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13th Dec 2009, 11:08 PM

it just came to me a thought.i am 21 years old and i have not kissed a guy.now sitting here thinking good or bad for me bad. i wonder when my first kiss comes i think i will never forget it.i cant wait for that moment i just want to find a hot guy and just jump on him

guy:what the hell is your problem me:sorry but you is fine

guy:thanks long pause, both leave

anyways cheesy joke.i just wanted to tell all the viewers is the first time realy special or just a kiss.and also on the first kiss depending on the kiss and how good it was will the sutuation go further than a kiss.well feel free to comment.

Absentminded · 14th Dec 2009, 03:37 AM

Well, as much as I want to, I can't forget mine. (not to set you off...just saying) It's something you're going to remember for quite a while. Don't rush it, it'll come when it comes.
I wouldn't necessarily say that the first kiss will go further based on whether it's good or not, from experience I've found it depends on the moment. Mine didn't. But, some do. I ended up giving a girl her first kiss fairly recently (damn the mistletoe) and she didn't necessarily want to stop, but I didn't want to keep going (age gap, and it was WAY too much fun looking at my guy friend when we stopped)

redsapphire · 14th Dec 2009, 03:49 AM

I did not like my first kiss. Two years ago in my drama class a guy (asshole) decided I was too frigid and decided to kiss me infront of the whole class. I kneed him in the balls afterwards.

**Maddy** · 14th Dec 2009, 03:50 AM

I'm 19 and I haven't really kissed a girl yet, and can't imagine it happening any time in the near future.

SolitaryKnight · 14th Dec 2009, 05:12 AM

I was kissed (or was doing the kissing) last night... in my dreams... with my best friend, who is straight, married and has a kid... I felt a little awkward when I woke up. Oh well, it felt really good in my dream.

ok455 · 14th Dec 2009, 12:05 PM

That's hard to believe you haven't had a first kiss yet your really cute.

My first kiss happen when i was 13 with a friend we used to write letters to each other in class. It lead to touching kissing and other stuff. Personally i don't believe in that saving it for the right person or married crap

calstad · 14th Dec 2009, 12:18 PM

i kissed a boy once a long time ago, it was what it was...

a kiss isnt really super great unless your in love.
my best kiss was with a girl actually.... and im gay...but i had a deep emotional connection with her.

Katherine · 14th Dec 2009, 01:20 PM

I haven't had my first kiss either, and I'm almost 17. I'm not really too worried about it. It'll happen when it happens, and I'm sure then I'll be glad I didn't rush things.

Black Cat · 14th Dec 2009, 01:24 PM

I, like many others on EC, haven't kissed another guy yet. I'm almost 19, and I often wonder what it's like, but I doubt it will be happening anytime in the foreseeable future.

Don't worry too much about it. Give it time. I can't speak from experience, but from what I'm guessing it is going to be worth the wait.

Z3ni · 14th Dec 2009, 01:31 PM

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

Emberstone · 14th Dec 2009, 01:33 PM

if any guy wants to fly out to oregon and give me my first kiss so I can get it over with and not fret over it...

Z3ni · 14th Dec 2009, 01:35 PM

Pay for the ticket and I'll be there tommorow

Shevanel · 14th Dec 2009, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

This, except I'm 19

Z3ni · 14th Dec 2009, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by SurferDude420

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

This, except I'm 19

Well your still young =]

fallendream · 14th Dec 2009, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by calstad

my best kiss was with a girl actually.... and im gay...but i had a deep emotional connection with her.

don't worry - sexuality is totally fluid, its pie thats a solid!

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Originally Posted by SurferDude420

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

This, except I'm 19

where do you live? ill be right over. with pie. =D (im joking, im pretty sure its a serious crime in your country to seduce hot random guys with pie)

Austin · 14th Dec 2009, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by SurferDude420

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

This, except I'm 19

Really? I'm suprised....

Anyways my first kiss might have been a little special at first but now it means nothing to me really. And I don't think if things go further it depends on the kiss or not.

19rockr · 14th Dec 2009, 01:49 PM

True...the most I've done was hold hands, hugs, and a kiss on both cheeks and neck. Unless you want my first real kiss on lips, which was possibly the worst one anyone could receive. The other guy was like trying to eat my whole face; okay it felt like it.

ColdSnap · 14th Dec 2009, 01:52 PM

special? the first time i kissed a guy or rather a guy kissed me was when I was off my balls on wine and passed out in his bed (we were friends, I used to stay over) and just woke up with him on my face. Special it certainly wasn't.

14th Dec 2009, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

Same for me. I've kissed a few girls before, but I've had absolutely zero physical/emotional connection with a guy yet. I blame myself. I stick to the friend zone so easily because I always think no one will ever be attracted to me, and I'd rather have that small friendship than nothing at all.

Anarchy3825 · 14th Dec 2009, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by FlawlessError

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Originally Posted by Z3ni

I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol

Same for me. I've kissed a few girls before, but I've had absolutely zero physical/emotional connection with a guy yet. I blame myself. I stick to the friend zone so easily because I always think no one will ever be attracted to me, and I'd rather have that small friendship than nothing at all.

I agree, thats what i do!!!

13th Dec 2009, 11:08 PM	#1
fabu2113 Guest Posts: n/a	First kiss:what you think it just came to me a thought.i am 21 years old and i have not kissed a guy.now sitting here thinking good or bad for me bad. i wonder when my first kiss comes i think i will never forget it.i cant wait for that moment i just want to find a hot guy and just jump on him guy:what the hell is your problem me:sorry but you is fine guy:thanks long pause, both leaveanyways cheesy joke.i just wanted to tell all the viewers is the first time realy special or just a kiss.and also on the first kiss depending on the kiss and how good it was will the sutuation go further than a kiss.well feel free to comment.

14th Dec 2009, 03:37 AM	#2
Absentminded EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: I'm a ladies kind of guy ;) Out Status: I flirt in public. Take a guess ;) Location: Vermont Age: 19 Posts: 546 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think Well, as much as I want to, I can't forget mine. (not to set you off...just saying) It's something you're going to remember for quite a while. Don't rush it, it'll come when it comes. I wouldn't necessarily say that the first kiss will go further based on whether it's good or not, from experience I've found it depends on the moment. Mine didn't. But, some do. I ended up giving a girl her first kiss fairly recently (damn the mistletoe) and she didn't necessarily want to stop, but I didn't want to keep going (age gap, and it was WAY too much fun looking at my guy friend when we stopped)

14th Dec 2009, 03:49 AM	#3
redsapphire EC's resident witch Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Wow Mama Out Status: most except family Location: Bonny Lingland Age: 20 Posts: 877 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think I did not like my first kiss. Two years ago in my drama class a guy (asshole) decided I was too frigid and decided to kiss me infront of the whole class. I kneed him in the balls afterwards. __________________ *Don't Bend, Don't Break, Baby Don't Back Down...*

14th Dec 2009, 03:50 AM	#4
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think I'm 19 and I haven't really kissed a girl yet, and can't imagine it happening any time in the near future. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

14th Dec 2009, 05:12 AM	#5
SolitaryKnight EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: the family knows and some other people Location: Atlantic Canada Age: 27 Posts: 360 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: First kiss:what you think I was kissed (or was doing the kissing) last night... in my dreams... with my best friend, who is straight, married and has a kid... I felt a little awkward when I woke up. Oh well, it felt really good in my dream. __________________ To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one's own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat. ~ Plato

14th Dec 2009, 12:05 PM	#6
ok455 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 437 Join Date: May 2005	Re: First kiss:what you think That's hard to believe you haven't had a first kiss yet your really cute. My first kiss happen when i was 13 with a friend we used to write letters to each other in class. It lead to touching kissing and other stuff. Personally i don't believe in that saving it for the right person or married crap __________________ http://209.50.252.116/smile.gif

14th Dec 2009, 12:18 PM	#7
calstad lipgloss and lolipops Full Member Gender: boi Orientation: gots the gayness Out Status: dueces Location: the cold north Age: 25 Posts: 101 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: First kiss:what you think i kissed a boy once a long time ago, it was what it was... a kiss isnt really super great unless your in love. my best kiss was with a girl actually.... and im gay...but i had a deep emotional connection with her. __________________ *"When the Power of Love overcomes the Love of Power the world will know peace." -Jimi Hendrix*

14th Dec 2009, 01:20 PM	#8
Katherine Professional Cuddler Full Member Gender: 75% female Orientation: 110% gay Out Status: 98% out Location: The land of rednecks and pine trees (Georgia) Age: 19 Posts: 1,745 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: First kiss:what you think I haven't had my first kiss either, and I'm almost 17. I'm not really too worried about it. It'll happen when it happens, and I'm sure then I'll be glad I didn't rush things. __________________ Overly emotional five-foot-tall vegetarian gamer girl who procrastinates way too much. Loves food, art, cats, and making people smile.

14th Dec 2009, 01:24 PM	#9
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: First kiss:what you think I, like many others on EC, haven't kissed another guy yet. I'm almost 19, and I often wonder what it's like, but I doubt it will be happening anytime in the foreseeable future. Don't worry too much about it. Give it time. I can't speak from experience, but from what I'm guessing it is going to be worth the wait. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

14th Dec 2009, 01:31 PM	#10
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think I'm 20 and i haven't even held hands or anything.. i'm a virgin all over... lol __________________ Through pain, lies success.

14th Dec 2009, 01:33 PM	#11
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,587 Join Date: May 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think if any guy wants to fly out to oregon and give me my first kiss so I can get it over with and not fret over it...

14th Dec 2009, 01:35 PM	#12
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think Pay for the ticket and I'll be there tommorow __________________ Through pain, lies success.

14th Dec 2009, 01:49 PM	#17
19rockr Banned Gender: Boy Orientation: Boys! Boys! Boys! Love'em! Out Status: Everyone I know, which is everybody. Location: Near Lexington, KY, by 45 miles to the east. Age: 21 Posts: 284 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: First kiss:what you think True...the most I've done was hold hands, hugs, and a kiss on both cheeks and neck. Unless you want my first real kiss on lips, which was possibly the worst one anyone could receive. The other guy was like trying to eat my whole face; okay it felt like it.

14th Dec 2009, 01:52 PM	#18
ColdSnap The easily corrupted ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boy Botherer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: C-diff - Wales Age: 22 Posts: 343 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: First kiss:what you think special? the first time i kissed a guy or rather a guy kissed me was when I was off my balls on wine and passed out in his bed (we were friends, I used to stay over) and just woke up with him on my face. Special it certainly wasn't.