If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

RaeofLite · 14th Nov 2009, 09:24 PM

If you had one wish to be able to change your sexual orientation once and it would be permanent due to this, what would you choose? And why?

Just Adam · 14th Nov 2009, 09:27 PM

i would stay pansexual

it just feels fine to me, i would save the wish and beg borrow steal my way to getting it used on somethign better liek a good body and...immortality ..but i might need to do a bit to get that one...

and i know people say they would be straight if they had the choice but i dont it just aint me

Shevanel · 14th Nov 2009, 09:31 PM

I would stay just as I am

Lychee · 14th Nov 2009, 09:31 PM

I'd be bi.
Best of both worlds.

Yes, I did just knowingly quote Hannah Montana.

RaRa · 14th Nov 2009, 09:32 PM

I'll stay gay, thank you very much.

RaeofLite · 14th Nov 2009, 09:33 PM

If asked this last year or years ago I would wish to be straight. But now that I'm happy and have support and friendship of people who matter, I'm happy being gay, so I'm here to stay.

14th Nov 2009, 09:36 PM

Straight hands down.
I don't mind being bisexual, but I would save myself a lot of heartache if I stopped crushing on women who were straight. But as it stands, I can't really choose.

... Maybe I'm just in a foul mood today.

Brandford · 14th Nov 2009, 09:38 PM

Though being Bisexual would provide more variety, I still would hate to be attracted to women. So ill stick being Homosexual. Not like being straight or Bi would increase my chances of getting a date anyway.

Just Adam · 14th Nov 2009, 09:40 PM

hmm i look at the poll and all i can do is 1 is the lonliest number i will ever be

lol

RaeofLite · 14th Nov 2009, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Just Adam

hmm i look at the poll and all i can do is 1 is the lonliest number i will ever be

lol

I'm sure you're not the only Pansexual one on EC.

And even if you are, it makes you that much more special.

Black Cat · 14th Nov 2009, 09:49 PM

I wouldn't change a thing. I like being gay.

Pseudojim · 14th Nov 2009, 09:49 PM

i would be pansexual! i like boys and girls but i do like girls more... i'd love to like both equally

14th Nov 2009, 09:55 PM

As many problems as being gay causes, it's really turned out to be a pretty good thing in my life. As a result of being gay, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and I think I am a kinder person than I would be otherwise. I think I was born this way for a reason, so I don't think it would be appropriate for me to change it if I could.

frostreaver · 14th Nov 2009, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Cat

I wouldn't change a thing. I like being gay.

This

Shevanel · 14th Nov 2009, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Numfarh

Straight hands down.
I don't mind being bisexual, but I would save myself a lot of heartache if I stopped crushing on women who were straight. But as it stands, I can't really choose.

... Maybe I'm just in a foul mood today.

, Corina, it's okay. Although I don't think being straight would solve your problems

You may crush on gay guys instead!

I know I certainly crush on a helluvalot of lesbians xD It's so unfair

14th Nov 2009, 09:57 PM

Well, I'd stay gay. But if I had to change, I'd be pansexual.

Lychee · 14th Nov 2009, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by SurferDude420

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Originally Posted by Numfarh

Straight hands down.
I don't mind being bisexual, but I would save myself a lot of heartache if I stopped crushing on women who were straight. But as it stands, I can't really choose.

... Maybe I'm just in a foul mood today.

, Corina, it's okay. Although I don't think being straight would solve your problems

You may crush on gay guys instead!

I know I certainly crush on a helluvalot of lesbians xD It's so unfair

Seriously, being straight is so overrated. It's really boring, and unoriginal.
Trade sexualities?

14th Nov 2009, 10:11 PM

My sexuality is the one stabile thing in my life. I wouldn't change it for the world.

JB1986 · 14th Nov 2009, 10:17 PM

I'd stay gay. I've worked so hard to get to where I love myself as I am, and I don't want to change it. And guys are just too hot, LOL.

Just Adam · 14th Nov 2009, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Pseudojim

i would be pansexual! i like boys and girls but i do like girls more... i'd love to like both equally

that really isnt pansexuality lol that really is bisexuality lol

oh dear its happening again...

*sends request for a face palm...for when i dont know jsut doesent cover it*

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Originally Posted by RaeofLite

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just Adam

hmm i look at the poll and all i can do is 1 is the lonliest number i will ever be

lol

I'm sure you're not the only Pansexual one on EC.

And even if you are, it makes you that much more special.

and awww your sweet for that

View Poll Results: I would chose to be:
Heterosexual (Straight)	14	17.28%
Bisexual	21	25.93%
Homosexual (Gay/Lesbian)	34	41.98%
Pansexual	11	13.58%
Transexual/Transgendered	1	1.23%
Voters: 81. You may not vote on this poll

14th Nov 2009, 09:24 PM	#1
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? If you had one wish to be able to change your sexual orientation once and it would be permanent due to this, what would you choose? And why? __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

14th Nov 2009, 09:27 PM	#2
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? i would stay pansexual it just feels fine to me, i would save the wish and beg borrow steal my way to getting it used on somethign better liek a good body and...immortality ..but i might need to do a bit to get that one... and i know people say they would be straight if they had the choice but i dont it just aint me __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

14th Nov 2009, 09:31 PM	#3
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? I would stay just as I am __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

14th Nov 2009, 09:31 PM	#4
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? I'd be bi. Best of both worlds. Yes, I did just knowingly quote Hannah Montana. __________________ We we we so excited.

14th Nov 2009, 09:32 PM	#5
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? I'll stay gay, thank you very much. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

14th Nov 2009, 09:33 PM	#6
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? If asked this last year or years ago I would wish to be straight. But now that I'm happy and have support and friendship of people who matter, I'm happy being gay, so I'm here to stay. __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

14th Nov 2009, 09:36 PM	#7
Numfarh Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? Straight hands down. I don't mind being bisexual, but I would save myself a lot of heartache if I stopped crushing on women who were straight. But as it stands, I can't really choose. ... Maybe I'm just in a foul mood today.

14th Nov 2009, 09:38 PM	#8
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? Though being Bisexual would provide more variety, I still would hate to be attracted to women. So ill stick being Homosexual. Not like being straight or Bi would increase my chances of getting a date anyway. __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

14th Nov 2009, 09:40 PM	#9
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? hmm i look at the poll and all i can do is 1 is the lonliest number i will ever be lol __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

14th Nov 2009, 09:49 PM	#11
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? I wouldn't change a thing. I like being gay. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

14th Nov 2009, 09:49 PM	#12
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? i would be pansexual! i like boys and girls but i do like girls more... i'd love to like both equally

14th Nov 2009, 09:55 PM	#13
Kevin42 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? As many problems as being gay causes, it's really turned out to be a pretty good thing in my life. As a result of being gay, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and I think I am a kinder person than I would be otherwise. I think I was born this way for a reason, so I don't think it would be appropriate for me to change it if I could.

14th Nov 2009, 09:57 PM	#16
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? Well, I'd stay gay. But if I had to change, I'd be pansexual.

14th Nov 2009, 10:11 PM	#18
backtothekitchen Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could switch your orientation, what would it be? My sexuality is the one stabile thing in my life. I wouldn't change it for the world.

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