Do gay guys and straight guys talk about sex together?

[x2x2x2x2y2]

So I was wondering do any gay guys here talk about sex with their straight friends? I was just wondering cause my friend and I talked about it this past weekend(though I had to talk about girls Since he thinks I'm straight =( lol). So do gay guys and straight guys talk about sex together? Is it akward and weird or what?

[Swamp56]

I've never really talked about it "in-depth" with any of my straight friends.

[x2x2x2x2y2]

Originally Posted by Swamp56

I've never really talked about it "in-depth" with any of my straight friends.

So u have talked about it, just not in depth?

[Ty]

Most of my friends are curious about it, so I often get questioned about it. Teenage boys are curious things... and girls too actually for that matter.

[x2x2x2x2y2]

Originally Posted by Ty

Most of my friends are curious about it, so I often get questioned about it. Teenage boys are curious things... and girls too actually for that matter.

I'm surprised that some of the boys would ask questions. What kinds of stuff would they ask?

[davo-man]

Depends on the person, depends on the context. I feel comfortable talking about straight sex with them (obviously with them leading). If they ask questions about guys, then I don't clam up; I'm pretty open.

[Filip]

Well, I don't think I've ever talked about sex with a whole bunch of my friends in a big group. But when I'm alone with one or two others, the topic does come up occasionally, yeah. Not really to discuss it in really descriptive ways, though. Mostly it's just generalities.

And in my experience, it's mostly the guys that ask questions. For some reason, a lot of them are fascinated by the subject of how things work with gay guys.
A lot of the time it's about how to decide who's the "boy" and who's the "girl". Or about what I would do in some massively contrived scenarios they thought up that makes me think they spend more time thinking about it than I do

[ColdSnap]

Originally Posted by x2x2x2x2y2

I'm surprised that some of the boys would ask questions. What kinds of stuff would they ask?

I've talked about it with straight friends male and female, most common question is whether you top or bottom although they tend to say give or recieve but other than that it tends to be the similar questions you'd ask if it was straight sex i.e. oh god was he really ugly, did he have a big dick?...etc But then I have a pretty open minded circle of friends

[Maddy]

Some of my housemates (straight girls and a gay guy) tended to interrogate me about sex. Are you the guy or the girl, how do two girls have sex, how can another girl satisfy you, haven't you ever wanted to try a guy, all that crap. I didn't tell them that I'm a virgin - it's none of their damn business - so the questions kept coming. I understand that they're curious, but I wish they'd realised at some stage that the fact being a lesbian isn't solely about having sex with girls.

[George]

I've talked with some of them about it, but it was more a curiousity thing on their side more than anything else.
That and a game of truth and dare getting too far, even though no dares were made.

[Ty]

Originally Posted by x2x2x2x2y2

I'm surprised that some of the boys would ask questions. What kinds of stuff would they ask?

Like Coldsnap said, similar things to if it were two straight people... I too have an open minded set of friends. However, I think the most prominent question from my friends was 'Does it hurt?'...

Why are you surprised that the boys would ask questions?

[Adam]

I am pretty shy, and so no one really asks me about that sorta stuff, one time a guy friend told me I need to be more open and not be scared about talking about sex with them. I always thought it would be uncomfortable for them for me to talk about it but I think they would be cool with it actually. I bet they would actually be interested to know what I have done lol. I have talked about everything I have done sexually with my online friends just not really with anyone in real life.

[Just Adam]

i dont really talk about sex with people at all ...if i can help it...

it allways ends up

straight friend: my god look at them boobs!
me: theyre ok
straight friend: no great!
me: what is?
straight friend: the boobs!
me: oh...meh...fancy a beer?

[fallendream]

[QUOTE=ColdSnap;581348]

Originally Posted by x2x2x2x2y2

I'm surprised that some of the boys would ask questions. What kinds of stuff would they ask?

i get asked really sick questions by strangers. seriously in tutor last week i was confronted by four chavs who asked me everything. some samples are;
'can you jizz yet?'
'do you have a boyfriend'
'what did you do with him'
' how many guys you fucked'
'are you a giver or taker'
'why are you mean to us we only asked cos your fascinating and interesting'
'stop being mean, you cant be gay. (me - why?) cos all gays are nice!'

this going on when two teachers were at the front laughing at it all.
though one of my fairly epic tutors unleashed a can of whoopass when someone said 'i dont have anything against joe, but its sick, twisted and wrong - how can you know at that age anyway?'

[Just Adam]

[QUOTE=fallendream;581367]

Originally Posted by ColdSnap

i get asked really sick questions by strangers. seriously in tutor last week i was confronted by four chavs who asked me everything. some samples are;
'can you jizz yet?'
'do you have a boyfriend'
'what did you do with him'
' how many guys you fucked'
'are you a giver or taker'
'why are you mean to us we only asked cos your fascinating and interesting'
'stop being mean, you cant be gay. (me - why?) cos all gays are nice!'

this going on when two teachers were at the front laughing at it all.
though one of my fairly epic tutors unleashed a can of whoopass when someone said 'i dont have anything against joe, but its sick, twisted and wrong - how can you know at that age anyway?'

'can you jizz yet?'
better than you
'do you have a boyfriend'
yep hes better than yours
'what did you do with him'
it would make you blush
' how many guys you fucked'
not as many as you im afraid
'are you a giver or taker'
why? interested?
'why are you mean to us we only asked cos your fascinating and interesting'
im glad im an inspiration for you
'stop being mean, you cant be gay. (me - why?) cos all gays are nice!'
why arent you nice then?

only way to shut up a chav is to out talk them. or attack...but they tend to travel in packs

[Daniel]

Originally Posted by ColdSnap

I've talked about it with straight friends male and female, most common question is whether you top or bottom although they tend to say give or recieve but other than that it tends to be the similar questions you'd ask if it was straight sex i.e. oh god was he really ugly, did he have a big dick?...etc But then I have a pretty open minded circle of friends

I would rather they ask if I give or receive. A recent play had someone joke about catcher's and pitchers. So now I get asked if I am a catcher or a pitcher.

It just makes it awkward.

But aside from that I have had a lot of open discussions with my friends about sex, both male and female, gay, straight, bi, pan, queer, flexible...that is a long list but ja.

[Hoppip]

I think it's because I'm a man that I love to explain things, so I love dispelling rumors and stereotypes to my straight brethren. Usually when I talk about sex, it's to ask the womanfolk fascinating things about their Zelda-puzzle like bodies.

Hell. I'll talk about sex to anyone.

[Black Cat]

I don't exactly have anything to discuss, as I have never had sex. Were I a seasoned sex veteran I'd definitely talk to anyone interested about the matter, save for probably my grandparents (I think they could live without the details of that). Other than that I'd pretty much talk to anyone about it, especially if it's good.

[guacj]

I guess it all depends on the person. One of my best friends is gay and when he thought I was straight we used to talk about it all the time. If the person is really accepting of gay people then he wont really care.

[RainInAfrica]

I was asked by two guys in my school who I didn't even know ' Was I that gay one',
I said yeah. They then asked ' Do you have a fella or what ? ', to which i reply, yes. They then started asking me very in depth questions which i refused to answer, It was all very creepy.