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starfish · 21st Dec 2009, 06:00 PM

Well folks it is that time of the year again. I completed all of my 2009 goals.

I am stating on my 2010 goals, but I have some decisions to make first.

I've got a 10 hour drive ahead of me tomorrow, so I'm sure I'll get some time to talk about it.

darkestknight · 21st Dec 2009, 06:06 PM

Me: Keep fit! Learn up Parallax, dsPIC and also AVR microcontrollers! Get my CGPA right on 3.00!

Just Adam · 21st Dec 2009, 06:11 PM

get job
lose some weight
survive...

second thoughts i think ill jsut make the 3rd the goal as i hate failing.

crystaltriforce · 21st Dec 2009, 06:13 PM

get in shape
get a boyfriend
get a better job

Gaetan · 21st Dec 2009, 06:16 PM

-Be completely out by my birthday in June.
-Have a job.
-Have an apartment.

Ander Blue · 21st Dec 2009, 06:16 PM

Eat healthy
Start working out
Go to a Pride meeting
Find a boyfriend?

darkestknight · 21st Dec 2009, 06:22 PM

Oh and I forget too... get a boyfriend!

Apocalypte · 21st Dec 2009, 06:31 PM

- Finish my masters
- Learn to drive
- Come out to my family and move out of the family home again
- Eat healthier and drop about another 10lbs
- Run my 2nd marathon, and hopefully finish in under 4 hours this time

21st Dec 2009, 06:35 PM

- Get my drivers licence in all its hard, shiny, pink glory! I'm sick of green now.

- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
- Get a Boyfriend.
I think that's about it really.

iwanttobelieve · 21st Dec 2009, 09:44 PM

Go to uni
win my court case
get a boyfriend
be loved by SOMEONE

21st Dec 2009, 09:47 PM

Be completely out by January 1, 2010.
Start dating.
Get a full-time job.
Get a car.
Start complimenting myself more.
Take better care of myself.

-Michael- · 21st Dec 2009, 09:54 PM

Get a job
Keep my boyfriend
Start being nice

Black Cat · 21st Dec 2009, 09:54 PM

Well I have some goals for the New Year, but I never make resolutions.

1. Keep my already lost weight off, possibly loose a bit more.
2. Meet at least one gay person; I am willing to drive/move/whatever. I don’t mean boyfriend per say (although I wouldn’t say no

) I just mean a gay friend.
3. Be fully out by the next New Year.
4. Get a job.
5. Possibly be living independently, although this one is flexible.
6. Be less negative and pessimistic about things.
7. Find a comedy club around here, and start going on a weekly basis.
8. Write more.
9. Pin down the ideas as to exactly what makes me happy in life, and begin pursuing them.
10. Get my GED.
11. Be happy with myself and who I am.

-Michael- · 21st Dec 2009, 10:00 PM

Get a job
Keep my boyfriend
Start being nice

RaeofLite · 21st Dec 2009, 10:52 PM

-Keep fit
-Quit nicotine
-Get a girlfriend
-Move and get my career started apon graduating
-write and hopefully finish my first novel

21st Dec 2009, 11:00 PM

Get a body that rivals Jacob Black's
Kick ass in school

**Victor** · 21st Dec 2009, 11:01 PM

To not slack off in school.

Quote:

Originally Posted by RaeofLite

-write and hopefully finish my first novel

Ah, on a similar note, to try to complete NaNoWriMo in 2010. I soooo failed this year. >_<

21st Dec 2009, 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RAJ Aladdin

Get a body that rivals Jacob Black's
Kick ass in school

Oh and find love (soul changing love)

No One · 21st Dec 2009, 11:17 PM

-Get Fit,
-Eat Healthier,
-Keep my 4.0,
-Get a job,
-Do good in my college classes next school year,
-Do more volunteer work,
-Stand up for self,

There are more but those are the ones that come to mind right now.

21st Dec 2009, 11:20 PM

-Get into Simon's Rock
-Get away from my mother
-Get my double-back (flip) down pat
-Grow wings
-Do math homework on time
-Do bio homework at all
-Read all of the books currently on my to-read bookshelf
-Be more active in the community (this'll have to come after the end of the school year, though, since I have no time this year)

I wouldn't mind a boyfriend either

But what happens happens. I'm not going to make it a goal since I can't make it happen.

21st Dec 2009, 06:00 PM	#1
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	Your 2010 Goals Well folks it is that time of the year again. I completed all of my 2009 goals. I am stating on my 2010 goals, but I have some decisions to make first. I've got a 10 hour drive ahead of me tomorrow, so I'm sure I'll get some time to talk about it. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

21st Dec 2009, 06:06 PM	#2
darkestknight Ik ben vandaag zo vrolijk! Full Member Gender: Male, XY Orientation: Men, men, and more men! Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Malaysia Posts: 526 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals Me: Keep fit! Learn up Parallax, dsPIC and also AVR microcontrollers! Get my CGPA right on 3.00!

21st Dec 2009, 06:11 PM	#3
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals get job lose some weight survive... second thoughts i think ill jsut make the 3rd the goal as i hate failing. __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

21st Dec 2009, 06:13 PM	#4
crystaltriforce raised by nintendo and sega Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but extended family Location: outside of Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 1,825 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals get in shape get a boyfriend get a better job __________________ we need masculinity....PUT ON THE "FUZZY FUZZY CUTE CUTE" SONG!!!

21st Dec 2009, 06:16 PM	#5
Gaetan DON'T TOUCH THE HAT! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Immediate Family and Friends Location: Idaho, USA Age: 25 Posts: 1,098 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals -Be completely out by my birthday in June. -Have a job. -Have an apartment. __________________ Those who say it cannot be done, shouldn't interrupt the people doing it.

21st Dec 2009, 06:16 PM	#6
Ander Blue feeling comfy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Copenhagen, Denmark (normally Troy, New York) Age: 22 Posts: 428 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals Eat healthy Start working out Go to a Pride meeting Find a boyfriend? __________________ Re-examine all you have been told.... Dismiss what insults your soul. ~ Walt Whitman

21st Dec 2009, 06:22 PM	#7
darkestknight Ik ben vandaag zo vrolijk! Full Member Gender: Male, XY Orientation: Men, men, and more men! Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Malaysia Posts: 526 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals Oh and I forget too... get a boyfriend!

21st Dec 2009, 06:31 PM	#8
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals - Finish my masters - Learn to drive - Come out to my family and move out of the family home again - Eat healthier and drop about another 10lbs - Run my 2nd marathon, and hopefully finish in under 4 hours this time __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

21st Dec 2009, 06:35 PM	#9
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Your 2010 Goals - Get my drivers licence in all its hard, shiny, pink glory! I'm sick of green now. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. - Get a Boyfriend. I think that's about it really.

21st Dec 2009, 09:44 PM	#10
iwanttobelieve No Longer A Member Gender: N/A Orientation: N/A Out Status: N/A Age: 20 Posts: 128 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals Go to uni win my court case get a boyfriend be loved by SOMEONE

21st Dec 2009, 09:47 PM	#11
backtothekitchen Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Your 2010 Goals Be completely out by January 1, 2010. Start dating. Get a full-time job. Get a car. Start complimenting myself more. Take better care of myself.

21st Dec 2009, 09:54 PM	#12
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,199 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals Get a job Keep my boyfriend Start being nice

21st Dec 2009, 09:54 PM	#13
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals Well I have some goals for the New Year, but I never make resolutions. 1. Keep my already lost weight off, possibly loose a bit more. 2. Meet at least one gay person; I am willing to drive/move/whatever. I don’t mean boyfriend per say (although I wouldn’t say no ) I just mean a gay friend. 3. Be fully out by the next New Year. 4. Get a job. 5. Possibly be living independently, although this one is flexible. 6. Be less negative and pessimistic about things. 7. Find a comedy club around here, and start going on a weekly basis. 8. Write more. 9. Pin down the ideas as to exactly what makes me happy in life, and begin pursuing them. 10. Get my GED. 11. Be happy with myself and who I am. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

21st Dec 2009, 10:00 PM	#14
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,199 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals Get a job Keep my boyfriend Start being nice

21st Dec 2009, 10:52 PM	#15
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Your 2010 Goals -Keep fit -Quit nicotine -Get a girlfriend -Move and get my career started apon graduating -write and hopefully finish my first novel __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

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21st Dec 2009, 11:00 PM	#16
RAJ Aladdin Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Your 2010 Goals Get a body that rivals Jacob Black's Kick ass in school

21st Dec 2009, 11:17 PM	#19
No One Eternally Male Crazed! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Unofficially out to everyone but my family. Age: 18 Posts: 1,021 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Your 2010 Goals -Get Fit, -Eat Healthier, -Keep my 4.0, -Get a job, -Do good in my college classes next school year, -Do more volunteer work, -Stand up for self, There are more but those are the ones that come to mind right now. __________________

21st Dec 2009, 11:20 PM	#20
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Your 2010 Goals -Get into Simon's Rock -Get away from my mother -Get my double-back (flip) down pat -Grow wings -Do math homework on time -Do bio homework at all -Read all of the books currently on my to-read bookshelf -Be more active in the community (this'll have to come after the end of the school year, though, since I have no time this year) I wouldn't mind a boyfriend either But what happens happens. I'm not going to make it a goal since I can't make it happen.