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Self-Confidence

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by AtomicCafe, Oct 29, 2009.

  1. AtomicCafe

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    Last night, I was invited to a party (taking place tonight) for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Females only, celebrating their breasts. Not usually my thing, but my girlfriend is dragging my along. :kiss: Anyway, a pretty big portion of it is making breast molds, which equals mass toplessness among women!! (Now that's something I'm totally for.) I was thinking that was fun before I realized how much I absolutely hate my chest. It ain't pretty unless it's under a shirt.

    Anyway, I thought this would make a fun thread: post what you love about yourself and how you make yourself feel beautiful or confident. I imagine someone out there with a partner would also find this thread sort of helpful to read!
     
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    I love my height, I'm about 5 11", and I hate my hair, its really dry and split in the winter weather.
     
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    Definitely agree on the hair thing! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I have really thick curls that turn to awful frizz most of the time and if I don't wash them every day, it goes all limp and gross. Ugh.

    I love my lower legs most of the time. I'm a runner, so they usually look pretty nice, haha.
     
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    I like my hands, even though they are covered in cat scratches, burns, bumps, cuts, bruises, and many other strange lesions most of the time. I still love them.
     
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    I love my hair! It's so soft and fluffy, and grows super-fast so if I hate a style, I can get a new one a little bit later. =D (Though it does mean that it's gonna take some cash to maintain the short style I have now.) I like my eyes, too. I think they're rather nice. =)

    I feel like I could be kinda cute if I lost some weight, but looking at pictures of me now versus me in high school, it's crazy how even changing how I present myself makes a difference. I got contacts, a more flattering haircut, started doing my eyebrows, and wearing clothes that fit me better, and there are seriously people I had classes with for 2+ semesters who have trouble recognizing me now. It's kinda nice. =D
     
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    I love my eyes! I feel like I am carrying the ocean around with me because they are so blue =) I looove my arms, legs, hands, feet, basically my whole body. It is the most amazing machine.
     
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    My hair's not great, and it takes a lot of attention to make it look good, but when I want to feel better about myself, I work on my hair ^^ when I do it right, and it's long enough, it doesn't look half bad! It's just the keeping up on it that kills me!
     
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    I like the corner of my eyes. The curve where my brow ridge meets my cheekbones makes a little indentation and I love it when it makes a shadow.
     
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    Ugh, I hate my legs. I'm ghostly pale and I have this weird skin condition that causes me to have little pimple-like bumps ALL over them. I hardly ever show my legs (I'm ALWAYS wearing jeans, pretty much all year long), and I always feel embarassed when I do.

    But wait a minute, I'm s'posed to be talking about stuff I like, aren't I?

    Okay then. I really like my eyes. They're really big, with long eyelashes, and they're an odd shade of brown, almost amber; they look like a bright burnt orange color when I'm in the sun. I get a lot of compliments on my eyes, and it makes me feel good every time. :grin: (To be honest, I'm pretty happy with my face in general.) And I also like my figure. I'm really petite and can eat a ton of junk food without gaining a pound. (I know my metabolism will change when I get older, but can't I enjoy it while it lasts? :lol:slight_smile:
     
  10. Z3ni

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    I like.............. I like...... My eye lid??? thats its not a single eyelid like a typical chinese eye??? :shrug:
     
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    Even on the very frequent days when I hate virtually everything I see in the mirror, I have an unusual eye colour that I like a lot. Green eyes are cool. When it comes to things I hate, basiclly everything else.
     
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    Gonna sound a little vain here i like my Bum and legs - it is what i look for in a bum and leg muscles....... my face, hair, definitely 3 times broken nose I would change....
     
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    I love my eyes. They have such a nice dark circle around them, and enough hazel spotting the blue that they can look green if I wear the right thing or put on the right makeup. People always tell me that they are beautiful, and I agree.

    I hate my weight, but I am working to change it.
     
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    I have super soft skin. :grin: Everyone says it's like silk. And I love my eyes, they're bright blue and have flecks of grey in them. :slight_smile:
    And...uhh...apparently I have soft lips. XD

    I could probably look a lot better if I lost some weight, but that's probably not going to happen. I don't have the motivation. Not worth it, I'm happy as I am. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I dislike my hair, my hands, and many other things about myself- I like my eyes, and only when i'm not smiling. Lol
     
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    I like my eyes because they can look green one moment and blue the next depending on what I'm wearing, it's odd.

    It's not a physical thing, but I love my warped sense of humor.
     
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    I like my eyes and legs. my eyes are a really nice shade of blue, and theres a ring of yellow around the pupil and because of that in some lighting they look green :slight_smile: I like my legs cause they're really muscular and shapely, but infortunately they're also very pale :/
     
  18. Hmm... I like my eyes. I think they're gorgeous if you get close enough, but depending on how far away you see them from they change from grey to blue to hazel. And I like my biceps, because they're muscular without being obnoxious about it. In the right light, I like my abs. In the wrong light I hate my abs. And I have a love/hate relationship with my hair: I love the color(s), but it's way too thick to be easily style-able.
     
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    Hey, better that your hair is too thick than too thin, eh? =)

    ... My brother's 18 and he's already balding, I feel so bad for him. =/
     
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    I love my legs.They're beefy (But I'm a pretty big boy, LOL) but they have a great shape, and I'm not afraid to show them off. I also like my lips. :grin: