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Miss Bubbles · 18th Dec 2009, 07:49 AM

I wanna kno from you lesbians and gays how long your first sme sex relationship lasted and who began it and who ended it? I'll go first. I started it it lasted about a year and a half and I ended it cuz he didn't want to claim me.

Austin · 18th Dec 2009, 07:52 AM

A week aha. It was a stupid online-long-distance relationship. We both kinda started it. He ended it.

Claim you?

Just Adam · 18th Dec 2009, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss Bubbles

I wanna kno from you lesbians and gays how long your first sme sex relationship lasted and who began it and who ended it? I'll go first. I started it it lasted about a year and a half and I ended it cuz he didn't want to claim me.

claim u? was thi s liek at airport baggage claim or sumamt?

im sorry coudent resist lol ...

i dont know yeet how long a same sex relationship could last...im not expecting long..

Carlotta · 18th Dec 2009, 07:54 AM

I started it, it lasted about 2 months, and she ended it because she wanted to marry someone eles... who she the cheated on LMAO

Miss Bubbles · 18th Dec 2009, 07:56 AM

no he wouldn't admit we were together when asked. And he claimed some random chick over me the bass turd.

isabella · 18th Dec 2009, 08:12 AM

Ya me and my girlfriends have been together for a month and we really didnt plan on going out with each other because we were best friends b4 we started to date but we have a better relashionship now then we did ever

Just Adam · 18th Dec 2009, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss Bubbles

no he wouldn't admit we were together when asked. And he claimed some random chick over me the bass turd.

the tard!

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Originally Posted by isabella

Ya me and my girlfriends have been together for a month and we really didnt plan on going out with each other because we were best friends b4 we started to date but we have a better relashionship now then we did ever

if it brings u closer together then its a good thing

18th Dec 2009, 08:20 AM

My first gay relationship was with my current boyfriend and in January, we will have been together two year

.

I was so scared to start dating him because I liked him so much. All of my relationships with women had been miserable failures lasting no more than three weeks, so I was scared I was just bad at relationships and I didn't want to ruin it with him. Luckily it has worked out and this has pretty much been the best two years of my life.

Austin · 18th Dec 2009, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Kevin42

My first gay relationship was with my current boyfriend and in January, we will have been together two year

.

I was so scared to start dating him because I liked him so much. All of my relationships with women had been miserable failures lasting no more than three weeks, so I was scared I was just bad at relationships and I didn't want to ruin it with him. Luckily it has worked out and this has pretty much been the best two years of my life.

Aww thats awesome! Lucky SOB. Jk. :P

18th Dec 2009, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Austin

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Originally Posted by Kevin42

My first gay relationship was with my current boyfriend and in January, we will have been together two year

.

I was so scared to start dating him because I liked him so much. All of my relationships with women had been miserable failures lasting no more than three weeks, so I was scared I was just bad at relationships and I didn't want to ruin it with him. Luckily it has worked out and this has pretty much been the best two years of my life.

Aww thats awesome! Lucky SOB. Jk. :P

If it's any comfort, we go to what's supposed to be the 8th most conservative University in the US, and dating while living in the dorms sucked pretty bad.

RaeofLite · 18th Dec 2009, 08:37 AM

She messaged me on a dating site. She lived pretty far away... but we talked about a month online and on the phone before hand so... then I decided to take a weekend off and bus down to see her. She arrived with flowers, and we rented a hotel room (neither of us was "out") and she showed me around her area and we had a wonderful weekend.

The relationship was great in all aspects-except distance and ability to easily see each other. So it only lasted four and a half months. Distance is so hard. Especially when it's over 3 hours driving between one another...

xballetxbeautyx · 18th Dec 2009, 09:33 AM

It was with a girl from dance. We'd been flirting and joking around ever since we came out to each other, and one day she was kidding and said she'd like a kiss and I wasn't kidding and said I'd give her one. Then I asked her to be my girlfriend and we dated for a month. And she ended it. We still dance together so we're kind of on awkward terms now...

Brandford · 18th Dec 2009, 11:25 AM

Ugh stupid thing messed up and now I have to type it all again. Well I met him on an online game called Mythwar, lol which is funny because I also met the person who introduced me to EC on the same game. Well We were stuck together in the same Guild (Dorky i know), He was one of the Guild master' favorites and I was also in a small position of power considering how bitchy i was back then and arguments with me weren't winnable. Anyhow we got into a bit of a power feud and we were always arguing about one stupid thing or another and I hated him and he hated me, we each wanted the other gone. Well gradually things got less heated and we began to stand each other's company and one night he asked me to message him privately so I did and we ended up talking until far after the sun came up. I fell deeply and unconditionally in love with him, and after about 2 or 3 months, he said he wanted some space and i couldnt comprehend what he meant so i kept trying to fix things and he ended it, but of course there was problems before this but I always believe i can fix things. Anyway, long story short, he ended up dating everyone i saw as a threat and eventually i ended up breaking up with my current bf for him and then he ended it again. Well the next two years were terrible, depression, suicide and a bunch of other crap, but we still talked everyday,e except for the times i would leave to try and get over him but they didnt work so to this day, I talk to him everyday except on weekends when he works 12 hour shifts and im still in love with him and he knows it and i get the feeling he still feels a little something for me

He was my first same sex relationship and my first and only true love

Sorry for the long post but believe me, that is the SHORT version, this over two years of history so it was hard to condense it since, ever since him hes been pretty much a part of me

Revan · 19th Dec 2009, 08:40 PM

1 1/2 months, I started it, he ended it.

At this point right now, I'm on my 5th, but I'm his first despite him being older than me :P he just figured himself out the past year.

Pasalacqua · 19th Dec 2009, 09:49 PM

5 1/2 months, she started and ended it, because apparently ,I'm emotionally dead. Ouch.

I'm dating her ex now, which, she convinced me her ex was a huge junkie and a bitch.
Untrue.

19th Dec 2009, 11:20 PM

i dont count what i had as a relationship. more of an ongoing hookup that lasted about 2 years. i finally grew some and ended it.

hopefully my first lasts for more than a week, this is me crossing my fingers.

Gin Uh Fur · 19th Dec 2009, 11:32 PM

my first was this girl ashley. she was all punk goth emo whatever. and i was like crushing hard for weeks. we lasted maybe a week and a half. i was all into the relationship and i didnt mind that she had a boyfriend too. she said i was "clingy" because i didnt like other girls touching her in front of me. blech. so she ended it.

calstad · 20th Dec 2009, 04:00 AM

I never had a boyfriend...

Adam · 20th Dec 2009, 04:20 AM

He started it, lasted a little over a month, he ended it.

jazzyspazzy · 20th Dec 2009, 05:54 AM

never had a girlfriend. i'm too scared of asking anyone out because i'm afraid of being rejected. i really need to build up my confidence...

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Originally Posted by Gin Uh Fur

my first was this girl ashley. she was all punk goth emo whatever. and i was like crushing hard for weeks. we lasted maybe a week and a half. i was all into the relationship and i didnt mind that she had a boyfriend too. she said i was "clingy" because i didnt like other girls touching her in front of me. blech. so she ended it.

she sounds like a bitch, if u dont mind me saying... but wait a minute - she had a boyfriend too? isn't that kind of asking for trouble?

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Originally Posted by isabella

Ya me and my girlfriends have been together for a month and we really didnt plan on going out with each other because we were best friends b4 we started to date but we have a better relashionship now then we did ever

did u mean girlfriend?

18th Dec 2009, 07:49 AM	#1
Miss Bubbles EC Addict Full Member Gender: confused on some levels Orientation: of the homosexual persuation. Out Status: So out im in Location: Indiana Age: 19 Posts: 1,037 Join Date: Nov 2009	First same sex relationship I wanna kno from you lesbians and gays how long your first sme sex relationship lasted and who began it and who ended it? I'll go first. I started it it lasted about a year and a half and I ended it cuz he didn't want to claim me. __________________ A Dialogue my besty made up in first period: Oh this reminds me of the time joan rivers made that fatal mistake: Oh apples how I hunger for youuuuu. "Joan Don't Touch those!" -bite- -hiss- 'Joan you and adam are cast out of heaven!!!!'-- Ashley D.

18th Dec 2009, 07:52 AM	#2
Austin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people in my life. Location: Orange County, California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 1,790 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: First same sex relationship A week aha. It was a stupid online-long-distance relationship. We both kinda started it. He ended it. Claim you? __________________ Can I sail through the changing ocean tides, can I handle the seasons of my life?

18th Dec 2009, 07:54 AM	#4
Carlotta Newbie Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Birmingham Posts: 3 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: First same sex relationship I started it, it lasted about 2 months, and she ended it because she wanted to marry someone eles... who she the cheated on LMAO __________________ Sex is like a rainbow. So have a colourful day!

18th Dec 2009, 07:56 AM	#5
Miss Bubbles EC Addict Full Member Gender: confused on some levels Orientation: of the homosexual persuation. Out Status: So out im in Location: Indiana Age: 19 Posts: 1,037 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: First same sex relationship no he wouldn't admit we were together when asked. And he claimed some random chick over me the bass turd. __________________ A Dialogue my besty made up in first period: Oh this reminds me of the time joan rivers made that fatal mistake: Oh apples how I hunger for youuuuu. "Joan Don't Touch those!" -bite- -hiss- 'Joan you and adam are cast out of heaven!!!!'-- Ashley D.

18th Dec 2009, 08:12 AM	#6
isabella Alone and depressed Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: IN HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! New York State Posts: 70 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: First same sex relationship Ya me and my girlfriends have been together for a month and we really didnt plan on going out with each other because we were best friends b4 we started to date but we have a better relashionship now then we did ever __________________ I'm alone in this dark world, Every time I turn around, I start to think about you, Every time someone says your name I wig out, Sometimes I wish that we met, Because all you have done to me, Is cause my life to be flushed down the toilet.

18th Dec 2009, 08:20 AM	#8
Kevin42 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: First same sex relationship My first gay relationship was with my current boyfriend and in January, we will have been together two year. I was so scared to start dating him because I liked him so much. All of my relationships with women had been miserable failures lasting no more than three weeks, so I was scared I was just bad at relationships and I didn't want to ruin it with him. Luckily it has worked out and this has pretty much been the best two years of my life.

18th Dec 2009, 08:37 AM	#11
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: First same sex relationship She messaged me on a dating site. She lived pretty far away... but we talked about a month online and on the phone before hand so... then I decided to take a weekend off and bus down to see her. She arrived with flowers, and we rented a hotel room (neither of us was "out") and she showed me around her area and we had a wonderful weekend. The relationship was great in all aspects-except distance and ability to easily see each other. So it only lasted four and a half months. Distance is so hard. Especially when it's over 3 hours driving between one another... __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

18th Dec 2009, 09:33 AM	#12
xballetxbeautyx Heterodox Homosexual Full Member Gender: (.)(.) Orientation: Kinsey 5? Ish? Out Status: If you don't know, where have you been all my life Location: Midwest USA Age: 17 Posts: 1,719 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: First same sex relationship It was with a girl from dance. We'd been flirting and joking around ever since we came out to each other, and one day she was kidding and said she'd like a kiss and I wasn't kidding and said I'd give her one. Then I asked her to be my girlfriend and we dated for a month. And she ended it. We still dance together so we're kind of on awkward terms now... __________________ I can't go to Pigfarts! IT'S ON MARS. You need a rocketship! Do you have a rocketship, Potter? Look at this - it's Rocketship Potter! Starkid Potter! Moonshoes Potter! Traversing the galaxy for intergalactic travels to Pigfarts!

18th Dec 2009, 11:25 AM	#13
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: First same sex relationship Ugh stupid thing messed up and now I have to type it all again. Well I met him on an online game called Mythwar, lol which is funny because I also met the person who introduced me to EC on the same game. Well We were stuck together in the same Guild (Dorky i know), He was one of the Guild master' favorites and I was also in a small position of power considering how bitchy i was back then and arguments with me weren't winnable. Anyhow we got into a bit of a power feud and we were always arguing about one stupid thing or another and I hated him and he hated me, we each wanted the other gone. Well gradually things got less heated and we began to stand each other's company and one night he asked me to message him privately so I did and we ended up talking until far after the sun came up. I fell deeply and unconditionally in love with him, and after about 2 or 3 months, he said he wanted some space and i couldnt comprehend what he meant so i kept trying to fix things and he ended it, but of course there was problems before this but I always believe i can fix things. Anyway, long story short, he ended up dating everyone i saw as a threat and eventually i ended up breaking up with my current bf for him and then he ended it again. Well the next two years were terrible, depression, suicide and a bunch of other crap, but we still talked everyday,e except for the times i would leave to try and get over him but they didnt work so to this day, I talk to him everyday except on weekends when he works 12 hour shifts and im still in love with him and he knows it and i get the feeling he still feels a little something for me He was my first same sex relationship and my first and only true love Sorry for the long post but believe me, that is the SHORT version, this over two years of history so it was hard to condense it since, ever since him hes been pretty much a part of me

19th Dec 2009, 08:40 PM	#14
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,562 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: First same sex relationship 1 1/2 months, I started it, he ended it. At this point right now, I'm on my 5th, but I'm his first despite him being older than me :P he just figured himself out the past year. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

19th Dec 2009, 09:49 PM	#15
Pasalacqua Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Anyone who asks. Location: Pa Age: 19 Posts: 173 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: First same sex relationship 5 1/2 months, she started and ended it, because apparently ,I'm emotionally dead. Ouch. I'm dating her ex now, which, she convinced me her ex was a huge junkie and a bitch. Untrue.

19th Dec 2009, 11:20 PM	#16
paco Guest Posts: n/a	Re: First same sex relationship i dont count what i had as a relationship. more of an ongoing hookup that lasted about 2 years. i finally grew some and ended it. hopefully my first lasts for more than a week, this is me crossing my fingers.

19th Dec 2009, 11:32 PM	#17
Gin Uh Fur Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Lesbian Out Status: all the way out. Location: Virginia Age: 24 Posts: 406 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: First same sex relationship my first was this girl ashley. she was all punk goth emo whatever. and i was like crushing hard for weeks. we lasted maybe a week and a half. i was all into the relationship and i didnt mind that she had a boyfriend too. she said i was "clingy" because i didnt like other girls touching her in front of me. blech. so she ended it.

20th Dec 2009, 04:00 AM	#18
calstad lipgloss and lolipops Full Member Gender: boi Orientation: gots the gayness Out Status: dueces Location: the cold north Age: 25 Posts: 101 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: First same sex relationship I never had a boyfriend... __________________ *"When the Power of Love overcomes the Love of Power the world will know peace." -Jimi Hendrix*

20th Dec 2009, 04:20 AM	#19
Adam EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 539 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: First same sex relationship He started it, lasted a little over a month, he ended it.

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