they're taking this seriously...
     
  13. Jiggles

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    I jsut think aww when I see people pecking in Public but when I see people almost eating each other I just think 'There's a time and place for this. This ain't the time or the place for it...'
     
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    i've got no problem with people making out in public, tender kisses make me go all soft and gooey and say "Awwwww"

    when it starts getting sexual, the line's crossed
     
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    Meh, PDA your ass off. I dont mind :slight_smile:

    Each eachothers face off, or Eat eachother out. Its all good to me.
     
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    Greggers, you rascal!

    Peck on the lips, lounging together, then no further. Making out is rude in a social situation; you're supposed to be being social, with something other than his/her face. Its almost as bad as having a party so you can screw one of the guests and not be bothered by your parents (I was at a party like this once, there were A LOT of hormones pumping between those two). Past making out, and we're into expositionism/sex party territory honestly. As in, I think it would only be acceptable under those circumstances...if indeed those circumstances ever arise within one's circle of friends, which would be weird to say the least.
     
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    Hugs, pecks on the lips, pecks on the cheeks. Anything else I just really don't wanna see thanks.
     
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    Anything after kissing on the lips and you'll need to take take somewhere private please. I don't want to see anyone making out or getting a handjob, BJ, ect. thank you.
     
  19. I think PDAs (to an extent) are cute/hot. Especially (or I guess, really only) with same-sex couples. Because basically that says to me that they're so comfortable with who they are and they like each other enough that they don't care who sees. Hand holding, hugging, kissing, and... making out in some cases. I've made out in broad daylight in public before. I think that depends how into it you are.

    As for public sex... come on, guys. Sure it sounds fun, until you think of how awkward that would be if someone caught you. *facepalm*
     
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    i've got no problem with either witnessing or performing a full proper kiss on the lips. tender, not passionate. once it starts getting hot and heavy, i'm no longer comfortable witnessing or performing it.

    [edit]

    it also depends on where you are. in the library it just doesn't belong. but in a cinema, it's lovely.