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Old 12th Dec 2009, 05:57 AM   #1
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Ok... Is it true that windows shows the most accurate image of yourself?

And mirrors can make you desensitive yourself?
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Old 12th Dec 2009, 06:17 AM   #2
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Default Re: Window..Mirror..Or Photos?

I had an english teacher who always said that mirrors don't usually show the imperfections as they're seen to other people. I don't know how true that is, but I hate those huge close up mirrors where it magnifies everything.

Photographs usually show the opposite to what we see in the mirror, so when we look at a photograph of ourself, we're far more likely to prefer it if it's flipped to a mirror image, because that's what we're used to seeing. But people who know us will prefer it the other way, because they're used to seeing us the opposite to that…

I don't see why windows would be more accurate. I don't know about new windows, but the windows in my house aren't perfectly straight because they're so old. And you can see less I think in your reflection in windows so I'm not sure why that would be most accurate.
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Old 12th Dec 2009, 07:20 AM   #3
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I don't know maybe because they're wider?? and unlike mirrors can be bent whilst windowds are straight, because they're hard?

Ok that doesn't even make sense lol
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Default Re: Window..Mirror..Or Photos?

Obviously a mirror just reflects on your life, while a window shows the window into your soul
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i jsut hate any image of myself... seeing myself i feel all sick lol.
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i jsut hate any image of myself... seeing myself i feel all sick lol.


Mr Grumpy gills. You need some self confidence. Self confidence and loving yourself (not over the top) is sexy.
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Old 12th Dec 2009, 08:31 AM   #7
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i jsut hate any image of myself... seeing myself i feel all sick lol.


Mr Grumpy gills. You need some self confidence. Self confidence and loving yourself (not over the top) is sexy.
Yes! I need it tooo me!! lol
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Old 12th Dec 2009, 09:08 AM   #8
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Check out this thread for self confidence. http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/sh...282#post607282
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Default Re: Window..Mirror..Or Photos?

recently i looked into a mirror and then looked at a photo i took, they were all within the same time period but i liked the photo better... the thing is, i dont know which image was lying, lol
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I don't look in mirrors, windows and I don't allow pictures to be taken of me
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Mirrors never lie they tell you the truth whether you like it or not
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