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been in this situation before?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alex19, Nov 4, 2009.

  1. Alex19

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    ok so i know this guy, hes kinda cute, has a pretty good personality and would totally date him if he liked guys, but i dont know if he does. heres the thing: he def likes girls, ive established that as fact, but when it comes to just being around me and a girl or 2, (smaller more comfortable groups) he will make comments about having sexual relations with me. now he knows im gay, and i know hes not, but his facebook interested in is blank- kinda weird. and he only says things like that, like i said, in small groups and only when a female is close by. i could be overthinking it and i dont really have a crush on him anymore cause i figured since he may be str8 its safer and easier this way. but idk... i think he really could b bi and i kinda hope that he is cause, not to b shallow or a man-slut, id totally have relations with him!:thumbsup:

    what r your thoughts and has this happened to u b4?
     
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    Happens to me all the time, even in large groups. I wouldn't overthink it.
     
  3. Bryan44

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    This happens to me often too. Especially around guys that know Im into guys. They are all straight and they make jokes about sex with me I figured they are just really comfortable around me or they know that I dont really care or try to pursue anything with them. Who knows though? Maybe he could be bi, I dont think you should base his sexuality off of this though, maybe wait a little while longer for some more obvious clues.
     
  4. Alex19

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    u guys r right. but if he makes a move (which i hope he does but i wont hold my breath) im all over it :wink:
     
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    Alex. I know exactly how you feel. lol. My best friend was straight. He was VERY comfortable around me. There were time sand still have been times I though the was Bi. For God sakes, he showed me everything he had, LOL.

    Good Luck.
     
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    Oh wouldn't we all??? :wink:

    Good luck. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    thanks :slight_smile: but im kinda over it. i mean, as far as liking him goes i pretty much stopped myself so that when the aweful truth hits, it wont hit as hard. but man, what i wouldnt give for him to at least b curious or open minded... lol