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Andytx1 · 27th Oct 2009, 04:23 AM

So when did you guys lose it (I'm a virgin btw)

27th Oct 2009, 04:50 AM

I was 19, and still should have waited. Ah, well.

**Maddy** · 27th Oct 2009, 04:51 AM

I'm a virgin.

SwissBoy88 · 27th Oct 2009, 04:59 AM

21.... well.... wasn't that great...

Pseudojim · 27th Oct 2009, 05:29 AM

16, and it was absolutely magical, and pretty much the perfect way to lose it, to a girl with whom i was very much in love (we were both virgins)

27th Oct 2009, 05:35 AM

21 and hated the first time.

Gumtree · 27th Oct 2009, 05:57 AM

12, and it was truly magical. Now if only I could remember his bloody name...

Andytx1 · 27th Oct 2009, 06:13 AM

How did you guys meet? haha

**Owen** · 27th Oct 2009, 06:40 AM

Still a virgin, and I'm happy I am.

ethelred · 27th Oct 2009, 06:47 AM

Still haven't messed around. Definitely for the best, I would have gotten mixed up in a lot of heartbreak had I ever tried. Hell, I broke a few hearts doing nothing at all.

Jack2009 · 27th Oct 2009, 06:58 AM

still am

warrior · 27th Oct 2009, 07:01 AM

Still a virgin, and is going to remain one till. If there is an afterlife, I am going to meet my lover and loose it on his hand.

**Lexington** · 27th Oct 2009, 07:03 AM

24. I do sometimes wish I would've figured out my sexuality earlier on, and did some dating (and bedhopping) in college. And my first time was with a guy who was also a clueless virgin, and so it was (to steal a quote) "like two buses ramming into each other repeatedly". But no real regrets. Not proud, not ashamed.

Lex

AtomicCafe · 27th Oct 2009, 07:04 AM

Still a virgin despite everyone thinking I should no longer be. :P

27th Oct 2009, 07:05 AM

Yes I am still a virgin. Can't wait for that memorable day! =/

Pseudojim · 27th Oct 2009, 07:07 AM

wow, people really start late around here. most people i know were 14-16

27th Oct 2009, 07:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pseudojim

wow, people really start late around here. most people i know were 14-16

We aint whores.

JJ Naa some people just don't feel that they want to give it up or just give it up for the sake of it.

Black Cat · 27th Oct 2009, 07:17 AM

I still am.

27th Oct 2009, 07:23 AM

I lost mine when I was 19 to my current boyfriend. At the time I was really surprised because I had never really planned on being in a relationship. While we have been dating almost two years now, I would say we probably had sex a little too early in our relationship, and the first time we did it wasn't very fun anyways. Luckily we are still together despite how quickly we moved in the beginning.

Jack2009 · 27th Oct 2009, 07:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pseudojim

wow, people really start late around here. most people i know were 14-16

gay or straight?

i think more gay people wait longer because there is less opportunity for sex, and finding themselves and stuff.

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27th Oct 2009, 04:23 AM	#1
Andytx1 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Not out at all Location: Toronto Posts: 80 Join Date: Jun 2008	When you lost virginity? So when did you guys lose it (I'm a virgin btw)

27th Oct 2009, 04:50 AM	#2
Haiiro Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When you lost virginity? I was 19, and still should have waited. Ah, well.

27th Oct 2009, 04:51 AM	#3
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: When you lost virginity? I'm a virgin. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

27th Oct 2009, 04:59 AM	#4
SwissBoy88 Charmed and Dangerous Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: best friend, MOM, some co-workers Location: Switzerland Age: 23 Posts: 6,721 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: When you lost virginity? 21.... well.... wasn't that great... __________________ Either one is free or one is not. The concept of freedom is an absolute. After all, one cannot be moderately dead, moderately loved, or moderately free. It must always remain a matter of either or. After all... I'm just a boy, standing in front of another boy, asking him to love him....

27th Oct 2009, 05:29 AM	#5
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: When you lost virginity? 16, and it was absolutely magical, and pretty much the perfect way to lose it, to a girl with whom i was very much in love (we were both virgins)

27th Oct 2009, 05:35 AM	#6
dude99 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When you lost virginity? 21 and hated the first time.

27th Oct 2009, 05:57 AM	#7
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: When you lost virginity? 12, and it was truly magical. Now if only I could remember his bloody name... __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.

27th Oct 2009, 06:13 AM	#8
Andytx1 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Not out at all Location: Toronto Posts: 80 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: When you lost virginity? How did you guys meet? haha

27th Oct 2009, 06:40 AM	#9
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,870 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: When you lost virginity? Still a virgin, and I'm happy I am. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

27th Oct 2009, 06:47 AM	#10
ethelred Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 23 Posts: 217 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: When you lost virginity? Still haven't messed around. Definitely for the best, I would have gotten mixed up in a lot of heartbreak had I ever tried. Hell, I broke a few hearts doing nothing at all.

27th Oct 2009, 06:58 AM	#11
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: When you lost virginity? still am

27th Oct 2009, 07:01 AM	#12
warrior Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 104 Join Date: May 2009	Re: When you lost virginity? Still a virgin, and is going to remain one till. If there is an afterlife, I am going to meet my lover and loose it on his hand.

27th Oct 2009, 07:03 AM	#13
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: When you lost virginity? 24. I do sometimes wish I would've figured out my sexuality earlier on, and did some dating (and bedhopping) in college. And my first time was with a guy who was also a clueless virgin, and so it was (to steal a quote) "like two buses ramming into each other repeatedly". But no real regrets. Not proud, not ashamed. Lex

27th Oct 2009, 07:04 AM	#14
AtomicCafe Gay by Day, Dyke by Night Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Asexual Lesbian Out Status: Out, Loud, and Proud Location: Tucson, AZ Age: 19 Posts: 208 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: When you lost virginity? Still a virgin despite everyone thinking I should no longer be. :P __________________ That child has several options: staying in the closet, suicide. And then one day, that child might open up the paper and it says, "Homosexual Elected in San Francisco." - Harvey Milk

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Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When you lost virginity? Yes I am still a virgin. Can't wait for that memorable day! =/

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27th Oct 2009, 07:23 AM	#19
Kevin42 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When you lost virginity? I lost mine when I was 19 to my current boyfriend. At the time I was really surprised because I had never really planned on being in a relationship. While we have been dating almost two years now, I would say we probably had sex a little too early in our relationship, and the first time we did it wasn't very fun anyways. Luckily we are still together despite how quickly we moved in the beginning.